Wednesday 3rd February 2021
Praise God! Thank God for today.
A winning Wednesday to you in the name of Jesus. May God's love flood your life and your love life in Jesus name.
We are still talking about LOVE.
What's the meaning of Love? What does love mean to you? What does love mean to people?
Like we said earlier, so much is being said about love, a lot of songs about love, so many movies about love, so many novels about love, so many things about love, yet, so many people feel unloved and so many are love starved. There seem to be an overdose of this thing called “love” in our world, yet a lot of people don't feel loved. Why? Probably because there a misconception about this thing called LOVE.
We've been talking about love in different ways in the last few days, through what we hear in our songs, what we read in our novels and what we watch in movies. The media, whether it's the print or electronic has contributed a lot to what most people call love.
That's where most of us got our first introduction to this thing called love, and if what we got is the wrong concept of love then we set up ourselves for unnecessary heartaches.
One of the things I heard about love back then is that 'love is blind'. Meaning you should not see when you're in love, you don't see anything, all you see is good, you don't see bad.
If you remember the bible story of Jacob. He loved this girl Rachel and he told her father "I want to marry this girl". Her father asked him to work seven years for him and he could have her as his wife. As a result of his love for Rachel, he completed the seven years and Laban gave him his wife. Jacob was so excited about marrying the love of his life, he didn’t think he needed to look at this lady before taking her home, after all he was in love and he now had his dream wife. When he woke the next morning, the passion of love had cleared, he opened his eyes and his dream had become a nightmare. He was looking at Leah and not Rachel. His love was seeing clearly now. In reality, some people have been blinded by what they called love only to later find themselves in a nightmare situation like Jacob.
Some believe if you love them you should not see anything wrong in them or say anything wrong about them. 1 Peter 4: 8 says "…love covers a multitude of sins.”. Love is not blind to the sin or wrong doings; it simply takes positive action on them by covering them not denying it. No, love is not blind. Love sees and sees clearly. Probably love can choose to overlook things but it sees. When you believe in the concept “love is blind” it begins to affect other areas of our lives. If love is blind then love is not objective, it can say “white is black and black is green”. This creates an atmosphere of sycophancy and falsehood. What is love when handle the truth. Apostle Paul said in Ephesians 4:15 (NLT),
15 Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church.
When we speak the truth in love we grow in every way. When love sees and speaks truthfully in love about what it sees, we become better people.
So what is the meaning of Love?
Do you believe that love is blind?
I pray that the Lord will give us a deeper understanding of love in Jesus’ Name.
Enjoy the rest of the day.