In this episode, I sit down with Louise Harkins for a rich, honest conversation about the Madonna/Whore complex—how it lives in our bodies, relationships, creativity, and sense of self-worth far beyond the textbook definition.
We explore where this split comes from, how it quietly shapes desire and shame, and what it costs us when women are taught to be either “pure” or “powerful,” but never fully whole. Together, we talk about reclaiming erotic truth, softening internalized judgment, and creating space for complexity instead of polarity.
This conversation is an invitation to notice the stories you’ve inherited about femininity, sexuality, and goodness—and to imagine what becomes possible when those stories loosen their grip.
We’re also excited to extend this dialogue beyond the podcast and into lived experience. Join us for an in-person circle on February 21 from 1–3 PM at Evolve Academy in Charleston, South Carolina, where we’ll gather to explore, reflect, and integrate this work together in community.
If this episode resonates, you’re not meant to sit with it alone. ✨
Sign up link for the workshop!
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-madonna-the-whore-the-split-woman-tickets-1981322014481?sg=1493829983296a08aa8219d49e6d201a3e4b6ef03c6ba596d5679ece551ab8adbe34924c4819fda977556c224598fb17be1284d3aea9cb4f9021c1f086451f59c674bc17b2c2511191e5fd09f4&aff=ebdsshios
Louise’s Website ✨
https://www.mappingmatrescence.com