Returning to Us

Creating a Calm Down Space


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In this second episode of this re-introduction to the Returning To Us series, Lauren walks through how to build and use a calm down quiet space in your home or classroom. In the last episode, Lauren strategies for recognizing and categorizing emotional states - a critical step in emotional regulation.

Creating a quiet space to facilitate regulation is an easy way to help your kiddos with emotional regulation. This isn't a time out or punishment; it's a safe place where kids can go to focus on how they are feeling internally and employ emotional regulation strategies.

Lauren provides the steps necessary to setting up a quiet space in your home and teaching your young kids to use it in concert with the regulation strategies and temperature system introduced in past episodes.


Listener Question: Where do you get all the materials you use to create this?


Try-at-home tip:  Create a mind space for your teens, tweens, and young adults. 


References & Resources:

  • What Happened to You?
  • Interview with Oprah and Bruce Perry
  • Understanding the Window of Tolerance
  • Aaron Alexander's Website

Other related resources from The Behavior Hub: 

Blog Post: 

  • 5 Reasons Behaviors Occur
  • Fight or Flight: Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS)
  • Rest & Digest: Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS)
  • Progressive Muscle Relaxation for Kids

Podcast:

  • Teaching Emotional Regulation to Toddlers
  • The Brain in the Palm of Your Hand
  • How on Earth Do We Deal with Misbehavior?

Our Online Courses

  • Classroom Design with the Brain in Mind
  • From Conflict to Calm:  How to communicate with kids so they listen the FIRST time!
  • 4 Simple Steps to Problem Solving

Do you have a question? I can answer it in a future episode!

  • Email questions to [email protected] or send via text to 717-693-7744.
  • Subscribe to our mailing list and find out more about the Emotional Brain.
  • Check out our Facebook GroupRaising and Teaching Respectful Children 
  • The Behavior Hub website
  • The Behavior Hub blog

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Returning to UsBy Lauren Spigelmyer & Jessica Doering

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