Why do smart, successful women attract toxic men? Why do good girls love bad guys? Despite what you may think it's not always as simple to break up with your childhood as you may desire. In actuality, toxic partners prefer high quality partners, and not the weakest link. Today, we discuss 5 reasons you may be attracting toxic relationships despite your career success. Follow Zara on Instagram @_zaraj_ Book your FREE discovery call at www.captivatingcourtship.com/woundstoworth or send an email to schedule your call. Want to watch the FREE Masterclass? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com

New season means a new opportunity to get the stress and sweat of the summer off of you can turn a new leaf with your relationship habits.

Just like any other good or bad habit we’ve developed overtime, we also have relationship habits. So this week’s episode is about creating new, and healthy relationship habits that you can commit to before the year is out, even if you’re not currently seeing anyone.

Before we get into the 5 habits I’ll be sharing today let’s talk about how habits are formed.

Visit captivatingcourtship.com to watch the FREE Masterclass or book a discovery call and get started with captivating courtship code coaching. Follow Zara on Instagram @_zaraj_

Could you use an extra $5k a year?Financial Coach, Tasha Kinnard, brings us the mindset and approach to start making money moves and teaches how it starts with mindset. Tasha exposes how unmarried women have the upper hand to start getting ahold of their finances and leverage their spending money to increase a minimum of $5k a year. We had a ton of fun talking money, relationships, and how your childhood impacts it all! Follow Tasha @yourfinancesis on Instagram and follow Zara @_zaraj_ visit [email protected] for the FREE Masterclass or signup for the Captivate Courtship weekend

On this week's episode of the Courtship Code podcast we share with pastor, speaker, singer, and brand strategist Rachel Yvonne. Rachel is amazing at being fully authentic and shares some lessons with the importance of owning your story and embracing shame and guilt. Learning to embrace your shame and guilt in order to feel more authentic is extremely important in all areas of life, especially with relationships. Working towards becoming more authentic allows you to attract more compatible partners. Subscribe to Courtship Code and leave us a review! Follow Rachel on Instagram @rachelyvonne and follow Zara @_zaraj_

Hey everyone, I was led to share a very personal forgiveness story in this episode because I know so many listeners are burdened by a lack of forgiveness. I want you to listen to and share this episode with someone you know who needs to learn about forgiveness. This was SUPER intimate and personal for me, so I thank you for listening and allowing me to share my story in order to help your story. The captivating courtship program and FREE masterclass is about to launch and I would love for you to join me in this journey. Follow me on _zaraj_ to join the program or the masterclass by clicking the link in my bio

Do you want to attract better matches on online dating sites? We have created a FREE Popping profile cheat sheet for you to download as a go to checklist to enhance your profile. In this episode I share with you 3 ways to maximize your profile plus a reminder to get over the fear of being seen. These tips include: 1. Photo tips 2. High energy words 3. Non specific description you can get your FREEBIE Popping Profiles cheat sheet on our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/popping profiles. Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety or @_zaraj_

Do you know how to play your position? In this week's episode we share 3 ways to get out of your own way and start playing your position. You can checkout the Free Attract Your Match webinar at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/podcast/s2e14 www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/attractyourmatch Follow on Instagram @_zaraj_ @blackmuslimsinglessociety you can join the Match Society at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Top 3 reasons people avoid playing their position: 1. Fear of being seen 2. Procrastination 3. Clarity

Listen, I understand how easily it is to get emotionally triggered because you're not in the relationship you desire, but as one of my favorite rap lyric goes..."I'm not the captain of the yacht but I'm on the boat." You're still In the game. You have to practice gratitude for your courtship journey and relationships on your road to marriage. Youre probably doing better than most in your love life if you really look around. Just know, and trust, good is on the way. If you haven't already, go through the Detox program workshop on our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com or download the Match Manual www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/matchmanual follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety and @_zaraj_

Have you ever felt like you're meeting the same types of people, experiencing the same relationships or courtships, and are going through deja vu experiences in your love life? That means that you're experiencing tests in your courtships that's telling you it's time to change up whatever behavior you're continuing to repeat and increase your self worth and make different choices that reflect that you deserve what you desire. Visit our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com to enroll in The Match Society, Detox Program, or the Match Manual follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety and @_zaraj_

It's been a long time coming! I wanted to share with everyone details about the new Match Society, how I'm pivoting in my career, and what that means for the future of Black Muslim Singles Society.

The journey over the past 4 years working with unmarried men and women has been rewarding and even at times a little frustrating. However, the good has always far outweighed the bad! After a lot of thinking and changes in my personal life I have finally made the decision to pivot and expand. I will tell you all about it in this episode of the Courtship Code.

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