Damn We Grown

Let’s be real—after years of marriage, most of our "deep" conversations revolve around whose turn it is to take out the trash or why the Wi-Fi is trippin'. But this week on Damn We Grown, Mike and Tiff are putting down the logistics and picking up a deck of cards that’s designed to get personal. Very. Personal.

We’re diving into a romantic card game that forces you to ask the questions you usually only think about at 2:00 AM. We’re talking about the stuff that makes you go, "Wait, you actually think that?" or "Oh, so we're doing this today?" In this episode, we’re breaking down:

Card-Induced Trauma: Why asking "What’s one thing I do that drives you crazy?" is a trap, and how Mike managed to survive the answer.

The "I Thought I Knew You" Moment: Realizing that after all these years, there are still some secrets Tiff hasn't spilled.

Romance vs. Reality: Trying to be "Deep and Soulful" while remembering we still have to figure out dinner and deal with the kids.

It’s hilarious, it’s slightly high-stakes, Damn...We Grown.

The "Damn We Grown" Wednesday is back, and so is the chaos! Mike and Tiff are back in the studio, proving that even after nearly two decades together, they’re still figuring out how to not accidentally become "just roommates."

In this episode, our favorite "two creatives" dive into the post-honeymoon reality check. They reminisce about being "broke-broke" newlyweds—you know, the kind of broke where Top Ramen feels like a five-star date night because you're still in that "blissful" fog.

• Mom Duty vs. "Hell-Raiser": Tiff vents about the "bananas" reality of parenting a pre-teen who is starting to look and act a little too much like her mother.

• The "Finger" Talk: Mike gets real about his first colonoscopy. It’s all fun and games until the doctor says, "Take a deep breath," and you wake up wondering if you’re still a whole man.

• The Great Bed Upgrade: The couple reflects on moving from a "Queen world" to a "King-size" bed—where the space is so vast they actually have to use pillows to find each other.

• Contaminated Counters?: Tiff explains why anything wet on the kitchen counter is automatically treated as "poison" or "booty juice" until proven otherwise.

• The "Intimate" Schedule: Why scheduled date nights and "appointments" for sex aren't just for old people—they're for grown folks who actually want to keep the spark alive.

Key Vibe: "I remember in college, I would buy them cheap sheets... and they would feel like sandpaper. What were we thinking back then?"

Choose joy, choose sleep, and for the love of everything, don't leave water on Tiff's counter.

It’s been a minute—nearly two years, to be exact—but Mike and Tiff are back in the building for a raw, unfiltered reunion on Damn We Grown. Life hasn't just been "happening"; it’s been lifing at a whole new level. From the heavy hits of losing parents to the unexpected "grown folks" realities of medical checkups and career shifts, this episode is a deep dive into the scars that shape us and the joy we have to choose every single day.

We’re catching you up on the hiatus, the move into the new house, and why 40-something life requires a whole different kind of movement—literally and mentally. Whether you’re navigating grief, a career pivot, or just trying to get your 10,000 steps in, this is the real talk you need to hear.

Keep choosing joy, keep moving, and stay grown. We’ll see you in the next one!

Episode 244. Podcast with your eyes closed.  Letitia James is back and in rare form.   Mike got some slides, basketball shorts, and a white tank top  y'all better watch out.  Are black women tired of saving us?  Does Pop Tarts still have a Kellogg label?  What if your neighbor sued you because your autistic child is too loud?  Vibes from NxWorries.  And the main topic, how to invest in the next generation.  Damn We Grown! 

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Episode 243. It's a free for all, so tap in and enjoy.

Damn We Grown

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Episode 242. TIt's Pisces season.  Can you make it out of Costco under $200?  Super Tuesday y'all we hope everybody gottheir vote on.    A slavery wedding and a concentration camp wedding?  Ignorance is the point. Vibes from Rome and Brent.  And the main topic, how to find rest in this wild world.  Damn We Grown! 

Damn We Grown

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Episode 241. Tiff's reppin' for Shreveport.  Beyonce goes number one again.  Wendy's goes Disney.  Kelogg says, eat cereal for dinner.  Vibes from Kamauu. And the main topic, Can you seperate the art from the weirdo artist?  Damn We Grown! 

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Episode 240. We love Hop Hop music.  Your kids will never use a pay-phone. TOakland is still off the hook.  Vibes from Death. And the main topic, A celebration of black music.

Damn We Grown! 

Damn We Grown

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Episode 239. Happy Valentines day.  Your kids are not going pro. Tiff stay piercing stuff.  Vibes from Nicholas Britell, some cup caking from Mike. And the main topic, V-day questions to ask your main thang.

Damn We Grown! 

Damn We Grown

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Episode 238. Tiff survived a cold.  Mike is no longer a carless scrub. Phrases that need to be retired.  R.I.P to Carl Weathers and I guess Bill Withers too.  Vibes from Terrace Martin.  And the main topic, Would you sell 1 year of your life for 10 million dollars?  Damn We Grown! 

Damn We Grown

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Email us at [email protected]

Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown

Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2

Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo