Couples Financial Coach Podcast

If you know an educator, it's likely you also are very aware of their ongoing internal tug-of-war between work-life balance and pay. E Danyall, a former adjunct professor and the primary breadwinner in her family, found a way out by creating online courses and sharing her knowledge online, instead of only in the classroom.

Now, it's E's mission to help other teachers leverage their knowledge toward a successful exit from the classroom. Or at least the freedom to choose.

She wants to empower educators to use their in-depth knowledge and experience to their advantage and finally earn what their expertise is worth.

Whether you're still suffering at that exhausting, low-paying job; thinking about making a transition and wondering how to make the jump; or wading through the early years of entrepreneurship and trying to get your business off the ground (or have a partner doing any of these things)...E Danyall has insight for you!

A few highlights:

- What it was like to go from being the highly-educated breadwinner with the career...to being home with much less income while she launched her online courses, including struggles with feelings of doubt, being burdensome, and fear...to becoming the entrepreneurial female breadwinner in the family. [8:41]

- How the "independent woman" mindset can accidentally be damaging toward the bond and the intrinsic support for each other in a relationship, and how open communication can get couples back on the same page. [14:32]

- What her husband said about her true value as a person, a woman, and a mother when she was feeling down about her financial contributions during the tough transition times. [25:10]

Read all the show notes, get E's links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

We all have a money story, and there are ALWAYS layers of emotions built-in. When we're in a relationship...oh, boy.

But there's a silver lining:

We can create more intimacy, trust, and connection by opening up about our money story -- and also being curious about someone else's money story and experience.

Still, when and how do you bring up the topic of money? What if it's a new relationship - you don't want to scare them away, right?

Today's guest, Kim Nicol, is a life coach with expertise in mindfulness and leadership. She is here to share tips about how, when, and why to bring up finances, especially when dating or in a new relationship.

She teaches us how to learn about our acquaintances, friends, and partners by asking curiosity-driven questions about their first job, holiday gifts, expectations, and memories.

A few highlights:

- How you can learn about someone's experiences and perspective on money by asking creative questions. [4:31]

- Kim's process of evaluating why you may want to know about the person's money perspective, and how to allow that to determine what you ask. [8:35]

- Her personal experience in bringing up holiday gifts with her partner before Christmas, the sweet gifts they exchanged, and how being open about the subject relieved building tension about money and the upcoming holiday season. [18:04]

Read all the show notes, get Kim's links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

What's your wisest investment? Most people think of their emergency fund, retirement account, or real estate. But Robin Taub is here to teach us about the importance of raising money-smart kids!

Why's that?

For starters: if and when adult children get in a bind, their money problems often become their parents' money problems. Heading this off with a solid financial education starts when they are very young.

Starting as young as age five, you can discuss simple math, delayed gratification, and the concept of trading money for things you want and need. Listen in as Robin Taub tells us how!

A Chartered Professional Accountant by training, Robin Taub began her career at KPMG, transitioned into real estate, and then landed in the complex world of derivatives marketing at Citibank Canada.

Today, she's a professional speaker and author of The Wisest Investment, an update of the bestselling A Parent's Guide to Raising Money-Smart Kids.

A few highlights:

- Parents have a duty and responsibility to raise financially educated, money-smart kids. If not, the kids and the parents wind up paying the price. And it's an expensive lesson for all involved. [2:37]

- How to share age-appropriate money lessons with children under the five pillars: Earn, Save, Spend, Share, and Invest [8:47]

- When we can slow down and connect with children over such a commonly-used, impactful tool like money, and look for opportunities to build money lessons into day-to-day life, we create a life-long bond over it. [24:11]

Read all the show notes, get Robin's links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast.

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

We're experiencing a shift in the traditional role of men as financial breadwinners and decision-makers. More women are breadwinners than ever before. And at an even faster rate, women are making their voices heard when it comes to family finances.

How can you transcend those traditional gender norms as smoothly as possible and create more equity in your relationship?

Today's guest, Teresa Lodato, has done the work in her personal life and now shares it with you!

She's a former stressed-out financial services executive. Now, she guides leaders to fully align with their inner knowing to optimize mental, emotional, and physical well-being.

Teresa's clients learn to create balanced and healthy relationships which promote effective communication and bridges to connection, including around money.

Since your health is tied directly to your financial stability, each partner's needs, opinions, and fears must be integral parts of the financial planning and implementation.

Money conversations can be tense, especially if a partner has experienced scarcity, loss, or fear around finances. Bring curiosity to each conversation, and you'll avoid jumping to conclusions, making assumptions, or starting an accidental argument!

Read all the show notes, get Teresa's links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

You've likely heard the term "money mindset" thrown around.

But what does it really mean, and how does it affect our relationships?

Luckily, our guest is Certified Divorce Specialist & Financial Therapy Association member Christine Luken! She has coached hundreds of high-earning professionals toward paying off staggering amounts of debt and massively increasing their wealth through the Financial Dignity® Movement.

In this episode, Christine shares:

- How we learned to interact with our family of origin, with those experiences forming our money blueprint at an extremely young age (around 7!);

- How that may affect our interactions with money, and therefore our relationships, too;

- How to create awareness about your money mindset + the questions to ask to learn about your spouse's money mindset; and,

- A nifty trick to stop emotional online spending.

When you uplevel your self-awareness and understanding, you'll be better able to navigate financial tension, manage each other's triggers, and problem-solve amicably!

Read the full show notes, snag Christine's links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

It's long been taboo to discuss money and salary among family and friends, but even more so at work. Luckily, stagnant generational patterns are fading and workplace policies are changing.

Nicole Babel started her coaching business after a successful career coaching salespeople and leading teams. She loves to work with 20 and 30 somethings to help them negotiate all the life that happens in those years.

As the founder of From Broke 2 Baller in Columbus, Ohio, she is well versed in how to appropriately bring up topics like pay equality, the gender wage gap, and asking for a raise at work. In today's episode, we're getting cozy with those previously uncomfortable conversations, thanks to Nicole!

Nicole talks about:

- How each different generation, from Baby Boomers, to GenX, to Millennials are gradually becoming more open to conversations about money and why.

- The transformation she's witnessed in the perspective of young men toward equity because they understand that as women rise to equality, the entire family reaps the rewards.

- What to say and how to keep the conversation with HR or your supervisor focused on you if you do find out someone makes more than you.

Read the full show notes, get Nicole's links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

Mental health and access to counseling has risen to the forefront of our attention over the past few years, a trend that was accelerated by the Covid_19 Pandemic.

Carrie Bock, LPC-MHSP of By The Well Counseling, is a Christian Licensed Professional Counselor who specializes in helping clients with anxiety and OCD overcome wounding childhood experiences via online counseling across Tennessee.

We dive into all things mental health, insurance coverage for counseling, and low-cost or free opportunities for counseling you probably didn't even know existed. As a couple, seeking help and remaining inside the budget is always a concern, but after you listen to this episode, you'll know all the tricks.

Carrie talks about:

- How to use your Employee Assistance Program Benefits through your employer to get confidential counseling for free without a mental health diagnosis.

- How to obtain counseling for reduced rates from university counselors, pre-licensed professionals, or recent graduates.

- How to find a therapist or counselor that aligns with your needs by asking tough questions and being open about your needs.

Find out more & read the full show notes at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

Would you like more lightness, joy, and clarity in your life around your finances and your life? Who wouldn't!

Today, Jenna Carlson, a Certified KonMari Consultant, helps us explore the important relationship between physical clutter and financial chaos!

The KonMari method is a systematic yet intuitive process of weeding through our physical belongings. For example, for things that no longer serve us or bring us joy, we thank them and get rid of them. This all helps us move to a more abundant mindset through decluttering our personal space.

Jenna talks about:- Decluttering on your own or with your partner

- Whether or not your partner needs to be on board

- What to expect if you embark upon the KonMari decluttering method

So much of our behavior as adults is a reflection of the way we grew up. That includes our financial habits, our health habits, and yes, even what we keep and how we keep our physical personal space.

Connect with Jenny, get some freebies, and find out more HERE!

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources from your host, Adam Kol, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

Note: This podcast was formerly known as The Equal Partners Podcast.

You've probably heard the phrase that business and pleasure don't mix.

Well, Abi Ventour is defying all those odds.

Abi is a Life and Relationship Support Coach for Intercultural Couple Entrepreneurs who want to build a legacy and run a thriving business together.

Abi and her husband look different; come from completely different background, and have very different strengths.

But that hasn't stopped them from enjoying life together, fostering a loving marriage, and opening the first authentic Indian restaurant on the island of Grenada.

Contrary to popular belief, Abi says that it's actually a good thing that you and your partner are different! Because as a team, you can combine those various strengths, hire help in any weaker areas, and create a passion project together.

She shares about how to put your marriage first; the benefits of going into business together; and how to keep frustrations at work from spilling over into the relationship.

Connect with Abi, get some freebies, and find out more HERE!

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources from your host, Adam Kol, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

Note: This podcast was formerly known as The Equal Partners Podcast.

Buying a home or purchasing rental property can be tempting while interest rates are low. However, there is so much more to consider beyond loan terms when it comes to real estate.

If you are curious about what it takes to purchase property, refinance, or get a HELOC (home equity line of credit), this episode is a must-listen.

Yulin Lee coaches women who are going through divorce, starting out on their own for the first time, or some other similar life change. She regularly helps clients to understand the value of liquid assets versus home equity and to decide which is best for their particular situation.

In this episode, we dive into a few home-budget line items, emergency funds, hidden costs of homeownership, and even the hidden benefits of owning real estate!

Connect with Yulin, get some freebies, and find out more HERE!

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How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE!

And for more money & relationships resources from your host, Adam Kol, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com

Note: This podcast was formerly known as The Equal Partners Podcast.