Women, have you ever cried after having sex, but it wasn't the happy kind of tears?  Or husbands, have you ever seen your wife cry after sex?  Maybe you don't even know that she cried because she left the room and hid it from you.

Either way, this happens more than we would like to think it does.  But why?  Why are we crying sad tears?  Why aren't we crying tears of happiness after supposedly making deep connections through our intimate experiences?

There are a few reasons for this, but the main one has to do with our thoughts.  There are thoughts we bring to the experience, thoughts we have during it that take us out of the experience, and thoughts we have about it afterwards.  Listen in today to see what I did when this happened to me two years after I got married and how just one thought made all the difference.