By Melanie Sobocinski
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Negative body image!!
Have ya ever had negative thoughts about your body?
Not liked what you see when you look in the mirror? Changed your clothes 15 times only to end up wearing something baggy that covers the areas you don’t quite like?
This was once a daily occurrence for me. I struggled on and off for years from the age of 14 on. Itused to suck up all of my time and sometimes I would let it ruin my entier day.
SO how dod I overcome it all? Can I just say, it’s not always daisies, rainbows and butterflies BUT it no longer ruins my day. I am able to quiet the thoughts if and when they sneak up on me. It has changed my life tremendously because I worked on changing up my mindset and turned those negative thoughts into positive ones.
See, we weren’t born hating and shaming ourselves, it’s a LEARNED behavior and I had to UNLEARD all the BS that I learned from the outside sources. You can do it too so let’s talk about HOW you can do just that.
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Is your weight loss method sustainable?
Sustainable weight loss requires REALISTIC methods of healthy eating and exercise habits that you can maintain over time. It's not about following a specific diet or program for a short period of time, but rather making changes that you can incorporate into your everyday life.
If you are using a specific program or product that should happen to go off the market, will you be abe to MAINTAIN the results you achieved from that program or product?
My motto is always, is is sustainable, maintainable and can you keep your sanity!!!??? Some of these programs will give you those fast results in an unrealistic and unhealthy way and then when you “go off” the program, there is weight gain over time. We seem to have a pattern of blaming ourselves when this happens. Let me tell you right now, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!
SO how do you know if you are doing something that is sustainable? Let’s dive into that.
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MENTIONS: In this episode I mentioned a few pervious podcasts and live videos I have done in the past:
Dying to be Thin
How Being a Beachbody Coach and Working at A Gym Destroyed Me
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How many times have you been around the block with yo-yo diets?
ME, Probably more than half my life. When you live your life chasing the diets and the diet mentality is ingrained in your brain, it’s hard to look at food as anything but the enemy. At least that's how I used to live. I went by the good/bad food mentality and feared anything that could cause me to gain weight. Food was the enemy and exercise was the punishment. Best life I ever lived ( sense the sarcasm) IT SUCKED!!
Fast forward to today and I can tell you I have healed my relationship with food and see it for what it is…FOOD!! Yep, no food is off limits to me anymore and it has made my life so much easier. A relationship that was once so complicated is now very peaceful.
So, how did I make peace with food after all the years of living in the diet and weight loss fantasy world? Let’s talk about that and how you can make peace too!!
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I know, you’re thinking, she’s crazy. Hear me out for a second. I get that when you lose a few pounds and you can zip your pants a bit easier, you FEEL a sense of accomplishment and happiness BUT, with most, it quickly deflates because it can be VERY difficult to maintain.
In comes the feelings of defeat, guilt, and anger. It takes a lt of effort to get ther and sometimes it takes even more to MAINTAIN those results.
When we focus so much on the weight loss, the number on the scale and our pants, it can be overwhelming and a huge life suck!! Go ahead and ask me how I know that. I’d hop on the newest program to lose weight, tone up and FEEL confident about myself only to end up obsessing ovet the number on the scale and being pissed off because things did NOT always go my way.
Was it willpower?
Was I not focused enough?
Was I not disciplined enough?
I would feel like I wasn’t good enough and pick myself and my body apart. How’s that for living a healthy life? IT’S NOT!!! I’d end up thinking I just wasn’t good enough..Oh, and I’d be finding all areas of my ody that I hated and felt I needed to workout more and eat less to change.
This cycle chased me for more than half of my life and it has done the same for so many women I have worked with. SO let’s dive in to things and talk a bit more about this and how you can work through it.
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Well, here I am again! I’m roughly 20-ish weeks out of back surgery updating you again. WHY?
Well, I really want to give you all the details of the FULL recovery…the good, the bag, the ugly and everything in between. It’s been a road if I do say so myself.
It’s kind of like life, ya know, things are going all good and then one day…BAM!! The shit hits the fan. In my world, I’ve learned it’s all about how you handle it.
Can I just say that sometimes, I don’t handle it all that well when it hits BUT I DO make it through. Ya know, a few cuss words here and there and then I push forward…which is EXACTLY what I did last week. YEP, the shit hit the fan and I lost it!!
Let’s talk about what happened. Shall we?
I often feel that a LOT of us women give up on ourselves BEFORE we even start. Give me a second here to explain as I come to you with a little rant about what I go through and hear as a health and nutrition coach.
It may sound a little harsh but I am coming at you from a place of love. Is it possible that the efforts we’ve been trying all this time are the WRONG efforts? Is it possible those paths have led us to where we are today without weight loss journey’s?
I’m about to ruffle some feathers here. This episode is not for the faint of heart, I am telling it like it is and laying it all out there in hopes some of you out there realize what you are doing and choose a path that actually FITS you and your lifestyle.
I always say, listen with an open mind and hear me out…and I am telling you, you’ll need to open your ears for this one and hear what I am saying.
I get it a calorie deficit is needed but …
It is NOT the most important thing.
Most of us out here aren’t even sure what that REALLY MEANS!!
Calorie deficit is indeed an effective method for weight loss, but it's important to approach it carefully. When focusing on a whole foods diet, people often naturally consume fewer calories without strict calorie counting.
A calorie deficit is necessary for weight loss, but cutting calories too drastically can have negative effects. Very low-calorie diets can lead to loss of lean muscle mass, which slows down your metabolism. . This can make it harder to maintain weight loss in the long term…and EVEN more difficult to see FAT loss!!
Super restrictive diets can negatively impact hormones and metabolism. The 1200 calorie “diet” is a thing of the past AND it is NOT realistic, healthy OR sustainable.
They may lead to insufficient nutrient intake, bone loss, and increased risk of osteoporosis. These diets can also be difficult to maintain long-term, potentially resulting in weight regain, with most of that weight gain being FAT GAIN!!!
Instead of extreme calorie restriction, I recommend adopting a sustainable, healthy lifestyle.
This includes:
1. Getting adequate sleep.
2. Focusing on nutrient-dense whole foods
3. Incorporating regular physical activity, especially strength training.( don’t be afraid to life a little heavier)
4. Managing stress.
Keep it simple, listen to your body, EAT and get in some healthy movement!!!
Working out hard and doing “all the things” but not seeing the results you expected?
Feel like no matter what you do, you aren’t seeing your body change where you want it to change?
Should you change up your workouts? Call it quits? Start a different one and see is that one “is the one”?
It get it, it can be so confusing BUT jumping from program to program will NOT get you the results you are looking for. I’m about to fill you in on some stuff that your last diet/workout program may not have told you.
YES it’s important to move your body in ways that you enjoy. You should look forward to your workouts, not hate them or feel like they are punishment.
However, if you are looking to “tone” “lean out” or build muscle, like changing your body composition (losing fat & building muscle), your workouts AND MEALS should reflect that.
But don’t worry, there’s room for what you enjoy too. You likely just need to incorporate weight training, or have a more structured weight training program where you can focus on progressive overload.
STOP chasing the calorie burn on your watch!! You are NOT going to see a huge number when you incorporate strength training and that’s OKAY! Your workouts should not be about burning as many calories as possible in that short time.
GO LIFE HEAVY SHIT!!! EAT THE PROTEIN!!
The more muscle you have, the better primed your metabolism is. THIS will not show up on your calorie counter BUT you will see the results on your body!! Building muscle has you actually burning more calories while you’re AT REST!!
IT TAKES TIME!! Somehow, we think it’s not working and we run back to that last weight loss program because “ it worked that one time”. STARVING YOURSELF THIN WILL NOT GIVE YOU MUSCLE!!! I get it, it’s the comfort zone. BUT, nothing changes if nothing changes!!
You are changing things up too frequently and your body has a WTF moment! You are not sticking to anything long enough for your body to progress and adapt to things. Give it 4-6 WEEKS!! Yep, I know, when you are used to doing 87 different workouts, this might seem difficult or even boring!!
PROGRESSIVE OVERLOAD, watch and see what happens. You will notice you can life heavier, your endurance is better and you FEEL like a bad ass!
STOP with the exercise ADHD!!!
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Pictures are really tough, especially when struggling with negative body image. I remember avoiding pictures, hiding behind others, and staring at old photos of myself for hours and thinking,WTF? “Is that what I really look like?” I think to myself.
There was a picture from my parents 25th wedding anniversary party that hit me head. I tore it up and threw it in the garbage as soon as I saw it.
It sucks to feel this way and miss out of saving memories. It sucks even more to not feel comfortable or confident in your body, spending HOURS to get ready, only to leave the house more self conscious than before. It makes sense you are feeling this way when we are living in a society of “picture perfection” with photoshop, and filters. We are constantly hit with pictures of “pretty people” on social media - how could you not compare yourself?
Your weight and body are not the problem - it’s the idea that you need to love and look “perfect” in every picture you take. You deserve and CAN feel comfortable and confident in your body and pictures - at any weight or size.
We are our own worst enemies. Self-judgement is REAL!!
We may scrutinize our perceived flaws or focus on aspects that we are insecure about. The act of being photographed can also make us more aware of our appearance, leading to heightened self-awareness and self-criticism. Ever ZOOOOM way in to different parts of your body and just tear yourself apart?
When we see a picture of ourselves — and are in a struggle with body image — we only see ourselves in one dimension, physically. We mentally block out the people smiling around (or at) us. We forget how the photo symbolizes the fun we had. In fact, we don’t even notice the magnificence of the location. Instead, we zoom the lens of our own eyes onto our bodies. Soon, nothing else matters.
A body is all we see–a flat, one-dimensional object we can choose to critique like a teacher looking for wrong answers on a test. Circle those flabby arms with red ink! Oh, add those bags under my eyes, more points deducted for imperfection! We dehumanize ourselves. Truth is, we scold ourselves for not looking less human.
That’s definitely a great way to boost self-esteem.
CLEARLY, I’m joking, but I’m sure some of you know what I’m talking about.
Over analyzing yourself in pictures can easily turn into a rabbit hole.
Why not try to shift the focus to experiences and relationships: Instead of solely focusing on your appearance in pictures, shift your attention to the experiences and relationships captured in those moments. Value the memories, emotions, and connections associated with the picture rather than solely critiquing your physical appearance.
It's important to remember that our perception of ourselves can be influenced by various subjective factors, and self-criticism based on pictures may not always reflect an accurate or objective view of our appearance. Developing self-acceptance and focusing on the qualities and attributes that extend beyond physical appearance can help cultivate a more positive self-image.
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SO here I am, 3 months out from surgery just giving a little update on things these days.
If I’m being honest, I’ll say I’m nowhere where I want to be BUT, I am on my way there, which is what really matters right now. Let’s face it, it’s been an uphill battle and I made it to the top. It’s all downhill from here and I get to start over. Who the heck is ever excited about that??
ME! Why? Because I’m making it all about the journey and NOT the destination!! Let me just fill you in a bit while you listen.
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