Heal Your Part

Create, Promote, or Allow: How to Take Responsibility for Your Life


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In this short and powerful reflection, I share a teaching that continues to shape how I live and lead: we are always creating, promoting, or allowing everything that shows up in our lives.

I talk about how this idea came back to me at my church’s annual conference, and how it can completely shift the way we experience responsibility, not as a burden, but as liberation. When we recognize our role in what’s unfolding, we also reclaim our power to change it.

If you’ve been feeling reactive, stuck, or disconnected from your sense of agency, this episode is your invitation to pause, reflect, and remember, you are a co-creator of your lived experience.

What You’ll Learn
  • A powerful framework for understanding what you create, promote, and allow
  • How to reclaim your agency without self-blame or judgment
  • The difference between control and conscious participation
  • Why true self-responsibility is a path to freedom, not pressure
  • How to bring compassion to the choices shaping your experience

Three Core Insights

  1. Awareness is creation. The moment you see your part, the pattern begins to shift.
  2. You are not responsible for everything that happens, but you are responsible for how you meet it.
  3. Every moment is a mirror, showing you what you’re choosing to create, promote, or allow.

Resources Mentioned

  • Reference: Spiritual Psychology principles

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Final Note

Each moment offers a choice, to create, to promote, or to allow. When you bring consciousness to those choices, you become the author of your experience.


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Heal Your PartBy Jennifer Herrera