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In this episode, the guests discuss their memories of 9/11 and how they help people in their respective fields. They share their feelings when helping others and reflect on why they were called to help. They also open up about personal experiences with loss and how it has shaped their desire to make a difference. The conversation highlights the importance of finding purpose in helping others and the impact it can have on both the giver and the recipient. The conversation explores the importance of vulnerability and how it can lead to personal growth and connection with others. It emphasizes the need to take care of oneself and seek support from trusted friends and professionals. The power of authentic relationships and the impact they have on mental health is discussed. The conversation also touches on the different approaches individuals have when seeking help and the importance of finding good healthcare providers who prioritize patient well-being. In this conversation, the importance of collaboration and teamwork is highlighted, with the idea of bringing together different professionals to address various aspects of health and wellness. The concept of being a force multiplier is discussed, emphasizing the positive impact that one person can have on others. The ripple effect of living authentically and vulnerably is explored, with the understanding that one's actions can inspire and influence those around them. The challenges of being a woman in your 30s are acknowledged, including societal expectations and the need to navigate traditional gender roles. The conversation concludes with a reflection on leaving a positive impact and legacy, with a focus on making a difference in the lives of others.

Takeaways

Vulnerability is key to personal growth and building connections with others.
Taking care of oneself is crucial in order to effectively help others.
Seeking support from trusted friends and professionals is important when facing challenges.
Authentic relationships have a significant impact on mental health and well-being.
Different individuals have different approaches to seeking help, and it is important to find what works best for oneself.
Finding good healthcare providers who prioritize patient well-being is essential. Collaboration and teamwork are essential in addressing various aspects of health and wellness.
Being a force multiplier means having a positive impact that amplifies the efforts of others.
Living authentically and vulnerably can create a ripple effect, inspiring and influencing those around you.
Women in their 30s face unique challenges, including societal expectations and navigating traditional gender roles.
Leaving a positive impact and legacy involves making a difference in the lives of others.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background
03:04 Memories of 9/11
08:02 How They Help People
14:05 Feelings When Helping Others
28:03 Personal Experiences with Loss and Coping
34:49 Finding Purpose in Helping Others
37:41 The Importance of Vulnerability
43:32 Taking Care of Yourself
48:24 Seeking Help from Others
56:59 The Power of Authentic Relationships
01:08:21 Finding Support in Friends
01:10:09 Different Approaches to Seeking Help
01:13:12 Differentiating Between Good and Bad Healthcare Providers
01:15:24 The Importance of Collaboration and Teamwork
01:19:04 Being a Force Multiplier
01:20:53 The Ripple Effect of Living Authentically
01:25:01 Challenges of Being a Woman in Your 30s
01:28:55 Navigating Gender Roles and Identity
01:37:30 Leaving a Positive Impact and Legacy
01:44:05 Sam's Impact on the Guests

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Brad Bonar, a comedian and former gym owner, discusses his experiences owning a kickboxing fitness gym and surviving the challenges of COVID-19. He shares stories about the community he built at the gym and the impact of inflation on his business. Brad also talks about his comedic influences and his style of storytelling comedy. He discusses the connection between comedy and depression and how he uses comedy as a form of therapy. Brad shares memories of his father and the lessons he learned from him. He also discusses the importance of finding a grounding place and practicing meditation to deal with depression.  He shares his personal journey with depression and how he found solace under a tree. He then discusses the creation of One Degree of Separation, a comedy show that addresses depression and suicide. Brad explains the importance of conversation and the impact it can have on individuals struggling with mental health. He also highlights the power of using humor to address difficult topics and shares his vision for expanding the reach of One Degree of Separation. Finally, Brad reflects on the role of comedians as cowboys, constantly moving from town to town to bring laughter to others.

Takeaways:

• Finding a quiet place in nature can provide solace and grounding during difficult times.
• One Degree of Separation is a non profit organization that addresses depression and suicide, aiming to create conversation and provide tools for individuals to discuss mental health.
• Conversation and connection can be powerful tools in supporting individuals struggling with mental health.
• Humor can be a healing and empowering force, allowing individuals to find strength and resilience in difficult situations.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background
02:54 Owning a Kickboxing Fitness Gym
06:01 Surviving COVID-19
07:42 Closing the Gym and Dealing with Inflation
10:02 Creating a Community at the Gym
11:26 Finding Inspiration from Other Comedians
16:33 Learning Comedy from Erik Myers
19:25 The Connection Between Comedy and Depression
21:41 Influences and Style of Comedy
25:23 Writing and Performing Comedy
28:03 Different Audiences and Clean vs. Dirty Comedy
31:28 Growing Up with an Outlier Father
34:43 Surviving and Thriving in Difficult Circumstances
38:05 Memories of Brad's Father
40:28 Dealing with Depression and Meditation
41:25 Finding Solace Under the Tree
47:02 One Degree of Separation
51:17 The Power of Conversation
56:17 Using Comedy to Address Depression
01:07:58 Expanding the Reach of One Degree of Separation
01:13:20 The Healing Power of Humor
01:15:44 Comedians as Cowboys

To learn more please visit:  https://www.1degreeofseparation.life/

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In this conversation, Danielle Jensen shares her journey of battling ovarian cancer and dealing with other health challenges. She worked for Sam and discusses her experiences during her time with him.  Danielle talks about her diagnosis, the side effects of chemotherapy, and the emotional impact of losing her hair.  She also shares her experiences with pulmonary embolism, pulmonary hypertension, and the surgery she underwent to treat her condition.  Danielle opens up about questioning her faith and the importance of having a patient advocate when dealing with medical professionals.  The conversation explores themes of trust, fear, reflection, faith, and political beliefs. It delves into the contrast between trusting Google and believing in the Bible, the fear of death and the afterlife, reflecting on life's chances, sharing personal beliefs and faith, the emasculation of men, and the importance of not looking for a political savior.

Takeaways

• Having a patient advocate can be crucial when dealing with complex medical conditions.
• Side effects of chemotherapy can include joint pain, nausea, and hair loss.
• Questioning one's faith during challenging times is a natural part of the journey.
• Open and honest communication with medical professionals is important for understanding and managing one's condition.
• Googling medical conditions can provide information, but it's important to rely on reputable sources and consult with healthcare professionals. Trust in something greater than technology and popular opinion.
• Confront and understand the fear of death and the afterlife.
• Reflect on how you are using your chances and heartbeats in life.
• Share your beliefs and faith with others, especially during challenging times.
• Explore the impact of societal expectations on masculinity.
• Shift focus from seeking a political savior to finding solace in Jesus.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction
03:00 Working for Sam Fischer
06:00 Challenges and Diagnosis
09:00 Ovarian Cancer and Treatment
13:00 Side Effects of Chemotherapy
16:00 Hair Loss and Coping
19:00 Pulmonary Embolism and Pulmonary Hypertension
22:00 CTEP and Surgery
27:00 Seizure and Recovery
37:00 Questioning Faith
42:00 Communication with Medical Professionals
45:00 Googling Medical Conditions
45:47 Trust in Google vs. Belief in the Bible
46:46 Fear of Death and the Afterlife
48:10 Reflecting on Life's Chances
49:05 Sharing Beliefs and Faith
50:02 The Emasculation of Men
50:55 Stop Looking for a Political Savior

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In this episode, Sam with the help of Chad Bishoff,  interviews Ian Kidder, a 19-year-old college student, about his experiences and perspectives as a member of Generation Z. They discuss the impact of social media on relationships, the pressure and anxiety it can cause, and the importance of face-to-face conversations. Ian also shares his views on saving and investing, as well as his definition of bravery in speaking the truth. They touch on the challenges of discussing controversial topics and the differences in open conversations between generations. They also delve into the idea of standing out and conforming, and the potential consequences of making life-altering decisions at a young age. The conversation touches on the role of government in personal choices and the importance of age and wisdom in decision-making. The speakers also discuss the impact of social media and news on the younger generation's hope and outlook on the future.

Takeaways

Social media can create pressure and anxiety, leading to a fear of expressing oneself fully.

Face-to-face conversations are valuable for building genuine connections and understanding others.

Saving and investing at a young age can provide financial security and future opportunities.

Bravery is speaking the truth and being open to hearing different perspectives.

Generational differences can impact the willingness to engage in open conversations.

Making life-altering decisions at a young age can have long-term consequences, and it is important to consider the reasons behind such decisions.

Hope and laughter are essential in navigating the challenges and uncertainties of life.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background
02:30 First Impressions of Ian
05:16 The Importance of Genuine Conversations
08:33 The Impact of Social Media on Relationships
13:14 The Pressure and Anxiety of Social Media
17:35 The Fear of Expressing Opinions
22:17 The Value of Face-to-Face Conversations
25:43 The Importance of Saving and Investing
32:51 Bravery in Speaking the Truth
39:43 Generational Differences in Open Conversations
45:03 The Challenges of Discussing Controversial Topics
49:49 Understanding Beliefs and Transitions
50:19 Transitioning and Change
51:15 Reasons for Transitioning
52:14 Standing Out and Conforming
52:44 Making Decisions at a Young Age
53:07 The Importance of Age and Wisdom
53:34 The Unknown Consequences of Transitioning
54:20 Acceptance and Hypocrisy
55:19 The Fear of Change
56:36 Increased Awareness and Understanding
57:35 The Role of Government and Personal Choice
58:36 The Uncertainty of Youth
59:33 Making Life-Altering Decisions
01:00:31 The Happiness of Transitioned Individuals
01:01:22 Running from Insecurities
01:02:29 Hope and Uncertainty in the Younger Generation
01:03:45 The Impact of Social Media and News
01:08:28 The Importance of Laughter and Hope
01:15:26 Dinner with Interesting Personalities

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The panel discussion explores the emasculation of men in America and how it is a spiritual attack on masculinity. The guests discuss the importance of authentic masculinity and the role of vulnerability in being a man. They also touch on the concept of toxic masculinity and how it is a marketing term used to attack masculinity. The panel emphasizes the need for a relationship with Jesus and the importance of small groups and accountability in living out authentic masculinity. The conversation covers various topics related to raising children, gender identity, compassion, and the anticipation of heaven. The importance of two parents in a child's life is discussed, along with the challenges of navigating pronouns and gender identity in schools. The need for compassion and understanding for those struggling with identity issues is emphasized, while also acknowledging the influence of the enemy and the importance of truth. The complexity of identity issues and mental illness is addressed, and the importance of knowing one's identity and purpose is emphasized. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the beauty and promise of heaven, the narrow path to salvation, and the importance of receiving and walking in God's love.

Takeaways

The presence of two parents in a child's life is important for their upbringing and development.
Compassion and understanding are crucial when dealing with individuals struggling with identity issues.
Knowing one's identity and purpose in God is essential for living a fulfilling life.
The anticipation of heaven provides hope and motivation to live a righteous life.
Receiving and walking in God's love allows us to be conduits of His love to others.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Panel Discussion
03:19 The Emasculation of Men in America
07:05 How Did We Get Here?
10:03 The Spiritual Attack on Men
13:22 Toxic Masculinity
16:04 The Importance of Vulnerability
18:07 The Role of Authentic Masculinity
21:25 The Impact of Fatherhood and Marriage
26:57 Toxic Masculinity as a Marketing Term
32:10 The Fall of Pastoral Leaders
36:25 The Importance of a Relationship with Jesus
41:13 The Need for Small Groups and Accountability
49:14 Raising Children and the Importance of Two Parents
50:41 Discussion on Pronouns and Gender Identity
52:18 Compassion and Understanding for Those Struggling with Identity
53:06 The Influence of the Enemy and the Importance of Truth
54:55 Challenges Faced by Families and the Role of Grandparents
56:15 The Complexity of Identity Issues and Mental Illness
57:17 The Need for Compassion and Understanding in Dealing with Identity Issues
58:43 The Importance of Knowing Who We Are and Where We're Going
01:00:35 Living a Life of Compassion and Spreading God's Love
01:02:18 Meeting People Where They're At and Showing Love
01:04:06 The Anticipation and Beauty of Heaven
01:09:03 The Excitement and Promise of Heaven
01:11:22 The Narrow Path to Heaven and the Importance of Salvation
01:15:53 Seeking the Kingdom of God and Living Righteously
01:19:48 Receiving God's Love and Walking in His Ways
01:20:38 Contact Information for the Guests

Video: https://youtu.be/7tP1NElKyJg

contacts:  
Sam Fischer - [email protected]
J.D. Crouse -  Instagram - @AnotherLevelManofficial FaceBook: Another Level Man
Kyle Kasperbauer - Instagram @kylekasperbauer Twitter: @kylekasperbauer
Kevin Bailey - Instagram @reverencerestored 

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**SPOILER ALERT**

The soon to be Christmas movie classic, The Holdovers is discussed in this episode.  While major plot lines are not exposed, certain scenes are discussed.

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Sam and his guest, lifelong friend of renowned movie director Alexander Payne,  Brinker Harding, discuss Mr. Payne's latest movie, The Holdovers..  

They discuss the shared  experience of attending a private boarding school  during their high school  years. They do a deep dive on some specific scenes of the movie that struck them in an emotional way.

Some off the record type stories are shared as they reminisce about the subculture of attending a boarding school in their formative years.  

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Sam visits with who he calls his most elusive guest, John Peschong.  John is a Supervisor for San Luis Obispo County Board of Supervisors in California.  Sam and John were business partners for 16 years before Sam retired.  

John worked for President Ronald Reagan during his 2nd term.  He talks about the experiences working every Saturday with the President in the Oval Office and at Camp  David.   

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Tam Schluter is a former work colleague of Sam's when he first started his career in the early 90s.   She is opinionated, spirited and funny.   She is former guest columnist for the  Hastings Tribune. 

Tam and Sam visit about her recent 39 day nine state trip with her husband (also named Sam) through the western states  in their motor home.

They discuss 5  thoughts that she learned from the trip:

1) People have the ability to make small things big, then stomp them into the ground regardless of fallout.  Give me a mountain trail riddled with bears any day, over the crowd of volatile unpredictable humans.  Bears don't bitch.  They just do what they do.

2) The journey is the ultimate destination.  So many times we can't wait to get somewhere, and in the rush we overlook the crazy-cool landscapes unfolding on the way there.

3) It doesn't matter what you drive.  It doesn't matter if you're the oldest rig in the campground.  It doesn't matter if you have the fanciest gear or the most technical tent.  What matters is the "doing" of it all.  Just get it done,  whatever it takes to make things happen.  Don't  wait for stuff to come along, for that crap is temporary.  Just go, and figure it along the way.

4) Laugh. Hard. Even in the face of pain and adversity.  Find a way to laugh, for it is healing to troubled souls. 

5) Notice  regional  difference - in the land and how people live.  It will become perfectly clear that everybody is working hard just to get by - regardless of whether they live in a multi-million dollar house, or a ramshackle shack. Everybody struggles with something.  Some of it just invisible.

YOUTUBE LINK:  https://youtu.be/afZy2Zo6Fik

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This is a must listen episode if you ever thought about going on a rock and roll cruise. 

Sam and his rock geek friend, Brent Rose, discuss Sam's recent cruises on the KISS Cruise and last two Monster of Rock cruises. 

Sam talks about being invited to breakfast with George Lynch, and the conversation they had about Randy Rhoads. 

Artists and bands mentioned or discussed include: Kiss, Paul Stanley, Tracii Guns, George Lynch, Brent Woods, Tyson Leslie, Banshee, Vixen, Heart, Howard Leese, LA Guns, Dokken, Lynch Mob, Nuno Bettencourt, Extreme, Michael Schenker, Warrant, Green Jelly, Kix, Steve Whitman, Reb Beach, Dangerous Toys, Scott Dalhover, Joel Hoeksta, Kelle Rhoads, Randy Rhoads, Eddie Van Halen, Iron Maiden, Don Dokken, Jon Levin, Gene Simmons, Stephen Pearcy, Eddie Trunk, Ritchie Kotzen, Tommy Skeoch, Brian Wheat,  Faster Pussycat, Slaughter, Great White, Tesla, Alice Cooper, Joe Satriani, 

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Sam interviews his own Artificial Intelligence and his own Artificial Intelligence answers in clone form  of his own real voice.

Sam challenges his own AI as a hypocrite and liar for some of the conflicting answers it gives on the pandemic and in a conversation about Captain Chesley Sullenberger. 

One of our most interesting episodes yet.  

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