Crazy Unbelievable Faith

In this refreshing and transparent episode recorded from a cruise ship in the middle of the ocean, Brian and Kersha Sprite share raw reflections on what it means to truly take your eyes off yourself and serve others well. Broadcasting from their family vacation—an honorary trip to celebrate Brian's late grandfather who loved cruises—they unpack powerful lessons about cultural humility, intentional parenting, and the transformative power of servant-hearted living.

From teaching their children to speak basic Spanish in Mexican shops to witnessing extraordinary service from their waiter Aldrin who literally cut up everyone's steak, this episode is filled with practical examples of what it looks like to go "90%" toward others rather than expecting them to come to you. Brian and Kersha challenge the American tendency to expect the world to cater to us while refusing to adapt to others, revealing how this self-centered mindset bleeds into every area of life—especially parenting and the holiday season.

Whether you're navigating close quarters with family during the holidays, raising teenagers through introspective seasons, or simply trying to be more present in a world that constantly demands your attention, this conversation offers a timely reminder: the dishes can wait, but the opportunity to serve and love others can't.

🔥 What You'll Learn

• The 90% Principle: Why we need to be willing to go 90% toward others all the time, and how this posture changes everything from international travel to family dynamics.
• Cultural Humility in Action: The powerful moment when a Mexican shop owner thanked Brian and Kersha for teaching their children basic Spanish phrases and being respectful—and why this small act of humility led to better deals and a memorable teaching moment.
• The Waiter Who Changed Everything: How Aldrin, their cruise ship waiter, modeled extraordinary service by cutting up everyone's steak and treating them as human beings, not just customers—and what parents can learn from his approach.
• Identity from Obedience, Not Introspection: Why Jesus constantly redirected His attention to the Father's will rather than looking inward, and how this principle helps teenagers (and adults) break free from the mental loops of puberty and anxiety.
• The Holiday Season Challenge: Why Christmas is the perfect time to practice taking your eyes off yourself, especially when you're in close quarters with family and tempers can flare.
• First World Struggles and Gratitude: Teaching children perspective by acknowledging that many people never leave their state or city, while your family is blessed to experience international travel.
• The Cheese Sandwich Hug for Emotional Seasons: How pressing in during your child's struggles—rather than sending them to their room—creates the foundation for lifelong trust and open communication.
• Where to Find Servant Hearts: Brian's challenge to observe your surroundings and identify who is serving, encouraging, and loving others—because if you look for it, you'll find it.

💬 Memorable Quotes

• Brian: "God shared specifically about taking our eyes off ourselves."
• Kersha: "We want people to cater to us, but we don't want to cater to others, but then we still want to be catered to."
• Brian: "He stopped me and he thanked me, because the children were also saying gracias and de nada and por favor. He said, 'You have a beautiful family. Thank you so much for teaching your children how to customize to other native languages and to be respectful and meaningful.'"
• Kersha: "We can't always just expect others to come to us. We need to be willing to go the 90% all the time, all the time."
• Brian: "If we are out serving others and loving on others, then they feel our energy and our presence, and that is important for our children to learn."
• Kersha: "You're very blessed. We're very fortunate to be where we are, what we're doing. Because not everybody gets that experience."
• Brian: "Identity comes from obedience, not introspection."
• Kersha: "Sometimes as parents, we just want to be like, go to your room. I don't have the time or the intention to give your emotions right now."
• Brian: "When your child is struggling through those seasons, press in and don't pull out."
• Kersha: "He wasn't just serving us our dinner, he was serving us as human beings and trying to be as helpful and generous with his time and his effort as possible."
• Brian: "He made this experience way better than I could have ever, ever imagined."
• Kersha: "Just take your eyes off yourself and go say hi to somebody. Just encourage someone. Just learn about other people."
• Brian: "I challenge you wherever you're at. If you're out to dinner, if you're out with family, just step back for a second and observe things. And where can you find those servant people around you?"
• Kersha: "Because if you look for it, you'll find it. If you choose to not look for it, it's not going to be there."
• Brian: "A challenge is what can you do to be more servant hearted?"

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• When was the last time you adapted to someone else's culture, language, or preferences rather than expecting them to adapt to you?
• Are you willing to go 90% toward others, or do you find yourself constantly expecting others to meet you halfway?
• What "first world struggles" are consuming your mental energy that could be redirected toward gratitude and service?
• How are you teaching your children perspective about privilege and the importance of serving others?
• During the holiday season, when you're in close quarters with family, are you pressing in or pulling away when tensions rise?
• Are you running your day, or is your day running you? When was the last time you intentionally slowed down to serve someone?
• Who in your life models extraordinary service like Aldrin the waiter? What can you learn from them?
• Are you trying to find your identity through introspection, or are you finding it through obedience to God's will?
• What does "pressing in" practically look like when your child (or spouse, or friend) is struggling emotionally?
• This week, where can you step back and observe who is serving, encouraging, and loving others around you?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus

This episode centers on the heart of Christ-like service and the radical call to put others before ourselves:

• Principle of Servant Leadership (Philippians 2:3-4): "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." The episode's core message—taking your eyes off yourself—is the essence of Christ-like humility.
• Principle of Cultural Humility (1 Corinthians 9:19-23): "I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some." Paul's missionary approach mirrors Brian and Kersha's willingness to learn Spanish and adapt to other cultures rather than expecting others to cater to them.
• Principle of Going the Extra Mile (Matthew 5:41): "If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles." The "90% principle" reflects Jesus's teaching to exceed expectations and serve sacrificially.
• Principle of Grateful Living (1 Thessalonians 5:18): "Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." Brian and Kersha's emphasis on teaching their children to be grateful for travel opportunities reflects Paul's call to gratitude.
• Principle of Christ's Example (John 13:12-15): "Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should ...

In this heartfelt and transparent episode, Kersha sits down with her soon-to-be 15-year-old daughter, Jacelyn, for an honest conversation about what intentionality in parenting truly means from a teenager's perspective. What begins as a mother-daughter chat quickly transforms into a masterclass on building trust, creating safe spaces for vulnerability, and raising kids who feel genuinely loved—not just managed.

Jacelyn opens up about what makes her feel seen and valued, from car conversations and nail salon trips to hunting with dad and those "cheese sandwich" bear hugs during emotional moments. Kersha shares the behind-the-scenes work of parenting—learning to let go, encouraging unique parent-child bonds, and leading from the front by apologizing first. Together, they unpack the difference between lecturing and listening, the power of pressing in during hard seasons rather than pulling away, and why teenagers need a trusted adult they can be vulnerable with—whether that's a parent, mentor, or God Himself.

🔥 What You'll Learn

• The Love Language of Time: How one-on-one moments—whether it's dinner dates, gym sessions, or hunting trips—communicate "you matter" louder than any words.
• Listen, Don't Lecture: Jacelyn's candid plea to parents everywhere: "I'm not looking for a sermon. I just want you to listen to me." Why creating space without judgment builds the trust bond.
• The Cheese Sandwich Hug: A powerful parenting tool for emotional seasons—refusing to let kids isolate during struggles and instead pressing in with love (even when they resist).
• Letting Go to Let Grow: Kersha's journey of releasing the need to be part of every moment and encouraging unique father-daughter (and mother-daughter) connections.
• Raising Adults, Not Kids: The intentional decision to teach reflection, apologize first, and model grace so children learn to extend it to themselves and others.
• The Wind Metaphor: Jacelyn's beautiful explanation of faith—"God is like the wind. You can feel Him, but you can't see Him."
• Open Communication as a Lifeline: Why teenagers need to be honest with their trusted adults, and how parents can create realistic expectations that make home feel safe.

💬 Memorable Quotes

• Jacelyn: "It makes me feel loved, makes me feel like, oh, my parents actually care about me because I've seen people who their parents just shove them off into a corner."
• Kersha: "Sometimes as parents, we kind of just get caught up in the day and the days run us instead of us running the day."
• Jacelyn: "Just sitting in the car and having just deep, meaningful conversations just shows that you actually care what I'm thinking about and what I'm feeling."
• Kersha: "Listen. Listen to your children."
• Jacelyn: "Mom, I'm not looking for a lecture. I just want you to listen to me."
• Kersha: "God worked on my heart and said, no, let that be their thing and it's okay for them to have that thing."
• Kersha: "Sometimes as parents, we just want to be like, go to your room. I don't have the time or the intention to give your emotions right now."
• Kersha: "When your child is struggling through those seasons, press in and don't pull out."
• Kersha: "Be intentional with your children, be into the things that they're into and pull them into the things that you're into. And that builds a mutual respect and a mutual foundation."
• Jacelyn: "You need to be honest with your parents, and you need to be open with them because if you aren't, they will never know what you're going through."
• Kersha: "Parents can't help lead their children unless they know really honestly the depth of what they're going through."
• Jacelyn: "Find someone that you can be authentic with and don't feel that you'll be judged by."
• Jacelyn: "Even when you don't say anything, He hears your tears."
• Jacelyn: "God is like the wind. You can feel Him, but you can't see Him."
• Kersha: "We as parents, seek forgiveness. We apologize first. We set that example. We lead from the front."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• Are you running your day, or is your day running you? When was the last time you had intentional, one-on-one time with each of your children?
• Do your kids feel like they can talk to you without getting a lecture? Are you listening to understand, or listening to correct?
• What unique "things" does each of your children have with you? What about with your spouse? Are you encouraging those bonds or trying to be part of everything?
• During your child's emotional seasons, are you pressing in or pulling away? What does "pressing in" practically look like in your home?
• Are you modeling the behavior you want to see? Do your children see you apologize first, extend grace, and laugh at your own mistakes?
• If you're a teenager listening: Who is your safe person? Have you opened up to someone you trust about what you're really going through?
• Are you creating realistic expectations that allow your children to feel safe and comfortable at home?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus

This episode centers on the heart of parenting as discipleship and the power of intentional relationships:

• Principle of Intentional Investment (Deuteronomy 6:6-7): "These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." Everyday moments—car rides, dinners, gym sessions—become sacred opportunities to build trust and teach truth.
• Principle of Leading by Example (1 Corinthians 11:1): "Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ." Kersha's emphasis on apologizing first and modeling grace reflects Paul's call to lead from the front in humility.
• Principle of Safe Spaces (Proverbs 18:13, James 1:19): "To answer before listening—that is folly and shame." "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." The episode's core message—listen, don't lecture—is grounded in biblical wisdom about the power of truly hearing someone.
• Principle of God's Omnipresence (Psalm 139:1-4, Matthew 28:20): Jacelyn's reflection that "even when you don't say anything, He hears your tears" echoes the psalmist's assurance that God knows us intimately and is always present, even when we can't see Him.

🙌 Join the Movement

If you're a parent feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of daily life, let this episode be your reminder that the dishes can wait, but the conversations can't. Intentionality doesn't require perfection—it requires presence. We challenge you this week to carve out one-on-one time with each of your children. Put down your phone, silence the lecture in your head, and just listen. Ask them what makes them feel loved. And if you're a teenager, take the brave step of opening up to someone you trust. Your story matters, your feelings are valid, and you are deeply loved.

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In this deeply courageous and transparent episode, Brian and Kersha are joined by Logan Burchett, a guest they met by divine appointment at a local restaurant. What started as a simple server-customer interaction blossomed into a profound conversation about the battles young men face today. Logan opens up about his journey from a childhood of faith to an "existential crisis" fueled by atheistic influences, eventually spiraling into multi-substance addiction and a harrowing struggle with pornography.

Brian and Kersha help navigate the darkest parts of Logan’s story, including a traumatic experience with grooming and exploitation during his early teen years. They discuss the dangerous desensitization caused by social media, the reality of "spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection," and the scientific and spiritual rewiring of the mind through tools like EMDR and scripture. From the powerful visual of the "dirty cup" in Matthew 23 to the grace found in taking life "one day at a time," this episode is a testament that no matter how much "mud" is in your life, the clean water of the Holy Spirit can wash it away.

🔥 What You’ll Learn

• The "Cup" Analogy: Logan’s defining realization from Matthew 23—why cleaning the outside of the dish (appearance/reputation) means nothing if the inside is full of greed and self-indulgence.
• The Trap of Desensitization: How early access to smartphones and pornography numbs us to reality, distorts relationships, and acts as a gateway to deeper spiritual disconnect.
• Grooming Awareness: A sobering look at how predators operate not just online, but in person—and why we must teach the next generation to trust their "red flags."
• Progress Over Perfection: The AA principle that releases us from the shame of failure: we aren't demanding immediate perfection, but daily spiritual growth.
• Rewiring the Brain: Kersha breaks down how trauma impacts the mind and how therapies like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) can help "reprogram" triggers.
• The 24-Hour Rule: The practical application of "do not worry about tomorrow"—finding sobriety and peace by focusing solely on the grace needed for today.

💬 Memorable Quotes

• Logan: "If you pour clean water into a cup full of mud and muck, eventually all of that will be washed... which is just a really good example of the Holy Spirit cleansing us."
• Brian: "Definitely step out of your comfort zone because you never know at the end of that conversation what a doorway can open for someone else."
• Logan: "A godless world is not a freeing world."
• Kersha: "Everyone is guilty until you prove yourself innocent... your guard is always up... but if you're not willing to let your guard down and take that risk to a degree, you just don't know the connections like this."
• Logan: "We truly connect with people, not with our strengths, but in the vulnerability of our weaknesses."
• Logan: "I have to proclaim my forgiveness for him... If not, I'm just gonna continue to let the effects rule my life."
• Logan: "We claim spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• Are you focused on polishing the outside of your "cup" (social media image, career, reputation) while ignoring the "mud" on the inside?
• Is there a "secret sin" or addiction you are managing like a job, hoping no one notices the cracks in the foundation?
• Have you become desensitized to things that used to shock you? How is your media consumption affecting your view of others?
• Are you holding onto unforgiveness toward someone who hurt you? Is that lack of forgiveness keeping you in prison, not them?
• Are you trying to tackle the worries of next year, or are you willing to trust God for the strength to get through just the next 24 hours?
• Who is in your support group? Do you have a "sponsor" or spiritual mentor you can call when the urge to slide back arises?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus

This episode is anchored in the concept of internal purification and daily reliance:

• Principle of Internal Cleansing (Matthew 23:25-26): The anchor verse for Logan. Jesus rebukes the Pharisees for cleaning the outside of the cup while the inside remains full of greed. It is a call to deal with the heart first, and the behavior will follow.
• Principle of Daily Grace (Matthew 6:34): "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself." Logan’s recovery mantra of taking it "one day at a time" aligns perfectly with Jesus' command to live in daily dependence.
• Principle of Renewal (Romans 12:2): The discussion on changing thoughts to change actions reflects Paul’s command to be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

🙌 Join the Movement

If you are struggling with addiction, secret shame, or the weight of past trauma, let Logan’s story be your evidence that you are not too far gone. You don't have to be perfect today; you just have to make progress. We challenge you this week to find your "clean water"—whether that’s a support group, a therapist, or diving back into the Word—and start pouring it into your life until the mud washes away. You are defined by your Creator, not your past actions.

Helpful Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Teen and Young Adult Drug Abuse Support Groups – The Full Circle Program (North Kansas City).

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In this raw and incredibly vulnerable episode, Brian and Kersha sit down with guest Dustin Johnson to navigate a story that truly defines "Crazy Unbelievable Faith." Dustin shares his testimony of the last two and a half years—a relentless "one-two punch" season that included multiple job losses, a severe battle with his wife’s postpartum depression, a miscarriage, and financial uncertainty. This isn't a story of overnight success; it is a real-time look at how a family survives when the transmission blows, the insurance denies the claim, and the world says, "you aren't worth it."

Brian and Kersha unpack the concept of "praising in the valley," discussing why true growth happens in the low points rather than the mountaintops. They dive deep into the reality of mental health within marriage, the vital necessity of community when you want to isolate, and the peace found in "daily bread." From the vision of God as a "wrecking ball" clearing the way for new foundations to the reminder that our value is defined by our Creator—not our paycheck—this episode is a lifeline for anyone feeling overwhelmed by the waves of life.

🔥 What You’ll Learn

• The "Valley" Principle: Why the mountaintop offers a great view, but the valley is where the flowers grow and new life is born.
• The Wrecking Ball: Dustin’s powerful vision of God tearing down the "buildings" (idols) of our lives to clear the ground for a stronger foundation.
• Navigating Postpartum: An honest, necessary conversation about the toll of postpartum depression on the entire family unit and the importance of communication.
• The "Daily Bread" Mindset: How to shift from worrying about the future to trusting Jehovah Jireh for just enough provision for today.
• Identity vs. Income: Learning to separate your self-worth from your employment status, especially when the world undervalues you.
• The Strength of Vulnerability: Why we connect with others through our weaknesses, not our strengths, and why you cannot isolate during a crisis.
• The "Duck" Analogy: The reality of looking calm on the surface (faith) while paddling furiously underneath (navigating life's logistics).

💬 Memorable Quotes

• Dustin: "We truly connect with people, not with our strengths, but in the vulnerability of our weaknesses."
• Brian: "Without hope in the future, we lack power in the present."
• Dustin: "It's in the valley where the flowers and the new life is born... you don't see the animals down there eating the vegetation on the mountaintops."
• Kersha: "There is no testimony without a test... God calls us to praise in the valley, not just on the mountaintops."
• Dustin: "Two things determine value: Who's the creator, and how much is someone knowledgeable willing to pay for the creation? ... You have to become a man who is so secure in what his Creator thinks of him that he knows he's winning even when he's losing."
• Dustin: "I feel like God's saying, 'I need you to let go of control. I need you to let Me knock down a lot of these buildings because there's something new that I need to build.'"
• Brian: "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face... and you’ve been punched in the face a few times."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• Are you currently standing on a mountaintop or walking through a valley? If you are in the valley, what "flowers" (growth) are you missing because you're too focused on the climb out?
• Is there a "building" or idol in your life that God is trying to take a wrecking ball to? Are you resisting Him or letting Him rebuild?
• How do you derive your value? If you lost your job today, would your identity crumble, or is it rooted in your Creator?
• Are you operating on "Daily Bread" faith, or are you consumed by the worries of next month and next year?
• In your marriage or relationships, are you communicating your needs hourly during crises, or are you suffering in silence?
• Who is in your "village"? Do you have people who will sharpen you and tell you what you need to hear, not just what you want to hear?
• Are you isolating yourself in your struggle, or are you willing to be vulnerable to let others support you?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus

This episode leans heavily on scripture to find anchors in the storm:

• Principle of Provision (Matthew 6:25-27): The central theme of the episode. "Look at the birds of the air... are you not much more valuable than they?" A reminder that worry cannot add a single hour to your life.
• Principle of Perspective (Psalm 73:1-17): Brian highlights the shift in the Psalmist's heart, noting that "without hope in the future, we lack power in the present."
• Principle of Daily Dependence (Matthew 6:11): The discussion on the Lord's Prayer emphasizes asking for "daily bread"—trusting God for the immediate need rather than hoarding for the future.
• Principle of Vanity vs. Value (Ecclesiastes): Dustin references Solomon’s teaching that everything is "hevel" (meaningless smoke) outside of our relationship with God and others.

🙌 Join the Movement

If you feel like you’ve been taking hit after hit—financially, emotionally, or spiritually—this episode is your reminder that God is still writing your story. Dustin’s journey is a testament that your current chapter is not your conclusion. We challenge you this week to stop hiding your "limp." Reach out to your community, share your valley, and watch how your vulnerability becomes someone else’s survival guide. You are valuable not because of what you produce, but because of Who created you.

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In this special Thanksgiving episode, Brian and Kersha hit pause on the usual teaching topics to embrace the spirit of the season—gratitude. They pull back the curtain to honor the "village" that makes Crazy Unbelievable Faith possible, acknowledging that no great mission is accomplished alone. From the pivotal conversation with Larry Levine that sparked the podcast’s inception to the behind-the-scenes wizardry of Chris Decker and the marketing team, the couple highlights the importance of recognizing those who pave the way. Brian reflects on the power of connections—referencing guests like Chris Robinson, Jerry Anderson, and the Bryant family—while Kersha expresses deep appreciation for the obedience required to launch this platform. They discuss the "ripple effect" of saying yes to God, the beauty of acting as a "hub" for relationships, and the story of Hunter Murray’s radical transparency. This isn't just a list of thank-yous; it’s a heartfelt look at how community, forgiveness, and stepping out in faith weave together to create something bigger than ourselves. It’s a reminder to look for the "glass half full" during the holidays and to value the people God places on your path. 

🙌 Join the Movement

If you are entering this holiday season feeling overwhelmed or just needing a recharge, this episode is your reminder that you are part of a larger community. Brian and Kersha’s expression of gratitude is an invitation for you to audit your own circle and give thanks for the people sharpening you. This is a call to stop walking alone and start embracing the "hubs" and connectors in your life. Your journey of faith is richer when shared, and your obedience could be the key to someone else's breakthrough.

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In this challenging and candid episode, Brian and Kersha flip the script—literally swapping seats in the studio—to tackle the messy, necessary work of growth through community. After debating the "thermostat wars" of fall in Kansas City, the couple dives into the concept of "Iron Sharpening Iron." Brian shares stories from his recent elk hunting trip (where he tried, and mostly failed, to stay unplugged), while Kersha opens up about the unexpected loneliness she felt while he was gone. This isn't just a chat about friendship; it’s a deep dive into breaking out of the self-absorbed "bubbles" we live in—like the "head down" mentality at the grocery store. They discuss why true growth requires friction, why "sweeping things under the rug" destroys relationships, and the modern definition of illiteracy: the inability to unlearn and relearn. From the "compliment sandwich" to the danger of churches that only affirm you, this episode is a blueprint for stepping out of your comfort zone. It’s a must-listen for anyone tired of surface-level interactions and ready to embrace the "sparks" that refine us.

🔥 What You’ll Learn

• The "Bubble" Breaker: How to stop living a self-absorbed life in public spaces (like the grocery store) and start seeing the people around you.
• The Friction Factor: Why "Iron Sharpening Iron" isn't soft—it involves sparks, friction, and necessary conflict to produce growth.
• The Modern Illiteracy Trap: Understanding why the ability to "unlearn and relearn" is the most critical skill for the 21st century.
• The "Sweep it Under the Rug" Danger: Why avoiding conflict leads to tripping over mountains of resentment later, and how to handle confrontation with love.
• The "Hub" Mentality: How to become a connector of people rather than just a consumer of relationships.
• The Narrow Road Check: How to tell if your community (or church) is helping you grow or just keeping you comfortable on the "wide road."
• The Failure Reframe: Why failure isn't a dead end, but a necessary step in learning (using the "cheer stunt" analogy).

💬 Memorable Quotes

• Brian: "Illiteracy today is not the inability to read. It's the inability to learn, unlearn, and relearn something."
• Kersha: "I experienced a loneliness I hadn't experienced in a really long time... it's like half of my soul was missing."
• Brian: "When iron sharpens iron, there are sparks, there is friction, there is conflict."
• Kersha: "If you are attending a church where your ideology is just being confirmed... you are on the road to the very wide where everybody is going."
• Kersha: "Failure is the ability to pick up and learn... if you miss the ball, you try again."
• Brian: "You don't know whose life you impact through a 'Hi, how are you?' or just a smile."
• Kersha: "By making that bridge, taking your eyes off of yourself... you are sharpening that other person."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• When you run errands (grocery store, bank), are you in a "bubble"? What is one way you can acknowledge someone's existence today?
• Who are the 5 people of influence in your life? Are they sharpening you, or just agreeing with you?
• How do you handle conflict? do you "sweep it under the rug" to keep the peace, or do you address it to clear the air?
• What is something you have had to "unlearn" recently in order to grow?
• Are you acting as a "Hub"? Who is someone you know that needs to be connected to someone else you know?
• When was the last time you received criticism? Did you view it as an attack, or as a tool for sharpening?
• Are you walking the "wide road" of comfort, or the "narrow road" of growth and challenge?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus

This episode is a practical application of key biblical principles, including:

• Principle of Growth (Proverbs 27:17): The central theme of the episode: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." Growth requires contact, friction, and the presence of others.
• Principle of The Narrow Path (Matthew 7:13-14): Kersha’s challenge regarding church and community reminds us that the easy, comfortable road (affirmation only) is wide, but the road to life (growth and challenge) is narrow.
• Principle of Speaking Truth (Ephesians 4:15): The discussion on conflict resolution points to the biblical mandate of "speaking the truth in love," rather than letting resentment build up.
• Principle of Transformation (Romans 12:2): The concept of "unlearning and relearning" aligns with the call to "be transformed by the renewing of your mind," rather than conforming to the patterns of the world.

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If you have ever felt stuck in a routine, afraid of conflict, or just isolated in a crowd, this episode is for you. Brian and Kersha’s honest conversation is a timely challenge to audit your circle and your habits. This is a call to stop avoiding the friction and start embracing the relationships that make you better. Your journey of faith isn't about being comfortable; it's about being sharpened, refined, and used by God to impact others.

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In this practical and revealing follow-up, Brian and Kersha tackle Part 2 of the "Blind to the Blessing" series: finding your true energy source. After identifying the "blinders" (distractions, comparison) that block us, this episode asks: what do you do when you're depleted? This isn't just about feeling tired; it's a deep dive into the practical ways we refuel our faith and life. Brian and Kersha use their (chaotic) home life as a "case study," sharing personal stories about a 3-day fast (and a tempting Shake Shack run), the challenge of finding a "quiet place" in a house of seven, and the life-changing power of setting boundaries. From "bookending" the day with God to the difference between "YOLO" culture and a sustainable pace, this episode is a blueprint for restructuring your life. It’s a must-listen for anyone feeling depleted, drained by surface-level interactions, or struggling to find time for God amidst the chaos. This is a powerful reminder to stop running on empty and plug into your true Source.

🔥 What You’ll Learn

• The Fasting Focus: How to find focus during a fast (even when delivering Shake Shack) and fix your eyes on your true Source.
• The "Pray in the Bathroom" Strategy: How to find a "quiet place" for prayer, even if it's the car or the bathroom, amidst a chaotic house.
• The "Bookending" Tactic: How to protect your energy by giving God the first part of your morning and the last part of your night.
• The Power of "No": Learn why saying "no" to good things is essential for protecting your pace and avoiding depletion.
• The "YOLO" vs. "Restructure" Mindset: Understand the difference between living "120 mph" (YOLO) and restructuring your life for meaningful, purposeful living.
• The "Physically Present" Problem: Why it's worthless to be "physically there but mentally not" and how to be fully present.
• Extroverted Introverts: How to identify if you're an "extroverted introvert" who gets energized by deep connection but drained by surface-level talk.

💬 Memorable Quotes

• Kersha: "Me trying to live my life at a certain pace is not healthy for me and it depletes me."
• Kersha: "I wanna teach my children, it's okay to say no."
• Brian: "If you're only gonna physically be there, why spend the time, effort, energy to make yourself there?"
• Kersha: "I'm not ashamed to say I pray everywhere I can get silence, which sometimes is in the bathroom."
• Brian: (On fasting) "...fixing my eyes on God that he is my source."
• Kersha: (On people) "If it's just surface level conversation, it... can deplete us very quickly."
• Brian: "...restructuring life of how do you want to live, not just what do you want to do."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• When you feel depleted, what is your go-to energy source? Is it sustainable, or is it just a quick fix?
• Where is your "quiet place"? (The car? The bathroom? A closet?) How can you carve out 5 minutes of silence in that place today?
• Do you "bookend" your day? What is one small step you can take to give God the first 10 minutes of your morning?
• What one thing do you need to say "no" to this week to protect your energy and mental health?
• Are you living a "YOLO" (120 mph) life or a "restructured" life? What does "how you want to live" look like versus "what you want to do"?
• Where are you "physically present but mentally not"? How can you be fully engaged in one specific interaction today?
• Are you an "extroverted introvert"? What kinds of conversations drain you, and what kinds energize you? How can you seek out more of the latter?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus

This episode is a practical application of key biblical principles, including:

• Principle of Source (Proverbs 4:25): The discussion of Brian's fast points to the mandate to "Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you," making God the primary source of energy.
• Principle of Boundaries (Matthew 5:37): The conversation on "the power of no" is a practical application of "Let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No,'" setting healthy, God-honoring limits.
• Principle of Comparison (2 Corinthians 10:12): The recap of "don't dare compare" reminds us that comparing ourselves to others (their pace, their things) is unwise and a major source of energy depletion.
• Principle of Rest (Matthew 11:28-30): The entire theme of avoiding depletion and finding a sustainable pace points to Jesus' call: "Come to me, all you who are weary... and I will give you rest."

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If you have ever felt drained, depleted, or just plain "run over by a train," this episode is for you. Brian and Kersha’s honest chat is a practical and timely challenge to audit your energy sources. This is a call to stop, identify what drains you, and intentionally plug into what (and who) refuels you. Your journey of faith isn't about running at 120 mph; it's about learning to run at God's pace, fueled by His strength.

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In this honest and vulnerable episode of Crazy Unbelievable Faith, Brian and Kersha tackle a universal struggle: being "blind to the blessing." They kick off Part 1 of this new series by identifying the "blinders" that keep us from seeing what God is doing right in front of us. This isn't just about feeling stuck; it's a deep dive into the practical ways we miss opportunities because we're too busy, distracted, or focused on what others have. Brian and Kersha use their own lives as a "case study," sharing personal stories about distractions, the difference between "busyness" and "being busy," and the trap of comparison in the age of social media. From the challenge of "God getting the leftovers" to the myth of the "overnight success," this episode is a blueprint for self-reflection. It’s a must-listen for anyone feeling like they're spinning their wheels, struggling with comparison, or just feeling "off" in their walk with God. This is a powerful reminder to take off the blinders and refocus on the path God has for you.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:

• The "Leftovers" Trap: Learn why getting out of your routine (like devotionals or the gym) leads to God getting the "leftovers" instead of the "first fruits."
• Busyness vs. Being Busy: Understand the critical difference between "spinning your wheels" (busyness) and productive, forward-moving work (being busy).
• The "Physically Present" Problem: How to identify if you are "physically around but mentally nowhere close," especially when working from home or managing family life.
• The Comparison Blinder: Unpack the dangers of comparison fueled by social media (LinkedIn resumes, new cars, successful kids) and how to retrain your brain.
• Effort vs. Reward Myth: Debunk the idea that a set amount of effort always equals a set amount of reward, and why we must avoid this "instant gratification" mindset.
• The "10,000 Hours" Reality: Why the "overnight success" is a myth and how it blinds us to the long-term work God requires.
• Age, Wisdom, and Maturity: Discover why you can "grow old and never mature" and how wisdom isn't automatically tied to age.

💬 Memorable Quotes:

• Kersha: "You can grow old and never mature. You can be wise and young, and you can be old, wise and mature all at the same time."
• Brian (quoting a-saying): "People are too busy knocking opportunity that they don't hear opportunity knock."
• Brian: "You're physically around. But mentally nowhere close to where I'm at."
• Kersha: (Defining busyness) "Busyness is doing things that keep you spinning your wheels. It's not growth, it's not visionary, it's not moving the bus forward."
• Kersha: (On comparison) "This is definitely an area in which I had to retrain my brain on how to be happy for other people and still content with me."
• Brian (quoting a saying): "You know that saying people are expecting results for the work they haven't done."
• Brian: "If we walk through life with that mindset [who do you know that they need to know], things would look differently."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• When you feel "off," what is the first routine (like your quiet time) that gets cut? How can you protect it?
• Think about your schedule this week. Where are you just "busy" (spinning your wheels) and where are you "being busy" (productive)?
• In what areas of your life are you "physically present but mentally nowhere close"—with family, at work, or with God?
• When you scroll social media, which accounts or people trigger the "comparison" blinder for you? How can you "retrain your brain" in those moments?
• Are you expecting an "overnight success" in your career, faith, or family? Are you willing to put in the "10,000 hours" God is asking for?
• In what area of your life are you expecting 100 units of reward for 10 hours of effort? How can you shift your focus to "delayed gratification" and God's timing?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus:

This episode is a practical application of key biblical principles, including:

• Principle of Priority (Matthew 6:33): The discussion of giving God "leftovers" instead of "first fruits" points to the mandate to "seek first the kingdom of God."
• Principle of Stewardship (Matthew 25:14-30): The "effort vs. reward" and "10,000 hours" conversation relates to the Parable of the Talents and being faithful with what God has given you.
• Principle of Contentment (Philippians 4:11-13): The deep dive into "comparison" is a practical application of learning to be content in all circumstances, knowing our strength comes from Christ.
• Principle of Wisdom (Proverbs 4:7): The conversation on "age vs. wisdom" highlights the biblical call to "get wisdom" above all else, which is a heart posture, not just a number.

🙌 Join the Movement

If you have ever felt stuck in a rut, battled the green-eyed monster of comparison, or felt like you're just "spinning your wheels," this episode is for you. Brian and Kersha’s breakdown is a practical and honest challenge to identify the blinders in your own life. This is a call to stop, reflect, and ask God what blessings you might be missing. Your journey of faith is about clearing your vision to see the specific path God has for you.

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In this timely and biblical episode of Crazy Unbelievable Faith, Brian and Kersha tackle a topic dominating Christian social media: the "controversy" between Forrest Frank and Jelly Roll. They break down the conversation surrounding Forrest's personal conviction not to accept awards for his music. This isn't just about picking sides; it's a deep dive into what the Bible says about our motives, personal convictions, and serving God in the public eye. Brian and Kersha use this cultural moment as a "motive check," inspired by John Maxwell and Matthew 6. They explore the tension between being "in the world but not of it," why one person's conviction isn't a rule for everyone, and how God uses different people with different stories—like Forrest and Jelly—to reach His kingdom. From the challenge of "treasures on earth" to the biblical call to give in secret, this episode is a blueprint for navigating public disagreements with grace. It’s a must-listen for anyone struggling to understand their own convictions or how to apply biblical wisdom to modern-day debates. This is a powerful reminder to stay rooted in Christ and let Him be the guide.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:

• The Biblical "Motive Check": Learn why leaders must do the right thing for the right reason, inspired by John Maxwell and Matthew 6.
• Conviction vs. Condemnation: Understand the crucial difference between a personal conviction (like Forrest Frank's) and a universal biblical command.
• Trophies vs. Treasures: Unpack the Matthew 6 call to lay up treasures in heaven, not on earth (and what good a "piece of metal" does).
• The "Left Hand, Right Hand" Rule: Explore the biblical mandate (Matthew 6:3-4) to give in secret and why Forrest's answer on money was biblically sound.
• Provision for the Work: Discuss how accepting money for God-given talents (like music) aligns with God's provision (Philippians 4:19) and the call for men to work.
• One Goal, Many Paths: Discover why God uses different people with different methods (like Forrest and Jelly Roll) to achieve the same goal: bringing people to Christ.
• Stay on the Narrow Path: Get encouragement to stay true to your convictions (Matthew 7:13) without judging others' paths.

💬 Memorable Quotes:

• Kersha: "We're going to keep it very biblical... I don't think either one of them are wrong."
• Brian (quoting his pastor): "We're all saints who are sinners."
• John Maxwell (quoted by hosts): "Leaders must do the right thing for the right reason."
• Forrest Frank (from clip): "I feel a conviction... I will not receive a trophy for something that is from Jesus and for Jesus."
• Forrest Frank (from clip): "Your left hand isn't supposed to know from your right hand... y'all are never gonna know that because that's my relationship with Jesus."
• Kersha: "If you stay rooted in Christ, if it's not good, he's not done."
• Kersha: "Stay true to your convictions. Don't wander from the narrow path."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• When you make decisions, what is your true motive? Are you doing things for "image sake" or for God's approval?
• Think of a personal conviction God has given you. How do you stay true to it without imposing it as a rule on others?
• When you see Christians disagree publicly (like in this debate), is your first instinct to judge one side or to seek biblical understanding?
• Where in your life are you chasing "treasures on earth" (a promotion, recognition, a "trophy") instead of "treasures in heaven"?
• Are you letting your left hand know what your right hand is doing? How can you practice the discipline of giving in secret?
• In what area of your life do you need to stop comparing your "narrow path" to someone else's and simply "stay true to your convictions"?

Scripture Focus:

This episode is a practical application of key biblical principles, including:

• Motive & Giving (Matthew 6:1-4): The core of the "motive check" and the call not to practice righteousness (or giving) "in front of others, to be seen by them."
• Treasures in Heaven (Matthew 6:19-21): The principle behind Forrest's conviction—not laying up "treasures on earth where moth and rust destroy."
• God's Provision (Philippians 4:19): The explanation for why accepting money for work is biblical: "And my God will supply all your needs according to his riches..."
• The Narrow Path (Matthew 7:13): The final encouragement to "Stay true to your convictions" by following the specific path God has for you.

🙌 Join the Movement

If you have ever felt caught in a public debate, struggled with a personal conviction, or felt confused by "Christian controversy," this episode is for you. Brian and Kersha’s breakdown is a practical and inspiring call to anchor every cultural moment in the Bible. This is a challenge to check your own motives, stop judging others' paths, and seek God first in all things. Your journey of faith is about your conviction and obedience, not comparing your walk to someone else's.

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In this open and inspiring episode of Crazy Unbelievable Faith, Brian and Kersha sit down with the entire Bryant family—a homeschooling, creative powerhouse. They pull back the curtain on their journey of writing and publishing their family book, Trusting Timothy. This isn't just an author interview; it's a real-life case study in collaboration, patience, and trusting God's timing over a human deadline. The Bryants get candid, sharing stories of family disagreements (solved with rock-paper-scissors!), the struggle of "too many chefs in the kitchen," and the long, rewarding process of bringing a God-given idea to life. The conversation dives deep into the tension between our desire for an "easy button" and the slow, formative work God does in the process. From the frustration of a long outline (Kersha can relate!) to the profound joy of holding a finished book, this episode is a blueprint for anyone who feels called to a creative project but is overwhelmed by the "how." It’s a must-listen for families learning to work together and anyone needing encouragement to "just go for it." This is a powerful reminder that the process is often just as important as the product, and God's timeline is always perfect.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:

• The 3 P's of Process: Unpack the vital roles of Patience, Prayer, and Process in any God-given project, from writing a book to building a family.
• Collaborate Without Imploding: Get the Bryants' candid advice on navigating creative disagreements as a family (and when to use rock-paper-scissors!).
• The "Just Go For It" Mindset: Learn why you miss 100% of the shots you don't take and get practical encouragement to start your new idea, business, or creative work.
• Enjoying the Journey: Discover the counterintuitive truth that the hard work and long journey make the final reward that much sweeter than an "easy button."
• Beyond the Comparison Trap: Understand why you can't compare your path to someone else's and how to focus on the unique calling God has given you.
• The "Little Moments" of Faith: Explore the importance of seeing God in everyday life, not just in the "big" miracle moments that we often expect.
• The Power of God's Word: Grasp the core message of Trusting Timothy—that the solution to every problem (in school, work, or life) can be found in the Bible.

💬 Memorable Quotes:

• Kersha: "What can I grow through instead of go through?"
• Bryant Family: "Just go for it... the worst that could happen is you find out it's not for you."
• Bryant Family: "You need to just do what God has given you and called you to do."
• Brian: (On book writing) "Why are you not done yet? ... She should have already had like four books by now."
• Bryant Family: "...the only way to resolve it is to talk it out and work through it... we're not supposed to lean on our own understanding. We're supposed to trust God."
• Kersha: "Just because I didn't have a big moment doesn't mean God isn't giving me moments."
• Bryant Family: "When you put in the work, I think it is more rewarding than someone just giving you a handout."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• Who or what is truly in the driver’s seat of your life right now: fear, control, or obedience?
• Think of a time you tried to force an outcome. Looking back, can you identify any blessings or lessons you may have missed in the process?
• Are you more afraid of failure or success? How might that fear be keeping you from pursuing a dream or answering a call from God?
• Where in your life do you feel like the "wheels are turning, but the vehicle's not moving"? What is one small step of obedience you can take this week?
• Are you so busy that you can't hear opportunity knocking? How can you intentionally "slow down" to better hear from God?
• Does your daily life reflect a faith that is moving forward courageously, or one that is parked in a state of fear or stagnation?

Scripture Focus:

This episode is a practical application of key biblical principles, including:

• Trusting the Process (Proverbs 3:5-6): The discussion about not "leaning on your own understanding" in creative disagreements is a direct echo of this call to trust God's guidance over our own.
• God's Word as the Solution (Psalm 119:105): The core message of the Bryants' book—that God's Word is the ultimate guide—is a practical application of the Word being a "lamp unto our feet."
• Patience in the Work (Galatians 6:9): The family's emphasis on the long, hard-working process reflects the biblical promise not to "grow weary in doing good," knowing we will reap a harvest if we don't give up.
• Our Unique Calling (1 Corinthians 12:4-6): The advice to avoid comparison and "do what God has given you" points to the truth that there are different kinds of gifts and service, but the same Lord.

🙌 Join the Movement

If you have ever felt called to a creative project, struggled to collaborate with others, or felt impatient with God’s timing, this episode is for you. The Bryant family's story is a practical and inspiring call to embrace the journey. This is a challenge to stop comparing, to "just go for it," and to trust that God is working in the process. Your journey of bringing a God-given idea to life is worth the work.

Connect with Our Guests

The Bryants are a homeschooling, Christian family who strongly believe in the power of GOD'S WORD. They are excited to share this message through Trusting Timothy: A Story About Cheating.

Website: trustingtimothy.com
Instagram: @trustingtimothy_official
Email: [email protected]

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