Hello大家，这里是Cozy夜谈~

抠抠和西西是两个90后生活在北美的女生。一个小城姑娘，一个魔都女性，通过神奇的方式遇见然后认识彼此，这种拥抱另一个闪闪发光的灵魂的感觉，真的很Cozy（抠西）

是缘分让你们听到我们的声音，如果你在我们的分享中寻找到了一丝共鸣，请订阅我们的频道，拥抱这种奇妙的缘分！:)

西西在播客中的分享：

I’ve never understood the saying “two things can be true at once” until I had my baby.

You feel anxious like you’re doing everything wrong, but confident that you were meant for this.

You feel exhausted, but you never felt more alive.

You feel isolated and often lonely, but you never felt more connected to someone.

You want the next stage to come to make life easier, but you never want these moments to end.

You feel resentment towards your partner, but also never loved them so much for the way they take care of you.

You feel angry for having to be a woman with thousands of expectations, but feel proud to be among millions of women who are superhero’s for going through this

You feel hate towards your body, but an appreciation for what it has done and given you.

You miss your old life, but would never trade your new life for it back.

Bed time feels like the end of the word, the morning feels like the beginning of it.

Things have never been this hard, but life has never been this meaningful.

If you’re in the trenches with me, give yourself the space and grace to let it all happen.

直到有了孩子，我才真正理解那句“两个看似矛盾的事情可以同时成立”的含义。

你焦虑不安，觉得自己什么都做错了，但又笃定自己天生适合做母亲。 你筋疲力尽，却从未感到如此充满活力。 你感到孤独且常常寂寞，却从未与某个人有过如此深的连结。 你盼望下一阶段快点到来，生活能轻松些，却又舍不得当下这些瞬间的消逝。 你对伴侣心生怨怼，却也因为他们对你的照顾而爱得更深。 你愤怒自己作为女人要背负无数期待，却也为身为千百万英勇女性的一员而感到骄傲。 你厌恶自己的身体，却又深深感激它所成就的一切、所给予的一切。 你怀念过去的生活，却无论如何都不愿以此换回从前。 夜晚的睡前时光仿佛是世界的尽头，而清晨的醒来又像是全新的开始。 生活从未如此艰难，但生命也从未如此有意义。

如果你也正经历这一切，请给自己一点空间和宽容，去迎接、去感受这一切的发生。