How do you help kids develop clarity and confidence about who they are when culture constantly pushes confusion? In this episode, Leslie Nunnery is joined by Dr. Kathy Koch (Celebrate Kids) and Dr. Jeff Myers (Summit Ministries), co-authors of Raising Gender-Confident Kids: Helping Kids Embrace Their God-Given Design , to talk about one of the most urgent discipleship challenges facing families today: raising gender-confident kids in a culture that’s increasingly confused about identity and God’s design.
In this conversation, you’ll hear practical ways to begin (or restart) discussions with your kids, why questions are often more effective than arguments, how social media shapes what kids believe, and why gender confusion is often a subset of broader identity confusion. You’ll also walk away encouraged that it’s not too late—parents can respond with compassion, hope, truth, and courage.
for a deeply practical and hope-filled conversation.
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:
Gender confusion often reflects deeper identity confusion—start with who God says your child is.Parents don’t have to know everything; they can say, “Let’s learn together.”Use questions to invite conversation instead of accusations that shut it down.Social media can accelerate confusion through echo chambers and algorithms.It’s not too late to start—humility and apology can rebuild trust.A helpful framework for hard talks: CUE = Curiosity, Understanding, Envisioning.Practical posture sequence: Compassion → Hope → Truth → Confidence → Courage.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Raising Gender-Confident Kids: Helping Kids Embrace Their God-Given Design (Dr. Jeff Myers + Dr. Kathy Koch)Resources and book access: GenderConfidentKids.com
CONNECT:
Teach Them DiligentlyGuests: Dr. Jeff Myers (Summit Ministries) + Dr. Kathy Koch (Celebrate Kids)
ABOUT THE GUESTS:
Dr. Kathy is not only “Pro-Life,” she is “Pro-Abundant Life.” With a passion for being an influence and for helping build strong and healthy families, Dr. Kathy writes (6 books and counting) and speaks (a lot and often) on a wide range of topics that are both timeless and current. Her humorous and easy-to-learn-from speaking style, foundational wisdom, and practical and relevant details leave her audiences empowered with strategies to navigate the challenges of raising and teaching children. She warmly speaks to young people and their adults with compassion and understanding, never shying away from tough topics in our current culture. Her messages are always beautifully woven with Biblical truth and hope.