Betrayal leaves you isolated and alone internally. The trauma of these events happen based on the reality of feeling completely disconnected from the primary person in our lives. Many partners share how the betrayal left them feeling isolated and even disconnected from God and other people because why would God allow this to happen to them, and the shame of sharing with others what has happened. In order to heal we have to go to the places that have been isolated and alone and undo aloneness. It is truly the only way to heal.