Besties, Talking about levelling up your standards? and what measures should you use? ok, I got you. Besties, self-talk is an excellent habit, that is not a sign that you are going crazy. In fact, it is a healthy practice, especially when you are feeling anxious, down, or reflecting on your thoughts. I highly recommend it because I have been there, done that! While it's essential to have high expectations for yourself, it's equally important to be kind and patient with yourself along the way. To level up your standards, start by setting clear and specific goals. Take some time to reflect on what you want to achieve and break it down into smaller, actionable steps. This will not only help you stay focused but also keep you motivated towards your goals. If you need further insights, let me guide you through it.

Besties, caring & judging are two different things. Caring and judging others are both complex aspects of human behavior, and they can be influenced by various factors such as personal values, cultural norms, and individual experiences.

Caring for others have a ripple effect, inspiring kindness and compassion in the world while judging others can be a more complicated matter. But, then it is natural for humans to make judgments based on their observations and experiences, it's crucial to approach judgment with caution and empathy. Judging others can sometimes stem from biases, stereotypes, or a lack of understanding.

It's undeniable that life can be a struggle in certain aspects of our lives. So today I will be sharing with you how to navigate the difficulties of it and still have a CAN DO mindset 🤍

As a sisterly figure, it's my duty to empower young women and help them tap into their potential. I always make time to give valuable insights on how to recognise and embrace their worth. It's not about generalising men, but about valuing and pursuing women who meet certain standards. It's crucial to understand that any relationship should be based on mutual respect, equality, and shared values. I strongly encourage both men and women to have high self-esteem, set healthy boundaries, and seek fulfilling relationships that are based on mutual respect. Developing a strong sense of self and setting high standards for yourself is a continuous process that requires self-reflection, self-care, and personal growth.

I will always remind you to be confident in yourself and be the best version of yourself, as nobody is perfect. okay? So do your thing boo. Let me share with you some tips on how to boost your confidence and self-esteem. Believe in yourself and your abilities, even with all your flaws. Don't let the opinions of others define who you are. Remember, you have the power to rise above any challenge and reach your full potential. So what are you waiting for? CHOP CHOP! Go get your coffee or anything to drink. Sit back and relax while I will tell you how. 🫶💋

This episode will tell you not to overshare things to people even if you trust someone. Just keep moving in silence. Do not broadcast your goals to others as they can get jealous of you. I mean, it is nice to have somebody that you can tell your ideas and goals, but I don't think it is helpful. Let's practice not OVERSHARING things. Just keep it to yourself until such time that you have it already unfolded.

Allow them. Could you give them the spotlight? They need it to feed their insecurities. It's important to remember that everyone has different opinions and judgments, and it's impossible to please everyone. It's natural to care about what others think to some extent, as humans are social beings. However, it's equally important to prioritise your own well-being, happiness, and personal growth. It's essential to value your own opinions and judgments and not let the fear of judgment hold you back from pursuing your goals or being true to yourself. Being confident in who you are and what you believe in can help you navigate judgments from others with grace and resilience. Ultimately, what matters most is how you feel about yourself and the choices you make. Allow them to judge you give them the spotlight to crtisise you that’s just mean you are above them and they are just the insecure loser who aspire to be like you. Overtime, they are just going to get tired and perish. Just send them love and kisses on the way out.

Have you heard "I don't chase, I attract" Excessive pursuit or chasing, regardless of gender, can sometimes create a perception of neediness or desperation, which might push the other person away. It's important to maintain a healthy level of interest and give the other person space to express their own feelings and intentions. It depends on the individuals involved and the specific dynamics of the relationship. Communication, respect, and understanding are key components of any successful romantic relationships. Ultimately, it's important to be genuine and authentic in your actions. If you are interested in someone, expressing your feelings and intentions in a respectful manner can create an opportunity for open dialogue and understanding. However, it's also important to be mindful of the other person's response and signals. If they consistently show disinterest or explicitly communicate that they are not interested, it's important to respect their boundaries and move on. Do not chase a man or that person if they are not interested in you anymore. Just let it go. It’s screaming desperation and you will look like a laughing stock. Ok boo? Remember that I help you to attract NOT chase. No but or what ifs.. as I said, we don’t chase we attract what is meant for us. Peeeriodddtt!