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https://eirinnabu.com/event/5760795/695871447/eirinn-abu-and-tunnel-to-towers-foundation-concert
Founder & CEO of The Truesdell Companies
The Truesdell Professional Building
200 NW 52nd Avenue
Ocala, Florida 34482
352-612-1000 - Local
212-433-2525 - New York
Truesdell Wealth, Inc.
https://truesdellwealth.com
The Truesdell Companies
https://truesdell.net
Casual Breakfast Conversation at the Stone Creek Grille - January 8th @ 9:45 AM
Casual Conversation over Cocktails at the Stone Creek Grille - February 19th - 3:00 PM
Reservations Required - Call or Text: 352-612-1000
The Truesdell Companies is a proud sponsor of the Eirinn Abu benefit concert for Tunnel to Towers, on February 28th at the Circle Square arena in Ocala, Florida. For more information, visit: https://eirinnabu.com or https://eirinnabu.com/event/5760795/695871447/eirinn-abu-and-tunnel-to-towers-foundation-concert
Summary
Paul Truesdell discusses the importance of social skills and relationships for retirees moving to 55+ communities,
emphasizing Dale Carnegie's principles. He highlights the benefits of joining retiree groups, maintaining
meaningful connections, and being genuinely curious about others. Truesdell shares personal anecdotes,
including his father's work ethic and community contributions. He advises against forcing socialization, being
friendly, and avoiding complaints. He also stresses the importance of staying active, eating well, and maintaining
strong relationships for longevity. Truesdell concludes with a reminder to focus on the positives and maintain a
healthy mindset.
Action Items
• Be genuinely curious about your neighbors and their hobbies/experiences.
• Radiate warmth and optimism through a friendly greeting.
• Engage in meaningful listening and encourage others to share their thoughts and memories.
• Offer sincere praise and acknowledge the contributions of others, such as complimenting a well-maintained
lawn.
• Avoid complaining and criticizing, and focus on the positive aspects of retirement.
Outline
Moving to a 55+ Community and Social Dynamics
• Paul Grant Truesdell discusses the importance of Dale Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" for
retirees moving to 55+ communities.
• He mentions various organizations like the FBI and Tampa Police Department that have active retiree groups.
• Paul emphasizes the importance of socializing and making meaningful connections in retirement.
• He acknowledges that not everyone enjoys socializing and that it's important not to force it on others.
Personal Stories and Social Engagement
• Paul shares a story about his father, who worked until he was 90 and then became a taxi driver for the elderly.
• He highlights the importance of enjoying work and giving back to the community.
• Paul advises being genuinely curious about others and listening to their stories to create deeper connections.
• He stresses the importance of radiating warmth, optimism, and friendliness to open doors for friendships.
Dealing with Difficult Neighbors and Homeowner Rules
• Paul talks about encountering difficult neighbors who are sticklers for homeowner rules.
• He shares an example of a woman who fined neighbors for grass that was slightly too tall.
• Paul suggests that if a neighbor is causing significant problems, it might be worth considering moving to a different
community.
• He mentions the concept of build-to-rent (BTR) as an alternative for retirees who face difficult neighbors.
Engaged Listening and Shared Interests
• Paul emphasizes the importance of being an engaged listener and encouraging others to share their thoughts and
memories.
• He shares a personal story about a man who connected with his father through a phone call during a talk he gave. Ea
• Paul advises keeping conversations uplifting and avoiding constant complaining and criticizing.
• He suggests offering sincere praise and acknowledging others' contributions to build goodwill.
Maintaining Physical and Social Health in Retirement
• Paul discusses the importance of staying physically fit, eating healthy, and maintaining strong relationships for a long
and happy retirement.
• He advises retirees to look at the amenities and social activities available in a 55+ community before moving in.
• Paul mentions the concept of the "wanna go," "pre go," and "go go" years of retirement.
• He emphasizes the importance of being active and engaged in social activities to stay mentally and physically healthy.
The Importance of Mindset and Building Connections
• Paul introduces the seven components of wealth and status: mindset, physical, emotional, intellectual, relationship,
income, and risk.
• He stresses that mindset drives intellectual, physical, and emotional conditions.
• Paul advises engaging with others, being friendly, and showing genuine interest to build strong connections.
• He emphasizes the importance of being approachable, letting others talk, and offering appreciation for others'
contributions.
Living a Purposeful and Active Retirement
• Paul talks about the importance of living a purposeful and active life in retirement.
• He shares his own routine of walking 10 miles a day and lifting weights to stay fit.
• Paul advises against becoming sedentary and emphasizes the importance of staying engaged and active.
• He mentions the concept of the "slow-go" and "no go" years of retirement and the importance of maintaining a positive
mindset.
The Role of Social Connections in Well-being
• Paul discusses the impact of social connections on overall well-being and longevity.
• He advises retirees to look for communities with active social directors and clubs.
• Paul mentions the importance of being open to visiting clubs and getting to know the community before moving in.
• He emphasizes the importance of nurturing goodwill and maintaining strong relationships for a happy and fulfilling
retirement.
Dealing with Life Changes and Adapting to New Environments
• Paul talks about the natural changes that occur in retirement communities as older residents pass away.
• He mentions the concept of "waves" of deaths in retirement communities and how new residents may not be as active.
• Paul advises being aware of these changes and adapting to the new social dynamics in the community.
• He emphasizes the importance of being open to new experiences and making the most of the social opportunities
available.
Final Thoughts and Encouragement
• Paul wraps up the podcast by emphasizing the importance of living a purposeful and active life in retirement.
• He advises retirees to focus on the positive and avoid complaining and criticizing.
• Paul encourages retirees to stay engaged, build strong connections, and maintain a positive mindset.
• He concludes with a reminder to always remember the importance of social connections and staying active for a
fulfilling retirement.
Rough Transcript
0:00
You might remember that book by Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People. It's not necessarily a bad book to buy and read and review. You can get the Cliff Notes version if you want, if you're getting ready to retire, well, especially if you're going to move to a 55 plus community that would not necessarily be a bad book to take a look at, because you're going to be around a whole bunch of different types of peo...
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By Paul Grant Truesdell, JD., AIF, CLU, ChFChttps://eirinnabu.com/event/5760795/695871447/eirinn-abu-and-tunnel-to-towers-foundation-concert
Founder & CEO of The Truesdell Companies
The Truesdell Professional Building
200 NW 52nd Avenue
Ocala, Florida 34482
352-612-1000 - Local
212-433-2525 - New York
Truesdell Wealth, Inc.
https://truesdellwealth.com
The Truesdell Companies
https://truesdell.net
Casual Breakfast Conversation at the Stone Creek Grille - January 8th @ 9:45 AM
Casual Conversation over Cocktails at the Stone Creek Grille - February 19th - 3:00 PM
Reservations Required - Call or Text: 352-612-1000
The Truesdell Companies is a proud sponsor of the Eirinn Abu benefit concert for Tunnel to Towers, on February 28th at the Circle Square arena in Ocala, Florida. For more information, visit: https://eirinnabu.com or https://eirinnabu.com/event/5760795/695871447/eirinn-abu-and-tunnel-to-towers-foundation-concert
Summary
Paul Truesdell discusses the importance of social skills and relationships for retirees moving to 55+ communities,
emphasizing Dale Carnegie's principles. He highlights the benefits of joining retiree groups, maintaining
meaningful connections, and being genuinely curious about others. Truesdell shares personal anecdotes,
including his father's work ethic and community contributions. He advises against forcing socialization, being
friendly, and avoiding complaints. He also stresses the importance of staying active, eating well, and maintaining
strong relationships for longevity. Truesdell concludes with a reminder to focus on the positives and maintain a
healthy mindset.
Action Items
• Be genuinely curious about your neighbors and their hobbies/experiences.
• Radiate warmth and optimism through a friendly greeting.
• Engage in meaningful listening and encourage others to share their thoughts and memories.
• Offer sincere praise and acknowledge the contributions of others, such as complimenting a well-maintained
lawn.
• Avoid complaining and criticizing, and focus on the positive aspects of retirement.
Outline
Moving to a 55+ Community and Social Dynamics
• Paul Grant Truesdell discusses the importance of Dale Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" for
retirees moving to 55+ communities.
• He mentions various organizations like the FBI and Tampa Police Department that have active retiree groups.
• Paul emphasizes the importance of socializing and making meaningful connections in retirement.
• He acknowledges that not everyone enjoys socializing and that it's important not to force it on others.
Personal Stories and Social Engagement
• Paul shares a story about his father, who worked until he was 90 and then became a taxi driver for the elderly.
• He highlights the importance of enjoying work and giving back to the community.
• Paul advises being genuinely curious about others and listening to their stories to create deeper connections.
• He stresses the importance of radiating warmth, optimism, and friendliness to open doors for friendships.
Dealing with Difficult Neighbors and Homeowner Rules
• Paul talks about encountering difficult neighbors who are sticklers for homeowner rules.
• He shares an example of a woman who fined neighbors for grass that was slightly too tall.
• Paul suggests that if a neighbor is causing significant problems, it might be worth considering moving to a different
community.
• He mentions the concept of build-to-rent (BTR) as an alternative for retirees who face difficult neighbors.
Engaged Listening and Shared Interests
• Paul emphasizes the importance of being an engaged listener and encouraging others to share their thoughts and
memories.
• He shares a personal story about a man who connected with his father through a phone call during a talk he gave. Ea
• Paul advises keeping conversations uplifting and avoiding constant complaining and criticizing.
• He suggests offering sincere praise and acknowledging others' contributions to build goodwill.
Maintaining Physical and Social Health in Retirement
• Paul discusses the importance of staying physically fit, eating healthy, and maintaining strong relationships for a long
and happy retirement.
• He advises retirees to look at the amenities and social activities available in a 55+ community before moving in.
• Paul mentions the concept of the "wanna go," "pre go," and "go go" years of retirement.
• He emphasizes the importance of being active and engaged in social activities to stay mentally and physically healthy.
The Importance of Mindset and Building Connections
• Paul introduces the seven components of wealth and status: mindset, physical, emotional, intellectual, relationship,
income, and risk.
• He stresses that mindset drives intellectual, physical, and emotional conditions.
• Paul advises engaging with others, being friendly, and showing genuine interest to build strong connections.
• He emphasizes the importance of being approachable, letting others talk, and offering appreciation for others'
contributions.
Living a Purposeful and Active Retirement
• Paul talks about the importance of living a purposeful and active life in retirement.
• He shares his own routine of walking 10 miles a day and lifting weights to stay fit.
• Paul advises against becoming sedentary and emphasizes the importance of staying engaged and active.
• He mentions the concept of the "slow-go" and "no go" years of retirement and the importance of maintaining a positive
mindset.
The Role of Social Connections in Well-being
• Paul discusses the impact of social connections on overall well-being and longevity.
• He advises retirees to look for communities with active social directors and clubs.
• Paul mentions the importance of being open to visiting clubs and getting to know the community before moving in.
• He emphasizes the importance of nurturing goodwill and maintaining strong relationships for a happy and fulfilling
retirement.
Dealing with Life Changes and Adapting to New Environments
• Paul talks about the natural changes that occur in retirement communities as older residents pass away.
• He mentions the concept of "waves" of deaths in retirement communities and how new residents may not be as active.
• Paul advises being aware of these changes and adapting to the new social dynamics in the community.
• He emphasizes the importance of being open to new experiences and making the most of the social opportunities
available.
Final Thoughts and Encouragement
• Paul wraps up the podcast by emphasizing the importance of living a purposeful and active life in retirement.
• He advises retirees to focus on the positive and avoid complaining and criticizing.
• Paul encourages retirees to stay engaged, build strong connections, and maintain a positive mindset.
• He concludes with a reminder to always remember the importance of social connections and staying active for a
fulfilling retirement.
Rough Transcript
0:00
You might remember that book by Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People. It's not necessarily a bad book to buy and read and review. You can get the Cliff Notes version if you want, if you're getting ready to retire, well, especially if you're going to move to a 55 plus community that would not necessarily be a bad book to take a look at, because you're going to be around a whole bunch of different types of peo...