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  • 58 Dr. John Rosemond - Renegade Parent Psychologist on Marriage Centred Parenting & Parent Authority

    “Children need equal amounts of unconditional love and unequivocal authority.” Dr. John Rosemond on DADicated.com

    John is 72, married for 52 years, 2 children and 7 grandchildren between the ages of 13 to 25.

    John is an American columnist, highly sought after public speaker, and author of 11 best-selling parenting books and often seen as controversial in today’s popular parenting views. He has worked in family psychology since 1971 and refers to himself as an “opposing voice to psychological correctness”.

    In this session John shares his views on child-centered vs. adult-centered parenting, natural authority and discipline, building your child’s self-esteem, teaching humanity, and being a husband and wife first and a father and mother second. We cover speech characteristics, codependency and his concept of the parenting “hump”.

    The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

    1. Be a husband and wife first and a mother and father second.
    2. I must not add “OK” at the end of a request to my child.
    3. One of the greatest gifts I can give my children is the understanding that they are capable human beings – not solving every problem in life, but being capable of dealing with it
    4. To book Philipp as a keynote speaker on “Empowering Dads & Facilitating Family Success” visit www.about.me/philipphartmann.

      GUEST (John Rosemond):

      • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/johnrosemond/
      • Website: https://www.rosemond.com/
      • Books:

        • https://www.rosemond.com/Books-John-Rosemond.html
        • https://www.amazon.com/John-Rosemond/e/B000AP9HWM%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share
        • Philipp Hartmann (host):

          • Web: www.philipp-hartmann.de
          • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
          • To book Philipp as a keynote speaker on “Empowering Dads & Facilitating Family Success” visit www.about.me/philipphartmann

            1 hr
          • 57 Next-level serial entrepreneur, coach & autism dad with Michael Caito

            “Saying the right thing during a coachable moment to your children that builds their self-confidence can be the biggest difference-maker and change the trajectory of their whole life forever.” Michael Caito on DADicated.com

            Michael Caito is an amazing dad and serial entrepreneur who co-founded ”Restaurants on the Run”, scaled it to 10 markets, 600 people and $40 million in revenue and sold it in 2015. He served as global chair of Entrepreneurs Organization, is the CEO at MAP Consulting and a member of YPO.

            Mike is married, three boys, one with autism. We discuss enabling social skills with kids with autism, how to empower children in principle, how to instill good habits and Mike explains how some of his coaching frameworks can be applied to family. The conversation is valuable and full of practical experience-shares on how to build a successful family and marriage.

            The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

            1. Always call out positive behaviour - in real-time - with your kids.
            2. Ask your wife every day how you can make her life better.
            3. Do not sacrifice your relationship for the kids.
            4. The greatest dad-hack: hold out on the mobile phones as long as you can.
            5. Drill the habits that you want to instill early.
            6. To book Philipp as keynote speaker on how to build successful families, reach out on www.dadicated.com. Thanks for the support!

              Enjoy, thanks for listening!

              GUEST (guest):

              • Michael’s current company “MAP Consulting”: https://www.mapconsulting.com/about-us/map-team/michael-caito
              • Michael on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelcaitomap/
              • https://www.grubhub.com/ (the company that acquired “Restaurants on the Run”)
              • Books & links:

                • Story to Stage (course for speakers): https://msnglnk.com/story-to-stage/
                • “The 100 Percent Rule That Will Change Your Life | Benjamin Hardy | TEDxKlagenfurt” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vj-91dMvQQo
                • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                  • Web: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                  • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingdad_official/
                  • Twitter: https://twitter.com/philipphartmann
                  • 59 min
                  • 56 "Divorce changed me from a father to a dad" with Ron Blair

                    “The best advice I can give myself as a dad is to stay present in the home,” Ron Blair on DADicated.com

                    Ron Blair is currently going through a divorce and has 100% custody. His marriage and family culture are a tale of 2 distinct families which has impacted his parenting style. His dad is his hero and he wanted to emulate that for his 3 teenagers (18, 15 & 12).

                    Ron is President and Chief Operating Officer of Century Group, an executive recruiting and professional staffing company.

                    In the session, he shares openly about the impact divorce had on him & his family-life; what changed and what benefits he gained. Ron talks about co-parenting, support from family and his relationship with his father. Explaining divorce to kids, communicating love and truth, and recognising loss are just some of the incredible topics we cover in this amazing session.

                    The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

                    1. Our pasts are carried forward
                    2. Being present is not merely a physical feature but also a mental one
                    3. The truth must be confronted at some point
                    4. The best way to book Philipp’s keynote “The Dad Dilemma” is to reach out www.dadicated.com - thanks for your support.

                      “Those going through the throes of a divorce, there are some great things on the other side for the dads and their children and that relationship and bonding that can happen through this whole process,” Ron Blair, on DADicated.com

                      GUEST (guest):

                      • LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ronblair
                      • Website: https://www.century-group.com/
                      • Links:

                        • Virtual assistants service company mentioned: www.outsourcery.co.za
                        • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                          • Web: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                          • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                          • 51 min
                          • 55 Losing your child to a rare disease. Daniel DeFabio on Menkes Syndrome

                            “You may have a shorter life with your child but you still have a life with your child and some of this will be happy.” Daniel DeFabio on DADicated.com

                            Daniel DeFabio is married and a father of two boys, Alex and Lucas. Sadly Lucas quite recently passed away at the age of 11.5 due to Menkes Syndrome, a rare disease he had been diagnosed with at the age of 1.

                            Daniel shares how he adjusted his expectations of what raising a child might look like at the point of the diagnosis, his views and experiences as a rare dad, how he dealt with the loss, how the Lucas’s condition impacted the family and what helped him and his views on fathering a child that he knew he would lose.

                            The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad where:

                            1. Parenting advice is almost always future orientated.
                            2. Live in the moment, be ready to change your own expectations.
                            3. When dealing with rare disease parents give an extra effort to include them.
                            4. Hope you’ll like it, thanks for listening.

                              To book Philipp as a keynote speaker on empowering dads and building successful families reach out via www.dadicated.com.

                              GUEST (Daniel DeFabio):

                              • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-defabio-79b3a61/
                              • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                                • Philipp Hartmann: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                                • Philipp’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                                • Weblinks from this episode:

                                  • NYT article Philipp refers to (“How do you parent without a future, knowing that you will lose your child, bit by bit?): https://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/16/opinion/sunday/notes-from-a-dragon-mom.html
                                  • Disorder: The Rare Disease Film Festival:

                                    • Website: https://www.rarediseasefilmfestival.com/
                                    • The Disorder Channel: www.thedisordercollection.com
                                    • facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rarediseasefilmfestival
                                    • instagram: https://www.instagram.com/disorderrarediseasefilms/
                                    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/disorder-the-rare-disease-film-festival/
                                    • 41 min
                                    • 54 Growing up in a Persian single-dad home in the U.S.A. with Shadi Almassizadeh

                                      “The best advice I can give myself as a dad is enjoy every minute, you never get those back and don’t take them for granted.” Shadi Almassizadeh on DADicated.com 

                                      Shadi is the VP of architecture and engineering at Disney, he was born in Iran and grew up in America from age 4. His parents had an arranged marriage that failed so from the age 7 he was raised by his single dad. He is married to Kristi, and they have two children, Kensi (5) and Logan (8). 

                                      In the session Shadi shares his crazy life story and experiences that have moulded him into the dad that he is today. He talks about growing up in a single-parent Persian home in the US, and the impact this had on his youth decisions to ensure a lasting marriage. We talk about culture, exposing your kids to all religions and good principles, and how our partners enable us to be a better parent.

                                      Shadi has an amazing story with so many pleasant outcomes and lessons learned - as a dad as well as an executive of 20+ years. 

                                      The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were: 

                                      1. Expose my children to as many different cultures and learnings as possible. 
                                      2. Make a point of using technology positively. 
                                      3. Create family traditions and break bread together often. 
                                      4. “Children are smart. They are as smart as you will let them be so to enable them and let them make their own assessments and listen to them.” Shadi Almassizadeh on DADicated.com 

                                        To book Philipp as a keynote speaker on “Empowering Dads & Facilitating Family Success” reach out via www.dadicated.com. 

                                        GUEST (Shadi Almassizadeh): 

                                        • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadi-almassizadeh/ 
                                        • Philipp Hartmann (host): 

                                          • Philipp's Website: www.philipp-hartmann.de 
                                          • Philipp on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                                          • 1 hr 3 min
                                          • 53 Developmental Coordination Disorder (DCD) & Life Energy with Chris Jones

                                            “The best advice I can give myself as a dad is to be present with an open heart.” Chris Jones on DADicated.com

                                            Chris has been married to Yolanda for 22 years and they have two boys (16 & 13).

                                            Chris shares about his son’s Developmental Coordination Disorder (DCD) and how his condition has impacted him and the family. Chris’s insights on managing life energy (whilst being relentless) well are powerful. We talk about role clarity, family communication, being vulnerable with kids and life transitions.

                                            Chris is a high-energy serial-entrepreneur. He led his last company into building 4 brands to #1 market share in Canada while scaling the business 7 times in revenue and transitioning to working 3 hours per month.

                                            The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

                                            1. My wife needs to be my number one relationship – this in turn will make me a better dad
                                            2. If I do my best and come from a place of love it’s ok not to be perfect.
                                            3. I need to take care of myself to truly show up for my family
                                            4. To book Philipp as a keynote speaker on “Empowering Dads & Facilitating Family Success” visit www.dadicated.com.

                                              Hope you’ll like it, thanks for listening.

                                              “Success is defined differently for me. One thing I have always held very close to my heart is the importance of family and I have always placed family at a higher value than money,” Chris Jones on DADicated.com

                                              Chris Jones (guest)

                                              • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisjonesyyc/
                                              • Twitter: keepupwithcj
                                              • Website: https://www.strategictraction.ca/
                                              • Author Mentioned in Podcast:

                                                • Barbara Coloroso https://www.amazon.com/Barbara-Coloroso/e/B000APMW10
                                                • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                                                  • Web: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                                                  • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                                                  • #EOS #entrepreneurdad #dad #athletedad #familypodcast #DCD

                                                    57 min
                                                  • 52 Steve Biddulph’s incredible insights into “The Father Wound” & raising kids

                                                    “The secret of family is to love what you have got. What you have got is better for you than what you would have made up for yourself.” Steve Biddulph on DADicated.com

                                                    Steve Biddulph is one of the world's best known parent educators and best-selling parenting author. A psychologist for 30 years, he is now retired but continues to write and teach. Steve is known for his ideas of a more affectionate and connected form of parenting.

                                                    Steve Biddulph is 67 years old, married for over 40 years, 2 children and grandchildren.

                                                    Steve explains ‘the father wound’ and how men can heal their relationship with their own fathers. There are true nuggets on raising boys and girls, toddler negotiation, the impact of men’s groups on dads and various key elements to successful fatherhood.

                                                    The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

                                                    1. All learning is relational.
                                                    2. Stop telling my kids not to cry.
                                                    3. Ask myself daily: who is my child TODAY and where can we meet?
                                                    4. For my sons – I need to teach them how to drive and steer their male bodies.
                                                    5. For my daughters – I am their self-esteem department and example of male respect.
                                                    6. To book my remote keynote on how we can empower dads in an effort to help facilitate family success please reach out via dadicated.com or simply use my linkedIn (below).

                                                      Thanks for listening, if you like this one, please share the session.

                                                      “The secret of family is to love what you have got. What you have got is better for you than what you would have made up for yourself.” Steve Biddulph on DADicated.com

                                                      GUEST (Steve Biddulph):

                                                      • Website: www.stevebiddulph.com
                                                      • Books by Steve Biddulph mentioned:

                                                        • Raising Boys https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Boys-21st-Century-Completely/dp/0008283672
                                                        • Raising Girls https://www.amazon.com/Steve-Biddulphs-Raising-Girls-Biddulph/dp/0007455666
                                                        • The New Manhood https://www.amazon.com/New-Manhood-20th-anniversary-ebook/dp/B07GZ56VY7
                                                        • Steve Biddulph Bio and Books on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Steve-Biddulph/e/B001J3MTQU%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share
                                                        • Other books Mentioned in Podcast

                                                          • Boys Should Be Boys by Meg Meeker https://www.amazon.com/Boys-Should-Be-Secrets-Raising/dp/034551369X
                                                          • The Boy Crisis by Warren Farrell https://www.amazon.com/Boy-Crisis-Boys-Struggling-About/dp/1942952716
                                                          • Links:

                                                            • Dr. Richard Fletcher – A Helping Hand for Fathers https://www.newcastle.edu.au/profile/richard-fletcher
                                                            • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                                                              • Philipp’s Website: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                                                              • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                                                              • #stevebiddulph #dads #raisingsons #raisingdaugthers 

                                                                1 hr 2 min
                                                              • 51 Eric Naaman on dancing the stepfather-dance

                                                                “How do I become part of this child’s life, without alienating the father, but still in the sense we need to become a family?” Eric Naaman on DADicated.com

                                                                Eric Naaman, who grew up in war-torn Lebanon, is a leading entrepreneur, and loving stepdad to 12 year old Francois. He studied in the US, and is a successful entrepreneur now living in Canada.

                                                                In the session Eric shares about his upbringing in Lebanon, resilient family units, the unique role of a step-dad, and how to build a relationship with a child that’s not your own. Eric shares how he has approached discipline and influence, when to take a step back, and his relationship with Frank’s father. He has amazing insights into how to turn a difficult situation into something very positive.

                                                                The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

                                                                1. As a step-dad don’t try to replace or disparage the father; never take away glory from him
                                                                2. Be supportive of all your child’s endeavours
                                                                3. I should always be working at the relationship with my wife and kids.
                                                                4. Ask them about their dreams, share yours.
                                                                5. “Embrace our separate journeys. These journeys are at the root of our individuality but sharing in them is the cornerstone of life as a family.” Eric Naaman on DADicated.com

                                                                  Visit www.dadicated.com to book Philipp as a keynote speaker on “Empowering Dads & Facilitating Family Success”.

                                                                  GUEST (guest): Eric Naaman

                                                                  • LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/eric-naaman-b446937
                                                                  • Website: https://www.damotech.com/
                                                                  • Links:

                                                                    • Article mentioned: https://time.com/5899546/family-structures/
                                                                    • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                                                                      • Web: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                                                                      • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                                                                      • 52 min
                                                                      • 50 Hao Lam: Street Kid, Refugee, Leading Education Entrepreneur & Dad

                                                                        “The best advice I can give myself as a dad is to spend one-on-one quality time with each son,” Hao Lam on DADicated.com

                                                                        Hao Lam’s story as a dad is powerful and super inspirational.

                                                                        Hao Lam is a refugee and dad of two sons (23 AND 20) from Vietnam, now living in Seattle. He has been married to his wife Lisa, for 27 years.

                                                                        As a youngster Hao spent 12 years trying to escape Vietnam, was a street kid and refused formal education from the country that held his dad as a prisoner of war. He eventually made his way to Canada, managed to graduate from High School and College and went on to create Best in Class Education Center, which is now one of the largest education franchises in the US.

                                                                        In the session we discuss Hao’s journey, his upbringing and escapes from Vietnam to becoming an entrepreneur. Hao shares openly about fatherhood during hardship, his mistakes, his regrets and his learnings as a father.

                                                                        The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

                                                                        1. If I’m not going to die, it’s probably not such a big deal.
                                                                        2. Am I treating my parents as well as I am treating my children?
                                                                        3. The more you push your children, the less they will want to come.
                                                                        4. Always tell your children that you love them & do make time for them.
                                                                        5. To book Philipp as a keynote speaker on “Empowering Dads & Facilitating Family Success” visit www.dadicated.com or reach out via LinkedIn.

                                                                          “Our children see us and copy us. Being a dad, we are our children’s model. They look up to us. I want my children to persevere, be resilient, and not be afraid of failure.” Hao Lam on DADicated.com

                                                                          GUEST (guest):

                                                                          • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/haolam/
                                                                          • Website: https://www.bestinclasseducation.com/
                                                                          • Twitter: BestInClassEdu
                                                                          • Books:

                                                                            • "From Bad to Worse to Best in Class: A Refugee's Success Story." by Hao Lam https://books.google.co.za/books/about/From_Bad_to_Worse_to_Best_in_Class.html?id=t4hktgEACAAJ&source=kp_book_description&redir_esc=y
                                                                            • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                                                                              • Web: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                                                                              • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                                                                              • 49 min
                                                                              • 49 Don Britton sold his company to become a better Dad

                                                                                “The best advice I can give myself as a dad is finding as many different reference points to emulate becoming a better dad.” Don Britton on DADicated.com

                                                                                Don Britton (2 daughters, 1 & 5) is an amazing entrepreneur with a wealth of life experience who recently sold his company in a quest to spend more time with his family.

                                                                                Don grew up without his dad. He shares about his mother’s sacrifices and why (pre-kids) family seemed to be a competitive disadvantage. We discuss entrepreneur-dad challenges, family-positive workplaces, family values and mentorship for dads.

                                                                                The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad were:

                                                                                1. Have frank conversations with your kids about difficult topics.
                                                                                2. Never leave a question unanswered.
                                                                                3. Teach your children the value of work and that things in life don’t come for free.
                                                                                4. Don is an adventurous guy with a wealth of life experience, I do hope you’ll enjoy the session! If you do, hit subscribe and share the podcast with another dad or to. Thanks for listening!

                                                                                  Don Britton (guest):

                                                                                  • Don’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donbritton/
                                                                                  • Twitter: https://twitter.com/don_britton
                                                                                  • Books:

                                                                                    • Simple Numbers: https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Numbers-Straight-Talk-Profits/dp/1608320561
                                                                                    • Leap of Reason: Managing to Outcomes In an Era of Scarcity https://www.amazon.com/s?k=9780983492009&i=stripbooks&linkCode=qs
                                                                                    • King Me: What Every Son Wants and Needs from His Father https://www.amazon.com/King-Me-Every-Wants-Father/dp/0802433197
                                                                                    • Links:

                                                                                      • https://www.cashflowstory.com/
                                                                                      • https://www.rebelgirls.com/pages/podcast
                                                                                      • Philipp Hartmann (host):

                                                                                        • Philipp’s Website: www.philipp-hartmann.de
                                                                                        • Philipp’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipphartmann2
                                                                                        • Podcast webpage: www.DADicated.com
                                                                                        • 56 min

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                                                                                        Philipp Hartmann became a dad of five under two in 13 months. In our first season "Being Dad" we meet unique, inspirational fathers who share their own experiences and stories.