What if picking up your cross and following Jesus isn't just about spiritual disciplines, but about the hard work of staying together when it would be easier to walk away?
In this powerful message from Ephesians 4, Senior Pastor Sam Weitman unpacks why unity isn't just a nice idea—it's the first and most important value of the family of God.
After three chapters celebrating the mystery and majesty of Christ, Paul's instruction might seem underwhelming: "just put up with one another." But what Paul is calling us to is actually revolutionary.
✨The Marriage Analogy - Just as a wedding ceremony leads to the work of building a new life together, our salvation in Christ (chapters 1-3) leads to the call of living as a united family (chapters 4-6).
✨Be EAGER for Unity - Paul doesn't say "try not to cause trouble." He commands us to actively, relentlessly, repeatedly fight for unity without stopping.
✨Taking Up Your Cross - What if this means speaking well of those who attack you? Leaning in when it's easier to leave? Going back again and again in love?
✨Jesus Modeled It First - Jesus washed Judas' feet knowing he would betray Him. When we were His enemies with nothing good in us, Christ humbled Himself to death on a cross for us.
✨Love Doesn't Just Endure—It Fights - Love isn't just gritting your teeth and enduring. Love leans in, seeks to make things better, and goes again: when you're disrespected, when you're offended, when you're betrayed—again and again.
✨We're Family - The things that unite us (one body, one Spirit, one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God) are far greater than anything that could divide us. And family doesn't walk out on family.
THE BOTTOM LINE: Anyone can tear down. Anyone can walk away. But it takes someone truly dedicated to unity to build up and make things better. In the family of God, unity is of utmost importance—and that means we don't quit on each other.
This message will challenge how you think about conflict, disappointment, and the everyday frustrations of church life. Because the gospel doesn't just save us FROM something—it saves us FOR something: a family that fights for one another no matter what.