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Yaakov's Four Wives
Yaakov loved Rachel and told her father Lavan that he would work for him for seven years to have Rachel, his youngest daughter. Rashi comments that Yaakov specified "Rachel", "his daughter" and "his youngest daughter" so that Lavan would not try to trick him by saying that he meant another Rachel or his other daughter (Leah, who he might then rename to Rachel (and rename Rachel as Leah).
Lavan conceded that it would be better to give her to Yaakov than to another man, so he told Yaakov to stay with him.
So Yaakov did stay, and worked seven years so he could have Rachel. Out of his love for her, these years felt like a few days to him.
After the seven years were over, Yaakov was eighty four years old and thus rushed to asked Lavan to give him his wife so he could procreate with her and beget the twelve tribes.
Lavan brought everyone together and made a feast. That evening, Lavan summoned Leah and gave her his maidservant, who was named Zilpah to be Leah's maidservant.
In order to avoid embarrassing her sister, Rachel gave Leah the signs that Yaakov had given to Rachel, so that night, Yaakov did not realize he had married the wrong sister.
The next day, however, Yaakov saw what had happened and he demanded Lavan tell him why he had deceived him.
Lavan replied that it was not the custom in their area to marry off the younger daughter before the eldest. He assured Yaakov that after seven days of being married to Leah, Yaakov will work for Lavan for another seven years after which he will be granted Rachel as well.
So it was that seven days after the wedding of Yaakov and Leah, Lavan gave Rachel to him for a wife. Lavan gave his maidservant Bilhah to be a maidservant for Rachel.
Although Lavan was deceitful regarding the first seven years, this did not deter Yaakov from working for the next seven years in a faithful manner.
Yaakov was with Rachel and loved her more than Leah.
G-d saw that Yaakov hated Leah, so he made her get pregnant, while Rachel remained barren.
Leah bore a son whom she named Reuven, so named as G-d "saw" (Re'eh related to the name Reuven) her affliction and now Yaakov will love her.
And Leah conceived and bore a son, and she named him Reuben, for she said, "Because the Lord has seen my affliction, for now my husband will love me." Meaning to say, she was appealing to others to see the greatness of her son, who unlike Esav did not sell his birthright to Yosef, yet also did not protest when it was given to Yosef, and even tried to rescue him from the pit.
Leah had another son whom she named Shimon. So named because G-d "heard" (ie. Shama, related to the name Shimon) that she was hated and thus gave her this second son.
She bore yet another son and named him Levi, so named because she said that now Yaakov would be "attached" (Yelavei, related to the name Levi) to her. This was so since she, like all of the matriarchs was a prophetess, and thus foresaw that Yaakov was destined to marry four wives from which the twelve tribes would come, and reasoned that in having three sons, she contributed her share.
Rashi cites a Midrash which describes that G-d sent the angel Gavriel who brought Levi before Him and G-d gave Him this name together with the 23 priestly gifts. This was why he was so named, since Gavriel accompanied him (in hebrew (לִוָּהוּ) with gifts).
Leah gave birth to yet another son, and named him Yehuda, alluding to her thanking ("Hoda'ah" related to the name Yehuda) G-d for giving her more sons than her technical share of the tribes. She stopped bearing after this.
Rachel felt jealous of Leah's good deeds, thinking that if only she had been more righteous, she too would have had the merit of having children. She said that just as Yaakov's father prayed for his mother to bear children, she is demanding that Yaakov give her children, declaring that if not, she is "dead" (Rashi comments that this teaches us that anyone who doesn't have children is as if they are dead).
Yaakov got angry at Rachel and exclaimed "Am I taking the place of G-d who has withheld children from you?" He said that he was not like his father who had no sons when he prayed. Yaakov by contrast did have sons, so it was clear that G-d was withholding children from Rachel, not Yaakov.
Avraham had sons through Hagar, yet he prayed passionately for Sarah, So Rachel now gave her maidservant Bilhah to Yaakov, thinking that that might remove any blockage there might be for her (Rachel) having children.
Yaakov was intimate with Bilhah and she conceived and bore a son.
Rachel named this son Dan, saying that G-d had "judged" her (the name Dan means "judge") and listened to her voice.
Bilhah then bore a second son. This one, Rachel named Naftali, alluding to how she was joined to her sister with "divine bonds" (in Hebrew נַפְתּוּלֵי, related to the name Naftali). Rashi cites Menachem ben Saruk who describes this to mean that Rachel now had joined her sister in meriting children with ties to G-d. However, Rashi says that he understands the allusion to be to "stubborn and twisted" (וּפְתַלְתֹּל), meaning that with torturous pleas, she stubbornly prayed to G-d to be equal to Leah. Rashi cites Onkelos, saying that the word Naftali is related to prayer (תְּפִלָּה).
And Bilhah, Rachel's maidservant, conceived again and bore Jacob a second son.
And Rachel said, "[With] divine bonds I have been joined to my sister; I have also prevailed"; so she named him Naftali.
When Leah realized that she was no longer bearing children, she gave her maidservant Zilpah to Yaakov.
Ziplah bore Yaakov a son. Zilpah was the youngest of Yaakov's wives, so her pregnancy was not noticeable. This was part of Lavan's deception, as it was customary to give the older maidservant to the older daughter and the younger maidservant to the older daughter, but Lavan reversed it.
Leah named Ziplah's son "Gad", alluding to how good "luck" (related to the name Gad) had come. Rashi cites another explanation that the name is related to the word בָּגָד which means "traitor", implying that Yaakov betrayed Leah by being with her maidservant.
Ziplah bore another son through Yaakov whom Leah named Asher, alluding to the good fortune (related to the word/name "asher") that other women recognized.
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