If you’ve ever wondered if you’re too picky, this episode is for you.

How do you know if you’re setting standards or you’re just being too picky?

If you’re looking at the other person’s values and beliefs, that means you have certain standards, and that’s a good thing. You don’t want to be with someone who you don’t think is aligned with your core values and beliefs in life.

If you’re mostly looking at the physical and the small things such as pet peeves, then you’re most likely just being too picky. 

Focusing on the person’s physical appearance is only limiting yourself from truly connecting with the other person on a deeper level. This is self sabotaging.

Listen to the entire episode to find out what you can do when you date someone and you find yourself nit-picking every little thing about the other person.

And remember, don’t settle for anything less than crazy love, because it has to be Crazy love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie

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If you feel like a happily ever after is only for certain people like me or whoever else you may have met, and not for you, you don't want to miss this episode.

I first want you to understand my love story is not an exception to the rule. It wasn’t love at first sight for me and my husband. 

I was patient, but I was also intentional. I know I always say to not waste time, but that doesn’t mean rushing into a relationship. When you know your worth and you know what you want, you can be very intentional on a first date. 

You can see if there is an emotional connection, and if it's not there, or if he doesn't have the qualities in a partner you really want, there's no need to keep dating someone hoping one day it will pop up. 

Dating is a skill, one you can really master. 

Take things slow especially with the physical. Will and I dated for 4 months before we made things official. 

This episode is meant to empower you to take control of your story by being intentional, asking the right questions, putting your guard down and not rushing. 

There is so much power within you. So dig into yourself, own what's happened so far in your life, and be the author to the rest of your story. 

And never settle for anything less than Crazy Love, because it has to be, Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie

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"Baby", "Honey", "Sweetheart", or my personal favorite, "Teddy" are some examples of positive terms of endearment. There are also those who consciously or jokingly call each other negative names, such as “asshole” or “bitch”.  

A lot of couples don't give much thought to what they call their significant others, but in this episode you will find out how it can really negatively affect your relationship. 

Join me and my husband, Will - as we talk about the negative implications of calling each other names and why you should never do it, not even as a joke, or even when you're upset. 

It’s a matter of respect for your partner and calling them names only dims their light.

If you want a happy and healthy relationship, you should lift each other up and help them shine their light brighter. If you don't have a term of endearment for your significant other, you may really consider having one after this episode! 

And remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie

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I am so excited for today’s episode because my amazing twin will be joining me again to discuss what a healthy relationship looks like after being in toxic relationships in the past. And this is our birthday episode! Celebrate with us by listening to this episode to find out what a secure attachment style looks like in a relationship and how important it is to be confident in yourself and your partner. 

If you do not have that relationship yet, leave yourself open for the right person and give that space for the universe to work in your favor.

And remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie

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On today's episode, I will be diving deep into one of my favorite binge-worthy Netflix reality shows, Indian Matchmaking! 

This show offers us a look into the process of a well-known tradition in Indian culture - arranged marriages. 

In this episode I will be talking about some of the key people on the show,  including Sima the matchmaker. Anyone who is looking for love can really learn so much from her by seeing how she guides the contestants to get out of their own way so they can find real love. 

Listen to the entire episode to hear my brutally honest take on all the cast members. You will definitely learn what you can do and what you should never do as you are putting yourself out there looking for your person. 

And remember, don't settle for anything less than crazy love because it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie

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If you want to know one of the biggest things that has helped Will and I stay together so happily in crazy love for 16 years, this episode is for you. 

Many of my clients didn’t grow up with parents who loved each other and who weren’t afraid to show it to their kids. So it’s really understandable why it can be hard for them to believe that crazy love really exists.

In this episode, Will and I hope to inspire you to truly believe that crazy love does exist! We hope you leave the episode knowing you don't need to settle for anyone who dims your light or who makes you feel anxious and insecure in the relationship.

You have to ask yourself this question, “Does he make the effort to make time for you? Or does he make you feel like he has to make sacrifices to spend time with you, sacrifices he would rather not make?”

Listen to Will and I dive into how crazy love looks like. When you find your person, you want to share your life with them, do things together, and just stick together. They will feel like they are an extension of your being. 

And remember, it has to be crazy love or nothing!

Your love coach

Jackie

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If you're ready to find your person, click the link below to see the details of my group coaching program! 👉🏼https://www.jackieloor.com/coaching-program

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If you feel like nobody understands you and the situation you are going through, this episode is for you.

My heart goes out to all the women feeling like they are not valued, not enough, and feeling stuck in a relationship that dims their light.

This episode will remind you that you are not alone. It's important for you to know you can reach out to people who you know can give you a different perspective.

If you do not have a community yet, or you are scared of reaching out to those close to you in fear of judgement, you can always reach out to me. DM me, leave a comment in my socials, whatever it is, I am here to help. I feel it deeply in my core that this is my purpose in life and I can truly say to you that I know how it feels to be alone. But I promise you, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Your love coach

Jackie

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If you're ready to find your person, click the link below to see the details of my group coaching program! 👉🏼https://www.jackieloor.com/coaching-program

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Love is Blind Season 4 Reunion just happened! Get your cup of coffee, or better yet your wine ready, and join me in this recap episode as I deep dive into the loved and not-so-loved cast members of the latest season of Love Is Blind. You may need a notepad because I sure have mine, so you can find out the biggest takeaways from this amazing show.Listen to the entire episode and ask yourself which one of the characters reminds you of you. Depending on who it is, you may have a serious problem, but it's better to find out now and do something about it.

Leave a comment on my IG @thejackieloor or YouTube and let me know which character resonated with you the most and why! I want to know!

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Let’s talk about love languages and how it plays an important role in your relationships.

For those who don’t know what a love language is, it is the way that a person prefers to express love and wants to receive love from a partner. 

Here are the 5 love languages;

Listen to the episode and find out what your love language is and how you can effectively communicate this to your partner.

And remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie

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If finding your person is a priority for you, CLICK HERE TO SCHEDULE A CALL with me to see how I can add value to your life.

And if you are truly invested in finding your person, click below to find out how you can get 1:1 Private Coaching with me!

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Have you ever felt like the person you've dated in the past or are currently dating doesn't really care about your dreams and passions? 

If so, this episode is for you! You will learn why it's “Bye-Bye” time! 

I don’t want you to give up on the idea that there is someone out there who will love you, and who will believe in you and your dreams. Your dreams matter. You matter!

I want you to listen to this episode and start reflecting on your previous relationships and maybe even the one you are in right now and ask yourself if the person helps you shine your light brighter. If not, it’s bye-bye time! 

Don’t waste a second on anybody who makes you feel you and your dreams don’t matter. The sooner you can say “bye-bye” the sooner you can be available and make space for the right person.

And as you are putting yourself out there, don't settle for anything less than crazy love, because remember, it has to be Crazy love or Nothing.

Your love coach,

Jackie

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And if you are truly invested in finding your person, click below to find out how you can get 1:1 Private Coaching with me!

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