For some, seeking God's truths and wisdom are a very gradual process, much like digging for gold, we have to patiently keep digging, but God wants our faith and actions to become our true essence and sometimes we have to "fake it 'til we make it."
Be conservative but direct with your words when speaking with God. Reminds me of when I was a kid in New York growing up outside of the city. When going to an Italian deli, it's best to know exactly what you want after waiting in line and your turn comes up. No time for hemming, hawing or indecisiveness. Gotta keep the line moving so everyone gets served.