In today’s episode, we review the book No Cure for Being Human by Kate Bowler. So many of us here have reading goals, so we review a book together once a quarter to help us make progress on our reading goals, read together in community, and learn from great books. Through this book review, we explore the depths of Kate’s learnings as she discovers she has cancer. We review some of our favorite quotes, things we learned and will take away, and applications from this book with all of you. This book was a heavy one, but truly, it instilled what we know already to be true. We are living for a capital L legacy, and our days are numbered. So what we decide to cultivate matters deeply, so live your one beautiful and precious life today, friends. 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

00:34:  What Casey is loving 

01:19:  What Kelley is loving 

05:45:  Intro to the book this quarter 

09:55:  Our favorite takeaways from the book 

10:49:  What if the world no longer holds possibility? 

14:06:  Guilted into being grateful 

17:50:  I have this illusion I’m in control of my life

20:00:  The predicament of living  

22:24:  Your choices in this life matter 

29:25:  Overall book review 

29:50:  Closing thoughts 

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– No Cure for Being Human by Kate Bowler 

– Kate Bowler on Annie Down’s podcast 

– Building a Resilient Life by Rebekah Lyons 

– Try Softer by Aundi Kolber   

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey are in a slump and talk about how to navigate it. We discuss what it’s like when we have no momentum, are in a weird tough season, or aren’t seeing much progress on our goals. Been there? You too? Join us as we talk about the solemn reality of being in a slump and as we have some laughs along the way too. Slumps are a part of life and a part of goal setting, but there is so much to learn in these seasons together! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

04:15:  What Kelley is loving

06:22:  What Casey is loving 

10:42:  When we get into it – are you in a slump too? 

11:50:  Name it & be resilient 

14:05:  Talk about it 

18:30:  Now time to move! 

22:19:  Easy & screen free tasks help 

27:00:  Lots of grace in this too 

30:56:  Closing thoughts  

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– Pitbull’s Best Playlist 

– Carrie Underwood’s Hymns Album

– 10 Ways to Chase Down Joy 

– Try Softer book

– Building a Resilient Life by Rebekah Lyons 

– Erin Moore Fitness 

– Kitchen Cleaner (baking soda & essential oils and Castile soap)

– No Cure for Being Human by Kate Bowler 

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey complete part 2 of How to Cultivate Friendships. Not often talked about in friendships, we talk about texting, ghosting, and hard conversations. At their core, we’d enter into deeper friendships and foster greater connection if we’d focus on communicating more clearly, being willing to go beyond the surface level, and being willing to have hard conversations. We share personal examples and stories in our lives that have been challenging yet refining in the way we approach friendship. Friendship is a part of a rich and beautiful life, and it’s so worthwhile to cultivate! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

01:54:  What Casey is loving

03:30:  What Kelley is loving 

06:09:  Episode intro - ghosting, communicating, texting, and more!  

08:44:  Be a clear communicator 

16:21:  Hey, send up a flare. Are you alive? 

20:42:  Don’t be afraid to go deeper & give it time 

25:42:  Be willing to have hard conversations  

31:14:  Boundaries help us love people 

34:28:  Closing thoughts  

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– Mini Desk Calendars 

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey wanted to talk about connection since we’re so close to Valentine’s Day. So we decided to talk about what every person needs in their lives, whether you’re in a relationship or not – friendship!! Having a place to belong and people to connect with are crucial to our health, well-being, and growth as individuals. We can’t go it alone. We explore the staggering statistics behind depression, suicide, and being “together but apart” in our technology driven society. It can be a lonely world, but it doesn’t have to be. We explore a few easy ways to foster connection and grow friendships (new or old) in our lives. Having friends by our side is what makes life so meaningful and worthwhile, so let’s cultivate friendships together for a more purposeful life lived together! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

00:25:  What Casey is loving

03:43:  What Kelley is loving 

04:55:  Digging into the meat of the episode

05:38:  Together but apart

07:25:  Epidemic of loneliness 

08:02:  Belonging is a basic human need! 

11:31:  We know making & keeping friends can be hard 

12:30:  4 easy, low energy ways to build connection & grow friendships

23:28:  Closing thoughts 

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– Try Softer by Aundi Kolber

– The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. 

– Hand Lettering Worksheets from Etsy

– How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie 

– How to Host a Book Swap

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey share a pep talk with you. About this time of the year, discouragement sets in. Doubts and questions of why we aren’t making more progress by now swirl in our heads. We offer a pep talk about waiting in the process of goal setting, how it’s key to our growth, and how it actually becomes a beautiful part of changing and shaping us for the capital L legacy we want to leave when we’re 80. Waiting isn’t always easy, but it’s a part of the journey of our lives. We hope this episode encourages you as you wait on progress, on achieved goals, and on the legacy you’re living! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

04:03:  What Casey is loving

07:48:  What Kelley is loving 

10:05:  Start of this pep talk 

13:51:  A big part of the process is waiting 

14:54:  Let’s take a step back together for a minute  

17:59:  An example of looking at the bigger picture 

21:53:  Can you imagine being a good waiter?  

23:24:  A few steps to learn to wait well 

28:27:  Closing thoughts 

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– Tello and Rose 

– Jones Road Beauty Lip Tint 

– Derek Kinney on Instagram 

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey kick off the 5th and final episode in the Building Better Goals series featuring big dreams. Big dream goals can be daunting and overwhelming, and many might say, “where do I even start?” We break down what it is, what it’s comprised of, and why you should set and pursue big dream goals in your life. Sometimes, various feelings can also mean we’ve pushed big dreams aside, and we want to encourage you to revisit those big dreams with hope not fear. We hope to encourage you and inspire you in taking a few practical steps to voicing, planning, and executing on your big dream goals. They’re possible, friends! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

02:20:  What Casey is loving

07:32:  What Kelley is loving 

11:39:  Breaking down 3 types of goals 

16:22:  Kelley’s big dream goal example  

18:19:  Casey’s big dream goal example 

21:05:  Why set big dream goals? A pep talk.

24:10:  What to do if you want to set a big dream 

28:10:  Now go do it – execute! 

29:00:  Closing thoughts  

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– Building a Resilient Life by Rebekah Lyons

– The Magic of Big Dream Goals

– How to Cultivate Big Dream Goals

– How to Cultivate Finish Line Goals

– How to Cultivate Habit Goals

– PowerSheets  

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey kick off the 4th episode in the Building Better Goals series featuring tending lists. Tending lists are the systems we use each month to track, systemize, and measure our progress on our goals. They’re so different from our to-do lists, and they’re lists that actually fill our cup and help us become the women we want to be. We share personal examples well as a few quick things you can do today to create one of your own. Tending lists are vital to your success, and listen in to hear why! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

01:30:  What Casey is loving

07:16:  What Kelley is loving 

10:10:  The heart of PowerSheets –  tending lists! 

10:30:  What the heck is a tending list?  

14:18:  A real life example of a tending list in action with a big dream 

21:17:  Put the hard things on there, too. 

26:00:  How to make your own 

28:41:  A pep talk as you do it! 

29:36:  Closing thoughts 

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– Becoming a Soul Minimalist by Emily P. Freeman

– John Mark Comer – Practicing the Way podcast  

– Archer and Olive Traveler’s Notebook 

– The Voice of the Heart 

– PowerSheets

– The Difference Between a Tending List and a To-Do List 

– How to Make a Monthly Tending List 

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey kick off the 3rd episode in the Building Better Goals series featuring routines. Routines are the series of repeated habits or actions you do at a certain time of day or week. We share some key benefits of routines, how you can identify those in your life already and make changes to them, and some fun examples of our own that impact our life and our goals. If you have any to share, we’d love to hear from you too! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

01:00:  What Casey is loving

02:20:  What Kelley is loving 

03:44:  Let’s chat routines. 

08:50:  A practical way to identify them 

10:14:  The difference between routines and rhythms 

12:51:  Some practical examples 

13:34:  All the feelings in this 

15:12:  Our favorite routines 

20:00:  Closing thoughts 

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– The Lacrosse Ball 

– Atomic Habits 

– Sugar Cookie Speech

– Habit Workbook 

– Routines Workbook

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In today’s episode, Kelley and Casey kick off the 2nd episode in the Building Better Goals series featuring habits. These are the building blocks of goals – those repeated actions we do day in and day out that shape us and form us, oftentimes so much more than we realize. We dig into the science of the brain that form habits and why they’re so powerful, and how to cultivate the right habits and good habits for you. It’s only the tip of the iceberg here, but it’s a meaty episode to dig into if you want to change the habits in your life!

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

02:18:  What Casey is loving - a habit hack.

03:30:  What Kelley is loving - these awesome headphones! 

06:38:  Digging into habits 

08:44:  The difference between a rhythm and routine 

09:31:  The usual story with habits 

13:30:  Habits ARE so powerful – it’s all in the brain!  

16:28:  How do you choose the right habits?   

19:04:  Start here with your current habits  

21:48:  How to cultivate good habits?  

29:00   Closing thoughts 

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

– Shokz Open Running Mini Headphones

– Atomic Habits by James Clear 

– Habit Workbook 

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In today’s episode, Kelly and Casey start a new series for the new year about how to build better goals. This episode is the capstone episode of our proven goal setting system, why it works, and why it’s different from all the other goal setting systems or New Year’s Eve resolutions out there. We share stats along with practical tips to get started on your goals right now. Join us today for a 30,000 foot level conversation about how to build new and better goals and ACTUALLY accomplish them this year! 

//Time Stamps//

00:00:  Welcome

01:43:  What Casey is loving 

04:27:  What Kelley is loving

07:45:  Let’s chat goals & stats

10:27:  Our proven system 

12:48:  Saying yes to what matters 

13:42:  So how do we do this, practically? 

14:49:  Uncover what matters 

15:31   Break it down into little steps 

16:27:  Live it out – go do it! 

17:38:  The mindset shifts that make this happen 

18:57:  Taking the long view 

19:22:  A story that really sums this ALL up & will make you cry 

23:16:  When you’re 80…

23:29:  Here’s 3 steps to start! 

29:00   Final thoughts 

// Resources Mentioned in this Episode //

— Curve Love Ultra High Rise Ankle Straight Jean That Look Good on Everybody

— Sweaty Bands

— Teleties Hair Bands

— Our Cultivate stories 

— What is a Tending List?  

— What is a BHAG? 

—The 12 Week Year Episode   

— PowerSheets Intentional Goal Planner

— PowerSheets Facebook Group

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