Main Idea:
Make ____________________
your _________________________ !
TALK ABOUT IT:
1. Ice Breaker - share about what your all-time favorite TV show ever is.
(In your group, this subject matter may be better addressed with a smaller group of ‘just the gals’ and ‘just the guys’.)
2. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:1-2 and discuss. Paul says that he instructed them in how to please God. Why is it a good idea to live a life that is pleasing to God? What would change if you did that in every single area of your life?
3. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:3 and discuss. How have recent events involving sex & sexual harassment scandals by public figures affected you? Why does addressing sexual immorality matter?
4. How has culture’s view of dating, relationships and sexuality affected our overall view of sexuality? What aspects of the dominant cultural view have you adopted in your own life? How can you grow in embracing a Kingdom culture, and how would that be challenging to you? How would it be a blessing to you?
5. Read 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 and discuss. Why is the scripture so strong in what it calls us to do? What would be the advantage to doing what this scripture says? Why would the Creator of sex want for us to have parameters for it?
6. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 and discuss. Our pastor shared 8 things we need to learn if we want to make pleasing God a priority in this aspect of life. Which of the eight stood out to you as one of the ones you need to work on, or that you simply feel challenged by?
1.Be satisfied in God’s presence
2.Be full of the Holy Spirit
3.Remove the fuel
4.Lock arms with fellow fighters
5.Know you cycles and rhythms of vulnerability
6.Redefine yourself
7.See people as family
8.Value God’s standards for sexuality and purity
7. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:6-8 and discuss. How does a vision for purity appeal to you? What would be the benefits? If married, ask each other: ‘What could I do to help you be less vulnerable to sexual immorality?’