DADDY AF

Daddy is joined by his cherished babygirl to talk about their journey and experiences of the world of kink through the popular online community of Fetlife.  Discussing what Fetlife is, means of communication, the ins and outs of profiles as well as nuances of messaging.  In Part 2 they dive deeper into how to use Fetlife to access community and find your people!  We haven't seen it all by any means but we've seen enough to share a healthy perspective on best practice ideas.  

As an added bonus at the beginning of this episode, babygirl also shares her point of view on reasons why littles and submissives might not be so good at 'knowing whats best for themselves and also doing it'.  Some insights and revelations from PART 2: BEING A DADDY.

We realize there is a lot about Fetlife and community worth discussing.  In fact, what we planned for one episode quickly became two!  So if you want our perspective on any facets of navigating your way into (or through) the kink community please write [email protected]

Daddy steps out of his wheelhouse and takes on a listener message about bottom dysphoria.  Taking a journey through masculine sexuality and it's role across gender identities.  Bringing all the colors of the rainbow together at the pot of gold perspective that being a Daddy transcends social norms, gender roles, body types and identities.  Being a Daddy is far more than what we were taught and are shown masculine and feminine are "supposed to be" in this slowly evolving, but still binary, world.  Being a Daddy is an identity far deeper and more distinct.  Join Daddy as he unpacks gender identity, roles and the highlights the dangers of leaning too far into normative, binary comparisons at the expense of what matters most....your DDlg dynamic.

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Daddy explores aspect of Aftercare in a BDSM and Ds context.  What is it?  What does it look like?  Are you doing it right?  Aftercare is a term often coined in the BDSM community, particularly around the areas of play.  But how does it actually plug in to a dynamic and how can you make it work magic for you?  Join Daddy as he explores the many facets of aftercare, and what it has been in his experience.

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Continue exploring as Daddy shares even more of the critical components to creating and maintaining a thriving DDlg dynamic.  Just what does it take to make your DDlg sing?  Daddy covers what he feels are some of the best practices when it comes to making the most of what you have with your little girl.   

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Join Daddy as he shares some of the critical components to creating and maintaining a thriving DDlg dynamic.  Just what does it take to make your DDlg sing?  Daddy covers what he feels are some of the best practices when it comes to making the most of what you have with your babygirl.  

Wondering how you get from being curious about DDlg to actually identifying as a Daddy?  Daddy had a strong identification with being a Daddy very early in his relationship but had yet to truly experience what being a Daddy meant to him.  Join Daddy on a journey of discovery through what it was that took him from just curious and starting out...knowing that he had a strong desire to be a Daddy...to living every single day as a Daddy to a wonderful and amazing little girl.

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Daddy talks about the benefits of deconstructing the thoughts, feeling and emotions that surround the shared experiences we have in our relationships.  How valuable an asset that deconstruction can be as well as exploring the many aspects of how, when, where and why we do this thing called...deconstruction.

Let’s take a journey through BDSM dynamic. From kink activities like rope, impact, and pain to power exchange between Masters, slaves, Dominants, submissives, Daddys, littles and everything in between…with a focus on kink and power exchange, and an introspective eye, let’s dare ask the question “Why? Why do we do it?” What puts the BD in your SM?

Send your questions, comments and suggestions to [email protected].   Is there a topic you want to hear me talk about?  Do you have questions about the scene?  Is there something you're trying to work through or are stuck on that Daddy can help move forward by sharing his experience?  Reach out and ask Daddy and he will share his thoughts.

Hear from Daddy and babygirl in babygirl’s debut appearance on Daddy AF. Together we explore how relationship landscapes can alter dramatically from how we perceive the way we are in relationships to opening up new worlds and ways of being never imagined. Listen about how the life-affirming aversions to things like romance, true love and soulmates that we had when we first met were challenged. Changing our minds, hearts and perspective about what’s possible for our life together. Also…never say never because I could be six months away!

Regular communication and sharing can help you get the most out of your relationships even as they evolve when we're not looking!  Discover how I went from a complete freak out about the emotional shift I was experiencing, to realizing just how deep the dynamic with babygirl had evolved.  As an added surprise...babygirl unwittingly (but so clearly) uncovers how the 'desire to please' can become so strong that it overpowers needs of self and becomes primary.