Courtship Code

By Courtship Code

Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with... more

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August 05, 2024 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Embracing Shadow Self S7E29
Limiting beliefs can keep you stuck in a cycle of pain and self-doubt. For Muslim women, these beliefs might be influenced by cultural and societal expectations, making them even more challenging to overcome. Limiting beliefs are those negative thoughts that hold you back. They might sound like, "I’m not good enough," or "I’ll never find love again."
These beliefs often stem from past experiences and can be deeply ingrained. The first step to overcoming them is to identify them. Pay attention to your self-talk and challenge those negative thoughts.
In this episode we explore how to overcome limiting beliefs so you can attract love and marriage.
6 Week Breakup Transformation Mini Course
https://6-week-breakup-transformation.teachable.com/p/6-week-breakup-transformation
Join The Captivating Courtship Code community
Https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Book a 1 Hour Total Package Confidence Session
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18min
July 29, 2024 Forgiveness and Gratitude: Finding the Gifts in Your Breakup S7E28
6 Week Breakup Transformation Mini Course
https://6-week-breakup-transformation.teachable.com/p/6-week-breakup-transformation
Join The Captivating Courtship Code community
Https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Book a 1 Hour Total Package Confidence Session
https://total-package-confidence.teachable.com/purchase?product_id=5646118
...more
21min
July 22, 2024 Understanding Breakups: The First Step to Healing S7E27
Whether you saw it coming or it hit you out of nowhere, the end of a relationship can leave you feeling lost and in pain.
Understanding why breakups happen and how to navigate them can be the first step towards healing and personal growth.
Today, we'll explore the psychological and emotional aspects of breakups, why they happen, and how you can start the healing process.
Today’s Episode will help to gain more clarity and the first steps to heal and move forward.
6 Week Breakup Transformation Mini Course
https://6-week-breakup-transformation.teachable.com/p/6-week-breakup-transformation
Join The Captivating Courtship Code community
Https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Book a 1 Hour Total Package Confidence Session
https://total-package-confidence.teachable.com/purchase?product_id=5646118
...more
29min
July 02, 2024 LoveMe Love Loop Relationship Pattern 101 S7E26
LoveMes are hopeless romantics, codependents, who seek validation through feeling needed. LoveMes love the idea of love, and find themselves swept into romantic fantasies with little required from a potential partner in order to feel committed or valued.
LoveMes love a relationship project, a partner they believe they can improve and make better, simply being a support system to fix a partner’s life. They try to see the good in partners, and will sacrifice their own wants and needs in order to make sure their partner, and everyone around them, has their needs met and feels secure.
This makes them prone to low quality attraction, settling, friend zone, and being someone’s “big comfy couch.”
Learn more about this relationship pattern on this episode.
Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on Instagram
Join The Captivating Courtship Code community
Https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
...more
36min
June 24, 2024 Avoider Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E25
Avoiders are committed to their independence, fear of rejection, and the belief that their must authentic selves would never be fully valued or loved. They uphold a shell of their identity in order to protect themselves from judgment and avoid their discomfort with their full truth, not from a place of arrogance but from fear of rejection. Avoiders have a difficult time with emotional intimacy and typically feel overwhelmed when relationships get too close or when lots of emotional expression takes place. When this happens Avoiders will shut down, withdraw or avoid any perceived conflict in hopes of feeling safe. Especially if their partner is highly emotionally reactive.
In this episode you will learn about the Avoider Love Loop and how to transform it.
Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on Instagram
Join The Captivating Courtship Code community
Https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap
FREE Courtship Loops download
⁠https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10⁠
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46min
June 17, 2024 Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E24
The Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern has an anxious attachment style and is a pattern type that oftentimes uses sexual attraction and desirability as a way to leverage power and validation during the dating and courtship process. While this may seem common for some, the guilt, shame and abandonment cycle that someone with the Sexual Love Loop experiences post encounter is what makes this a painful self-sabotaging relationship pattern.
In this episode you will learn the basics of the Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern.
Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on Instagram
Join The Loop membership community
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loop
FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap
FREE Courtship Loops download
⁠https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10⁠
...more
43min
June 10, 2024 Adapter Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E23
Most adapters toggle between anxious and avoidant behaviors and think of relationships like reality shows, full of drama and better to watch and observe than to participate. They are students of relationships (romantic, friendships, social activities) more than actively engaging in them.
If you’re an adapter, you may have a tendency to take on other people’s problems and find yourself adapting to negative mindsets and beliefs when it comes to relationships, inspite your actual relationship experiences or lack thereof.
In this episode you will learn how to turn this around so you can attract love and marriage.
Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on Instagram
Join The Loop membership community
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loop
FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap
FREE Courtship Loops download
⁠https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10⁠
...more
34min
June 04, 2024 Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E22
Those with the Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern tend to be very confident on the surface, while deep down inside secretly struggling with low self-worth particularly when it comes to getting emotional needs met. Vulnerability, empathy and communicating relationship needs are some of the core wounds and challenges a Too Good must face while navigating the dating and courtship process.
In this episode you will learn all about the Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern.
Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on Instagram
Join The Loop membership community
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loop
FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap
FREE Courtship Loops download
⁠https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10⁠
...more
50min
May 27, 2024 Trophy Chaser Love Loop Testimonial: Owning Your Unique Fairytale to Marriage S7E21
In this episode we have a deep dive conversation with a CCC alum who shares her unique journey to love and marriage. She shares how the knowing who your person is doesn't mean you won't have to do the inner work to align with your journey to love and marriage. You will learn how this couple turned their breakup into a major breakthrough and learned to navigate healing and commitment for their love story.
Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on Instagram
Join The Loop membership community
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loop
FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap
FREE Courtship Loops download
⁠https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10⁠
...more
52min
May 20, 2024 Burnout Loop 101: Dating and Courtship S7E20
If you have been feeling unmotivated with dating and courtship, been ghosted, or not getting past 4-6 weeks of the dating and courtship process you may be in the courtship Burnout loop.
When you are in a dating and courtship burnout loop you will find yourself consistently having to start over from short-lived dating experiences, feeling not good enough for the partners you meet, or feeling lost and confused about where to meet the right partners for you.
However, this relationship pattern is less about where to meet someone you're interested in and more so about what beliefs do you have about your self-worth, shadows, and triggers in relationships that need to be healed so you can feel fully worthy and deserving of the love you deserve.
In this episode you will learn the basics of dating and courtship burnout and how to break this courtship pattern so you can progress in your love life and believe in love again.
DM “QUIZ” on Instagram to take the Relationship Pattern Assessment
Other links:
⁠Book a 1:1 Love Loops guidance session⁠
12 week Private Coaching Consultation
⁠The Loop membership community⁠
⁠Join the Captivating Courtship Code waitlist⁠
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45min

FAQs about Courtship Code:

How many episodes does Courtship Code have?

The podcast currently has 316 episodes available.