Couples Therapy In Seven Words

For the video of this episode, visit https://brucechalmer.com/satya-lila/.

What is sacred sex, and how can couples explore its possibilities? Our guest in this episode, Satya Lila, teaches about sacred sexuality, its benefits for individuals and couples, and techniques that help it happen.

Satya’s website is https://satyalila.info/.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

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RESOURCES FROM DR. BRUCE CHALMER:

If your relationship is facing a passionless phase, deep resentment, or an active crisis, find clarity with these private, self-paced tools and video roadmaps.

Feeling like roommates? Pinpoint if you are facing an intimacy deficit or stability crisis with this free 2-page guide.

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/clarity-check-request/

💔 Rebuilding Trust After Cheating (Betrayal & Forgiveness):

If your marriage suffered a sudden fracture from infidelity, emotional affairs, or broken secrets, watch the free overview video lesson here:

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/betrayal-and-forgiveness/

🤔 Should I Stay or Leave? (Relationship Discernment):

Stuck in relationship limbo, facing marriage deal-breakers, or trying to decide if it's healthy to work on it or call it quits? Explore this clinical framework:

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/discernment/

🔥 How to Fix a Sexless Marriage (The Passion Paradox, Reigniting the Spark):

If you love each other but the emotional warmth and physical desire have faded, learn how to break the "death spiral for passion" here:

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/the-passion-paradox-course/

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/reigniting-the-spark/

Connect with relationship psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer online to read free guides, stream podcast episodes, or inquire about direct couples consultations at https://brucechalmer.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/tantra-katrina-bos/.

When people hear “tantra,” at least in Western cultures, they usually think about techniques for mind-blowing sex. Our guest in this episode, Katrina Bos, does teach about tantric approaches to sex, but she recognizes that tantra is a spiritual path for living life in all its aspects, not just the sexual. Katrina points out that our seven words, “Be kind, don’t panic, and have faith,” map very well onto the ideas of tantra. And besides that, she explains her book title, You Don’t Have to Eat the Eyeballs!

Katrina’s website is https://www.katrinabos.ca/.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

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RESOURCES FROM DR. BRUCE CHALMER:

If your relationship is facing a passionless phase, deep resentment, or an active crisis, find clarity with these private, self-paced tools and video roadmaps.

Feeling like roommates? Pinpoint if you are facing an intimacy deficit or stability crisis with this free 2-page guide.

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/clarity-check-request/

💔 Rebuilding Trust After Cheating (Betrayal & Forgiveness):

If your marriage suffered a sudden fracture from infidelity, emotional affairs, or broken secrets, watch the free overview video lesson here:

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/betrayal-and-forgiveness/

🤔 Should I Stay or Leave? (Relationship Discernment):

Stuck in relationship limbo, facing marriage deal-breakers, or trying to decide if it's healthy to work on it or call it quits? Explore this clinical framework:

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/discernment/

🔥 How to Fix a Sexless Marriage (The Passion Paradox, Reigniting the Spark):

If you love each other but the emotional warmth and physical desire have faded, learn how to break the "death spiral for passion" here:

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/the-passion-paradox-course/

👉 https://brucechalmer.com/reigniting-the-spark/

Connect with relationship psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer online to read free guides, stream podcast episodes, or inquire about direct couples consultations at https://brucechalmer.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/mb-caschetta/.

Our guest for this episode, MB Caschetta, was shocked to find out that she had been disinherited by her father. We talk about how that betrayal affected her, and her journey toward healing, forgiveness, and spiritual growth.

MB’s website is https://www.mbcaschetta.com/.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/shanenn-bryant/.

Our guest today, Shanenn Bryant, describes herself as  “a former insecure girl turned relationship confidence expert.” Through her own experiences of healing from toxic jealousy, Shanenn has developed resources to help her clients make the changes they need to gain confidence and improve their relationships.

Shanenn’s website is https://www.topself.com/.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/judy-comes-out/.

In this brief episode, we re-introduce the podcast, and offer you a chance to win a free gift. And (ta-da!) Judy reveals a secret we’ve been keeping for months! (No, she’s not pregnant.)

Want to comment? Argue? Complain? Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/danny-j/.

Betrayal can happen in a lot of ways, and our guest in this episode, Danny-J Johnson, tells us about her own experiences and what she has learned from them. Danny found out as a teenager that her biological father was a sperm donor, and then as an adult discovered through DNA testing that she has dozens of biological half-siblings. She also went through discovering that her then-husband was having an affair. She talks about how those experiences—finding out her parents had lied to her about who her biological father was, and later finding out that her husband was cheating—have affected her, in terms of both pain and gain.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/lisa-gray/.

How can conflict be healthy for a couple? Our guest, Lisa Gray, tells us about how she helps couples learn the skills of healthy conflict. Lisa’s book is Healthy Conflict, Happy Couple: How to Let Go of Blame and Grow Stronger Together.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/larry-bilotta/.

How can one person change a marriage? Our guest, Larry Bilotta, used his own experience of transforming a “marriage hell” into a thriving partnership to develop ideas to help people heal their relationships by healing themselves.

Larry’s website is https://larrybilotta.com.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/emily-hart/.

Our guest, Emily Hart, tells us what she learned from a series of relationships that went badly, how she turned her life around with the help of some powerful therapeutic modalities, and how she has gone on to help others. She tells us how she uses Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) and hypnotherapy in her work as a coach and trainer. And there’s a happy-ending story!

Emily’s website is https://www.emilyhartcoaching.com/.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/sex-therapy-and-the-gottman-method-an-interview-with-dr-heidi-sauder/.

Our guest in this episode is Dr. Heidi Sauder, a psychologist and sex therapist who works with couples. Dr. Sauder is trained and certified in the Gottman Method, an approach to couples therapy pioneered by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Dr. Sauder tells us how her training and experience in sex therapy and her knowledge of the Gottman method influence how she helps couples.

Dr. Sauder’s book is Adventures in Sex: Journaling to Create Desire, Passion, Romance…And A Fun Sex Life.

Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage.

Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.