Buzzing About HR

Counteroffers, Pay Pressure and Keeping Your Nerve


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In this episode of Buzzing About HR, we are talking about that moment every small business owner dreads. The kettle is on, payroll is tight, and an email lands with a counteroffer attached. July has a habit of doing this. Budgets are already set, cover is thin, and suddenly a competitor is waving a bit more money or the promise of Fridays off.

The temptation is to panic, match it, and hope for the best. The problem is that one quick yes can quietly set fire to your pay structure.

So this episode is about doing the opposite.

I walk you through a calm, repeatable way to make fair pay decisions that help you keep good people without breaking trust across the rest of the team.

We start with equal pay in plain English. Same work, similar work, or work of equal value means the same pay. And when someone says “market rate”, I talk about what real evidence looks like and why gut feel does not cut it.

From there, I take you through a simple decision flow you can use every time. Pause. Set a review date. Check the legal baseline. Be clear about the reason for any change. Look at the roles around it. Sense check gender pay risk. No drama. Just structure.

We then look at the different tools you can use depending on the situation. Sometimes it is a short-term retention payment. Sometimes it is moving the rate for the role and applying it fairly. Sometimes it is a step-up increase with clear expectations, or a temporary allowance with a proper end date. The point is to match the fix to the problem, not just throw money at the loudest moment.

I also call out the traps that cause chaos. Pay compression. Secret pay rises. And the dangerous habit where threatening to leave becomes the only way someone gets noticed.

If you run a small business or you are the HR team of one, this episode gives you a practical toolkit to bring daylight to pay decisions, reduce risk, and stop rumours before they start.

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Until next time, keep buzzing, and take care of your people.

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Buzzing About HRBy Kate Underwood