DadMode: God, Grit, Goals

Many dads aren’t drifting. They’re gripping.

In this episode of DadMode, Mike Tobias reflects on the quiet exhaustion many men carry while still trying to do the right thing—at work, at home, and in their walk with God.

This isn’t about burnout or rebellion. It’s about alignment, effort, and the unseen stories that quietly shape how we live under pressure.

If you’re a dad who’s still showing up—but doing it tired—this conversation is for you.

If your marriage feels like it suddenly shifted… if your wife is changing, you’re changing, and nothing feels as stable as it used to—this episode is for you.In this powerful conversation, Mike Tobias sits down with executive leadership coach Cory Dunham to talk honestly about the emotional, spiritual, and relational realities men face in midlife. From the shock of menopause to the weight of leadership, identity, and faith, this episode pulls back the curtain on what men rarely talk about—but desperately need to understand.Together, Mike and Cory unpack:✔️ How menopause can shake even healthy marriages—and how husbands can respond with compassion, not confusion✔️ Moving from spiritual autopilot to actually hearing God again✔️ Why attention is the true measure of worship (news, fear, phones, and anxiety)✔️ How to lead your marriage and family when YOU feel lost✔️ The difference between performing leadership and living it from identity✔️ Building habits and rhythms that align your life with God’s design✔️ What it means to lead with humility, curiosity, and a Kingdom mindsetThis is a raw, real, hope-filled episode for husbands, dads, leaders—and any man feeling the pressures of midlife transition. You don’t have to navigate this alone. God is with you, and there is a way forward.If this episode helped you:👍 Like the video🔔 Subscribe for more faith, fatherhood, and leadership conversations📤 Share this with another man who needs encouragement todayConnect with Cory Dunham:Podcast: Unapologetic LeadershipLinkedIn / Website: CoryDunham.comRemember the four core truths we hold to on Dad Mode:God is goodJesus has forgiven meI am lovedEverything is possible#DadMode #ChristianMen #Marriage #Menopause #Midlife #FaithAndLeadership #CoryDunham #MikeTobias #ChristianHusbands #LeadershipDevelopment

Join us on Dad Mode: God, Grit & Goals as we dive deep into an incredibly powerful story of transformation with special guest Zach Garza. This episode, titled Fatherless to Fathering, explores Zach's profound journey from the deep pain of growing up without a father to becoming a “father of many” through dedicated mentorship.Zach shares the raw, emotional truth of his childhood after his father left at age 13, leaving him seeking love, affirmation, and acceptance. Discover how God, in His kindness, brought pivotal mentors into Zach's life who shifted his trajectory from a “path of darkness” to a “path of life.”In this powerful episode, you will learn:The transformative power of relational mentorship: Hear the incredible story of Bob, Zach's first true mentor, who didn’t try to “fix” him or preach, but simply showed up and built trust through relationship. This led to a life-altering emotional breakthrough for Zach, where he wept for the first time since he was 13.How pain can become passion: Learn how another key mentor, Steve Allen, taught Zach the crucial lesson that “your pain can become your passion,” guiding him through the challenging, miraculous process of forgiving his father and finding new purpose.The simple keys to effective mentorship: Zach outlines three profound principles—show up consistently, speak truth (encouragement and courage), and love God. He also shares the vital concept of focusing on “faithfulness over fruitfulness,” reminding us that the outcome of mentorship is in God’s hands.The difference between a “buddy” and a godly relationship: Understand the critical role of authenticity, vulnerability, and men who will “call you up” to your best self.Practical advice for fathers: Zach, a father of three, shares insights on setting family rhythms, prioritizing quality time, showing physical affection (hugging and kissing your kids), and the importance of dating your wife.This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to heal from past wounds, become a better mentor, or deepen their understanding of intentional fathering. If God can transform Zach's life, He can do it to anyone.Connect with Zach and his impactful work:You Can Mentor: Learn how to start, scale, and sustain mentoring organizations across America.Website: www.youcanmentor.comSocial Media: @youcanmentorListen to the You Can Mentor Podcast!Raising Up Fathers: Join the mission to destroy the cycle of fatherlessness by encouraging and empowering men to become the godly husbands and fathers they never had.Website: www.raisingupfathers.comSocial Media: @raisingupfathers#Mentorship #Fatherlessness #Healing #Fatherhood #DadMode #ZachGarza #YouCanMentor #RaisingUpFathers #PersonalTransformation #ChristianMentorship #GodlyMen #FamilyLife #DadAdvice #Podcast #LifeLessons

Are you a dad who feels like you're doing everything "right"—but still feel lost, disconnected, or worn out? You’re not alone. In this episode of Dad Mode, Mike Tobias shares a powerful, practical roadmap to help you rediscover your God-given identity, reclaim your purpose, and lead your family with clarity and courage.

🔥 Learn how to overcome emotional exhaustion
📖 Explore a biblical framework for authentic masculinity
🛠️ Start 3 simple daily practices that will realign your life
💬 “You’re not broken. You’re untrained. Let’s fix that—together.”

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In this heartfelt episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals, host Mike Tobias sits with Jay Erwin to share his story of losing his daughter, Audrey, at eight months of pregnancy. Discover how Jay and Carolyn found Christian grief support and healing through faith, leaning on God to navigate the pain of stillbirth. From planting a magnolia tree to honor Audrey to finding hope after loss, this episode offers a biblical perspective on grief. If you’re seeking hope after miscarriage or loss, this Christian dad podcast will inspire you. Share this episode and join us to explore trusting God in grief.

Built for the Fight isn’t just another men’s book. It’s a wake-up call for every man who feels stuck—and for the women who love them.

In this episode, Mike Tobias unpacks why most men are silently drifting, how biblical masculinity offers a better path, and what it really means to fight for your identity, family, and legacy.

💥 Kindle edition launches May 22
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In this special reading from my upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood, I dive into Chapter 9: Living the Paradox: The Strong Yet Humble Man. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of what it truly means to be a man in today's world—one rooted in both strength and surrender.

Join me as I unpack the tension between cultural expectations and biblical truth, and how we as men, fathers, and leaders are called to live courageously yet humbly. If you’ve ever wrestled with what it means to be both firm and faithful, bold yet broken, this episode is for you.

Whether you're in your car, at the gym, or winding down for the night, this chapter will challenge and inspire you to embrace the man God designed you to be.

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As Easter approaches, we’re looking at the final seven statements Jesus made on the cross—words that reveal what true strength, humility, and legacy really look like. In this special Dad Mode episode, Mike Tobias unpacks how each of these last words connects to the paradox of biblical manhood: power restrained, purpose fulfilled, and trust fully surrendered.

Whether you're a dad, husband, leader, or just someone trying to live with more intentionality, these words offer a fresh perspective on what it means to be strong in the ways that matter most.

This isn’t just a reflection—it’s a call to live like the strongest man who ever lived.

🛠 Topics Covered:

• Mercy over retaliation

• Being present in pain

• Leading through responsibility

• Embracing vulnerability

• Naming your needs

• Finishing what you start

• Trusting God with the outcome

Subscribe, share, and let this Easter reshape how you see strength.

What happens when comfort becomes a man’s highest goal?

In this raw and revealing episode, Mike Tobias shares a deeply personal story of financial collapse, identity loss, and the painful process of rebuilding strength from the ground up. Drawing from a pivotal chapter in his upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood, Mike unpacks why our culture’s obsession with ease is weakening a generation of men — and what it truly means to stand firm.

From biblical wisdom to neuroscience insights, from Nehemiah to Andrew Huberman, this episode explores:

• Why masculinity is misunderstood — and what we’ve lost

• The cultural lies men are told about strength, faith, and leadership

• How resilience is built — spiritually and neurologically

• A practical path for becoming the kind of man the world desperately needs

If you’re tired of watered-down manhood, confused cultural messaging, and passive living — this conversation is your wake-up call.

📩 We want your feedback! This episode is based on a draft chapter — drop your thoughts in the comments or connect at https://miketobias.me