It's your imagination so you can create whoever you like in whichever setting you feel most comfortable in. When you do that, you talk...

In these moments, what you need is a realisation that some of these things are inevitable...

In truth, the problem will persist as long as you don't face it, no matter how bad you make the other person feel.

"We were born into things we don't have to become."

Sometimes, we aren't even the ones who'd done wrong but we are the ones who live with the consequences. Among other reasons, one is probably because we have chosen not to forgive and let go of those experiences and people that have caused us pain.