Courtship Code

Has being guarded and having trust issues been sabotaging your love life and blocking your chances at a dream relationship? Have you completely lost trust with yourself and a disconnection from your intuition and have no idea when or if you’ll ever feel motivated to open your heart to a man again? Many women experience painful or traumatic relationship and dating/courtship experiences that makes them run away from love. This lack of trust and motivation is the exact reason you’ll continue to either block your future relationship or continue attracting the wrong relationships that proves you shouldn’t trust men or yourself when it comes to love. The good thing is, you can turn this around. This episode shares what you need to know about trust issues, feeling guarded, and blocking the love you desire.

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If you’ve been in a space of doing, fixing, suggesting, and proving you’re good enough with men then you’ve been operating in your wounded princess energy. This energy is total sabotage and can make you feel anxious, fearful of abandonment, and powerless with men. Part of the problem is you put men on a pedestal and aren’t showing up in your value. The other reason may be you’re too activated in your masculine energy and feeling the need to manage and control the relationship. This sounds harsh, but it’s a reality that has to change if you want a quality relationship with a man who is in his masculine energy so you can relax and be the captivating queen that you are. In this episode you’ll learn 4 tips to turn this wounded princess energy around.

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The relationship with your parents can have a major impact on how you attract men, lack boundaries, and the ways you may be sabotaging your love life. This can be a shocking reality for some, but even those from stable two parent households can mirror behaviors or patterns that contradicts the outcomes they want from men and relationships. If you want more from your relationships, yet, you seem to consistently attract partners who aren’t emotionally available, activate relationship anxiety, or you fear commitment and tend to avoid men and courtship then this is the episode for you.

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Many ambitious, intelligent women run into a courtship rut where they feel they’re in cycles of meeting men who only like the idea of them and not the real them. This is a common statement and can concern women who have the Trophy Passion Attraction Prototype. You want a man who is open and emotionally available, yet, men appear to be more concerned with how you’d represent them and the trophy you’d be for their life that you don’t feel they’re invested in truly getting to know and value you the true, authentic version of you. The secret is, this isn’t as much about the men you’re meeting as it is about how you’re showing up and attracting men. We dive deeply into this on today’s episode.

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Attracting the same type of men every time is saying something about your present choices. On today’s episode, Ayesha, a student of the Captivating Courtship Code, shares her experience of healing from a toxic marriage in her past and becoming emotionally available again.

To begin with, just like most of us, she thought, “There are no good men out there for me” or “Why do I attract the same toxic men every time?”. It was not until the quarantine that she had the space and time to reflect internally. She used this time to connect with herself. She realized the need to be healthy - mind, body, soul - in order to attract healthy relationships.

Ayesha had been to therapy and found it helpful with her mental health. However, coaching equipped her with the skills needed to navigate courtship after living through a toxic marriage. Unlike therapy, coaching was specific to her needs, it was structured and action-oriented.

While working on herself, she realized that she wanted to be a woman of power who did not have to dominate someone to prove a point. She believes that to date, she gets through her rough days because of the self-work she did back then.

Unlike her previous relationships, she has valuable men courting her now. What’s different this time is how secure, safe, and confident she feels while being courted. She knows she wants a partner but one who is authentically aligned with her values and belief system. In an impactful statement, Ayesha says that despite being the one pursued, the power of choice is with her as her anxieties and avoidance are not controlling her anymore.

It truly can get chaotic and emotionally overwhelming trying to heal from a past toxic relationship but Ayesha tells us there is a bright light at the end of what might initially seem like an endless tunnel. These feelings are valid and it is necessary to hold space for them.

Tune into today’s episode for a deeper glance at Ayesha’s healing and her fresh start with the courtship process!

Time Stamps for this episode:

00:00 - Introduction

2:25 - Ayesha’s Introduction

3:15 - How she decided that she was ready to work on herself

4:57 - “There’s no good men out there” were her initial thoughts

5:30 - The effect quarantine had on her self reflection

6:09 - Healthy attracts healthy

6:49 - How she became a part of the Captivating Courtship Code Community

8:00 - Ayesha felt the need of courtship skills

10:00 - Therapy VS Coaching

13:52 - Changes she started seeing in herself

17:15 - She did not want to dominate to prove a point

19:02 - How she gets through rough days even now

20:27 - Her current take on her dating life

23:47 - How she feels about the options she has now VS the experiences she’s had

26:26 - What to do when there are no red flags

30:00 - Conclusion

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