*Please forgive the exasperated sighs. Sometimes I just get exhausted with nonsense!

Today's episode is a brief recap of some things I experienced during my month-long hiatus, and then we jump right into the directional nature of power. 

Check out the following resources mentioned in my podcast:

Must read alert-  White Rage: The Unspoken Truth of Our Racial Divide by Carol Anderson

Check out my friend Amber Webb Sims (Amber Webb Booker) on her podcast Broke-ish

"Bearing witness to testimonies of antiblackness," by Candace Jordan. January 21, 2021

"Tone policing is a little-known microaggression that's common in the workplace — here's how to identify it," by Janice Gassam Asare, PhD. Aug 17, 2020

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*My grandma is currently alive/this is not a tribute*

Join me in this cathartic journey and receive all of the permission/space you need to express feelings about some of your loved ones that you may have kept suppressed for far too long. Please forgive me if my voice gets a lil shaky at points; this one is deeply personal. 

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What do the Scriptures say about your Body Mass Index? Spoiler alert: NOTHING. Today's episode is the encore performance of the morality series, where I discuss morality around thin body types. 

If you want more information on the history of fatphobia and diet culture, check out "Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia" by Sabrina Strings. 

I also strongly encourage this fun, inciteful read "The F-It Diet: Eating Should be Easy" by Caroline Dooner. 

I also follow a few of these influencers as well:

Lauren Leavell

Lindo Bacon

Diets Don't Work Haes

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In this episode, I am continuing the morality series with a discussion about the morality surrounding hair. I barely scratched the surface of this topic, but check these articles out that I referenced throughout:

"Good Hair vs Bad Hair" by Serena Mushigo November 11, 2020

"What is 'Good Hair'?" by Perception Institute

"The roots of 'good hair' are about survival, not beauty" by TheGrio Staff October 9, 2009

"'Freed from the Secret': Rep. Ayanna Pressley Opens Up About Living with Alopecia" by Merrit Kennedy January 17, 2020

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As per usual, sex and religion and culture and relationships usually need a bit more time. Listen to this second part with my friend, Barry Vanderable, (@djcrunkable on twitter and IG) as we explore the consequences of purity culture in relationships.

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On this episode I explore my own personal view and experiences at the intersection of faith, respectability politics, and sex. I brought an old friend, Barry Vanderable, (@djcrunkable on twitter and IG) to join me as we talk about the very real ways purity culture shows up in interpersonal relationships. 

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This week's episode will dive into the particulars of poor-shaming, attitudes and activities that are "classy" if you are rich v. "trashy" if you are not, and give my ironclad definitions for the differences between classes. 

We discussed some twitter threads and responses to the trashy v. classy debate:

https://www.themarysue.com/twitter-trashy-vs-classy-economic-divide/

https://www.boredpanda.com/classy-if-rich-trashy-if-poor-answers/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic

https://www.businessinsider.com/viral-twitter-thread-double-standards-between-rich-poor-trashy-classy-2020-7

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Join me as I discuss several different types of privilege and what it means for your sense of belonging. 

Resources from the show:

Forms of Privilege a compilation by Media Smarts

"Different Types of Privilege, Including White Privilege - Explained" by Erin Bunch. July 14, 2020

Bechdel Test Movie List 

"What Thin Privilege Really Means" by Christy Harrison, MPH RD CEDRD. May 7, 2019

"22 Examples of Thin Privilege" by Shannon Ridgway. November 30, 2012

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We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to call things what they are (hate crimes) and encourage allyship and support - not just on a macrolevel but also in your interpersonal relationships. 

Also including an important article to help you understand intersectionality, "Racism, sexism must be considered in Atlanta case involving killing of six Asian women, experts say" By Kimmy Yam. 

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Everything has changed from the way we think about work to the way we think about trust. Join me as I look back over the past year during the pandemic. 

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