We are all living two lives—one in the world everyone sees, and another in your mind. 

In this debut episode of our new series on The Daily Boost, Charlie Harary dives into the secret battle between our outer reality and our inner world, revealing how jealousy, lust, and the pursuit of honor can pull us away from true fulfillment.

The Two Worlds We Live In: There's the external world of actions and interactions, and the internal world of thoughts and emotions. True joy and strength come from mastering the inner world.

The Danger of Disconnection: You can have everything externally—success, relationships, material comfort—but still feel disconnected or unfulfilled if your inner world is out of balance.

Three Traits That Steal Your Life: Rav Eleazar HaKaapar’s timeless wisdom teaches that jealousy, lust, and the pursuit of honor disrupt your internal world and prevent you from thriving.

Jealousy’s Power to Distract: The first of the three traits, jealousy, takes us out of our own lives by fixating on what others have instead of appreciating and building our own.

A Path Forward: Focus on controlling your inner world, not just your external circumstances. This shift is the key to unlocking joy and strength in life.

If you’re struggling to feel present, fulfilled, or in control of your emotions, this episode will give you the mindset shift you need. Charlie’s relatable stories and deep insights will inspire you to take charge of your inner world and rediscover your purpose.

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 Resilience vs. Fear Part 2

Why do some people rise up during a challenge and some shut down, break down?

In part one, we discussed the different ways we react to challenges. 

Today, Charlie begins to explain how we can tap into the higher ways of reacting like giving, resilience, sacrifice, courage, by beginning to understand how challenge affects us physically.

What it does to our body.

How our brain reacts.

How survival mode affects us without us even thinking about it. 

And how we can get stuck in survival mode for a lifetime if we don’t do something about it.

Before we can rise up, we have to understand what brings us down and how.

This episode will clarify why so many react in fear, despair and brokenness.

See you next time to start building resilience!

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In today’s episode, Charlie addressed the different reactions people have to the difficult times we are in.

We see:

Giving 

Volunteering 

Unity 

Courage 

Resilience 

Sacrifice 

Bravery

For others we see:

Fear 

Despair 

Brokenness 

Obsession with news 

And still for others, the response is:

Hate

Destruction 

Death

How do we get on the good side and react in a way that demonstrates strength and goodness? Where challenge builds us?

We have to have a very important conversation about higher self living, and lower self living.

What is lower self living?

Why do some people get stuck there?

How does it start?

Tune in to understand this extremely important concept, where we’re too focused on the self to rise above, before we pick up the higher self in the next episode.

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With everything going on in the world, we find ourselves asking “why are we alive? What is our purpose?”

There is a common and beautiful question we can ask ourselves to help us discover our purpose:

How do I use what I have (resources, knowledge, challenges) to help other people?

But most people are so busy looking for a huge cosmic, macro “life project,” when most probably your purpose is right in front of you. 

So today, look at your life and ask yourself, where are you needed? Who in your life really needs you? Your child? Your spouse? Is there a mitzvah in front of you? A person?

Don’t look for a big important job. Look at what’s in front of you today, and how you can take care of that with the most energy, enthusiasm, and holiness!

That’s how you find your purpose!

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