#41 Bonus How to Stop Thinking Bad Thoughts So Negativity Doesn't Ruin Your Holiday
As we are going into the holidays think about what you want that day to look like. There are two extremes that I fear will happen. They are, that we double down and compensate for the year, and exhaust ourselves in the process, or we call it all a wash and don't do anything (If I can't have it all, I don't want any of it.)
So, let's be intentional. How many times have you thought I wish we could just have one whole holiday alone, just our little family? Now is the time to make that happen. Unfortunately, our thoughts take us away. . . we spiral. . . fear controls us and all this time means that if we aren't careful, we can get stuck and overwhelmed by our world right now.
5 steps to stop thinking bad thoughts and change your mood
- Sit for a few minutes with your thoughts-why am I feeling this way?
Too much tv, your mom said something that scared you, someone you know has covid, you have covid, you are getting bombarded with information 24-7 and that causes stress and anxiety and hopelessness
- Journal out your thoughts and fears
Make a worst-case scenario, best case scenario and in the middle, what will probably, actually happen?
- Declare that you aren't going to let fear and anxiety ruin one more minutes, hour, day, week, or season of your life. Get confirmation bias working with you, instead of against you.
- Every time a bad thought pops into your head you're are going to stop, call a spade and spade, that is a lie sent from the devil to make me fearful and hateful and scared. Then have a mantra or scripture to fill your mind and your heart.
- Intentionally do things that bring you closer to the holiday you want
(quiet holiday, few snacks, good movies, hot chocolate, puppy cuddles and a few phones calls to loved ones) These things are easy to make happen and inexpensive. With a tiny bit of planning and thought, we can still have a great holiday at home.
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