Relationship Truth: Unfiltered

Courage in Crisis

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The Hidden Depths of Addiction
  • Discovery of her husband's addiction
  • Struggles with expectations of respect and family values, especially within the church setting
    • Facing Anger and Abuse
    • Anger and threats escalate
  • Irrational anger
  • Psychological and physical toll of the marriage
    • The Impact on Children
    • Tansil's fear and realization of the impact on her children
  • Protective actions taken to shield her children from the abuse
    • Recognizing Red Flags
    • Reflection on early warning signs before and soon after marriage
  • Importance of identifying and not ignoring red flags in relationships
    • The Turning Point: Seeking Safety
    • Seeing the truth
  • Initial steps towards seeking help and legal separation
    • Legal Separation and Its Aftermath
    • Hiring an attorney and filing for legal separation
  • Emotional and practical challenges of separating from an abusive spouse
  • Experiences with victim services and legal protection
    • Support Systems and Conquer Community
    • Participation in Conquer and the support gained from the community
  • Key lessons and validations received from fellow survivors
  • Importance of staying anchored in reality and implementing safety plans
    • The Role of Faith and Church
    • Challenges with pastoral support and their often inadequate response to abuse
  • Importance of faith and prayer in Tansil's journey
  • Positive and negative experiences with church leadership
    • Final Thoughts and Advice
    • Encouragement to listeners to trust their gut instincts and prioritize safety
  • Advice on not dismissing red flags and recognizing one's own worth
  • Final reflections and call to action for women in similar situations to seek help and support
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    Relationship Truth: UnfilteredBy Leslie Vernick