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To nip something in the bud means to deal with a problem at an early stage, before it has the chance to grow into something bigger or more difficult.

Example:

Imagine you’ve recently started going to bed later and later.

At first, it’s only half an hour.

Then you start scrolling on your phone until one in the morning.

A few weeks later, you’re exhausted every morning.

You notice what’s happening and think:

“I need to nip this habit in the bud before it becomes my new routine.”

So you start leaving your phone outside the bedroom.

The habit is still relatively new, which makes it much easier to change.

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It goes both ways

We use “it goes both ways” when something should be mutual or reciprocal.

In other words, if one person gives something — effort, respect, support, honesty — the other person should usually give something too.

It shouldn’t all come from one side.

Example:

Imagine you share an apartment with someone.

You usually wash the dishes, take out the rubbish, and clean the kitchen.

One day, your roommate complains:

“You left your cup on the table.”

You laugh and say:

“Fair enough, but keeping the apartment clean goes both ways.”

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For lack of a better word

We use this expression when the word we choose is not exactly right, but it is the closest or best word we can think of at that moment.

Example:

Imagine you have been living in another country for several years.

One day, you return to the neighbourhood where you grew up.

The streets are familiar.

The bakery is still there.

You recognise the park.

You know where everything is.

And yet…

something feels different.

Maybe the place has changed.

Maybe you have changed.

Someone asks:

“How did it feel to be back?”

You think for a moment and say:

“It was, for lack of a better word, bittersweet.”

You are happy to be there.

But there is also a strange sadness.

It feels familiar and unfamiliar at the same time.

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To each their own 

We use “to each their own” when we want to say that different people have different tastes, preferences, and ways of doing things — and that’s okay.

Example:

Imagine you visit a friend’s apartment for the first time.

You walk in and notice there’s hardly anything there.

Very few decorations.

Not much furniture.

Even their wardrobe is surprisingly small.

You look around and ask:

“Did you just move in?”

They laugh.

“No! I just don’t like having too much stuff.”

You couldn’t imagine living like that. You love having books, photos, little souvenirs, and familiar things around you.

So you say:

“I like having my things around me, but to each their own.”

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A last resort 

is the final option you use when everything else has failed—or when there really isn’t another good choice left.

Example:

1- Imagine your neighbour keeps playing loud music late at night.

At first, you ignore it.

Then you speak to them politely.

You even leave a friendly note.

But nothing changes.

Finally, you decide to contact the building manager.

You could say:

“I really didn’t want to complain to the building manager, but it became my last resort.”

You didn’t want to make the situation more serious.

You tried the quieter, friendlier solutions first.

But eventually, there was nowhere else to go.

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When was the last time you allowed yourself to be bad at something?

Not practising secretly until you could look competent.

But trying something unfamiliar, making mistakes, and allowing yourself to be seen as a beginner.

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Borrowing others' priorities?

Ever achieved something you thought you wanted… and then felt surprisingly little?

You reached the goal. You received the recognition. 

Perhaps people congratulated you. But inside, there was a quiet question:

“Why doesn’t this feel the way I expected it to?”

Sometimes, the problem is not that we failed.

But we succeeded at something we never deeply chose.

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It happens to the best of us

Even intelligent, capable, and experienced people make mistakes sometimes.

It’s a warm way to remind someone that they’re not alone—and that one mistake doesn’t define them.

Example:

Imagine your friend arrives at the airport and suddenly realizes they left their passport at home.

They look horrified and say:

“I can’t believe I forgot the most important thing!”

You could reassure them by saying:

“Don’t be too hard on yourself. It happens to the best of us.”

You’re not saying the mistake doesn’t matter.

You’re reminding them that capable people can still forget important things—especially when they’re stressed or rushing.

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No harm done 

We use “no harm done” when someone has made a mistake, but nothing serious happened as a result.

Example:

Imagine a friend is meeting you at a café.

They arrive twenty minutes late and immediately say:

“I’m so sorry! I wrote down the wrong time.”

But you’ve been sitting there with a coffee, reading your book. You weren’t in a hurry.

So you smile and say:

“Don’t worry. No harm done. I was enjoying my book anyway.”

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It wasn't meant to be 

We use this expression when we accept that something didn’t happen the way we hoped.

Not necessarily because someone made a mistake.

Not because we didn’t try hard enough.

Example:

Imagine you find the perfect apartment.

It’s bright, close to work, and you can already picture yourself living there.

You submit your application.

The next day, you find out someone else got it.

You’re disappointed and keep thinking,

“That was the perfect place.”

A few weeks later, you find another apartment.

It’s in a quieter neighborhood, has a beautiful balcony, and the rent is actually lower.

Looking back:

“At the time, I was so disappointed. But I guess it just wasn’t meant to be.”