In this episode of Dad Starts Now, host Nick West speaks with fertility counsellor Narelle Dickinson and former AFL player Reece Conca to unpack what happens when pregnancy doesn’t come easily. Reece shares his personal story of being diagnosed with male infertility and the emotional rollercoaster he and his partner faced on their path to parenthood. Narelle offers expert advice on navigating the mental and relational impacts of infertility, and why opening up can make all the difference.
What men go through during infertility and how to cope with shame, guilt and anxiety
Why communication is crucial during infertility and how couples can strengthen theirs
You're not alone — many men and couples experience infertility
How opening up to your support network can help shift the conversation around male infertility
05:56 Reece on seeking help and support
09:08 The emotional toll of diagnosis
11:54 Communication in relationships during infertility
15:12 Navigating medical procedures and options like micro-tese surgery
18:01 The impact of changing specialists
20:53 Reflections on the journey and moving forward
37:16 Embracing fatherhood
38:53 Messages for men facing infertility
43:18 The role of fertility counselling
44:37 Men's emotional responses to infertility
46:01 Breaking the stigma of male infertility
48:25 Processing emotions and seeking support
52:05 Navigating relationships during infertility
55:27 Opening up about emotions
59:16 Changing the narrative around male infertility
01:01:11 Psychological advice for men struggling with infertility
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