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Dan created a phrase he both loves and hates: performative complexity. His definition of this term is the performance of making our lives seem more complicated for no other reason other than, well, to seem complicated.  

On this episode of On Purpose with Jay Shetty, Jay Shetty speaks with author and lawyer Daniel Pink about creating a healthy relationship with time, procrastinating productively, and simplifying your life. 

Want to make time your friend, instead of your enemy? Check out Dan’s most recent book WHEN: THE SCIENTIFIC SECRETS OF PERFECT TIMING.

Daniel Pink ON: How to Master Time Management & Turn Procrastination into Productivity

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Are you struggling with setting your boundaries?
Do you want to know how to respectfully tell others about your boundaries?
Today, Jay questions the traditional notion that a "good person" is one who never says no. This outdated definition leads to a lack of boundaries, which ultimately harms personal well-being. By redefining what it means to be a good person, one can recognize the importance of investing in themselves and navigating difficult conversations.
What does setting boundaries truly mean? They are defined not by what we want from others, but by what we need for ourselves. Jay explains that boundaries should not aim to control others but should protect the individual from their own triggers and provides practical advice on how to communicate boundaries effectively, suggesting the use of simple, clear statements without over-explanation.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to set boundaries without feeling guilty
How to NO effectively
How to communicate boundaries clearly
How to handle other people's reactions
How to build confidence in setting boundaries
Don't wait to reclaim your time, energy, and peace of mind—take control and become the assertive, self-respecting individual you deserve to be.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:31 Boundaries Are Often Tough to Set
03:45 #1: Redefine What Your Boundaries Are
09:05 #2: Clearly Communicate Your Boundaries
11:48 #3: Be Kind, Honest, and Empathetic to Other People’s Reaction
15:07 #4: You Subconsciously Sound Defensive When Setting Your Boundaries
17:53 #5: Plan a Buffer See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10 Steps on How To Set Boundaries Without Offending People

Are you struggling with initiating difficult conversations?
Are you struggling with having difficult conversations with family members?
Today's guest is the hilarious and incredible story teller Tiffany Haddish, Emmy and Grammy-winning actress, comedian, and author. Known for her breakout role in "Girls Trip" and her New York Times bestselling book "The Last Black Unicorn," Tiffany has become one of the most influential voices in comedy with her sharp wit, resilience, and authentic storytelling. 
Tiffany and Jay have a vulnerable conversation with a candid look into Tiffany’s life, showcasing her journey from a challenging upbringing to becoming one of Hollywood’s brightest stars. Tiffany shares the emotional and often tumultuous experiences she faced growing up in foster care. Despite these challenges, she credits these early adversities for instilling in her a resilience that later became instrumental in her career. Tiffany discusses how humor became her coping mechanism and how it eventually became a tool for empowerment.
Jay and Tiffany also talk about relationships and the lessons she has learned from her experiences. She opens up about her past relationships and how they shaped her understanding of love, vulnerability, and self-respect. We get to listen to the healing power of laughter, the importance of community, and the role of faith in overcoming life’s challenges. 
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to overcome adversity
How to turn pain into humor and use it as fuel
How to embrace vulnerability
How to handle criticism
How to advocate for yourself 
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
03:08 Built to Have Fun
04:19 Emotional Hoarder
07:16 Celibacy
12:11 Being with the Wrong Person
15:41 Do You Believe in Past Life?
18:06 Who Do You Want to Date?
20:10 Growing Your Own Garden
22:48 Growing with a Creative Mind
25:05 Worst Thing About Being Me
29:11 Dealing with Online Hate
31:36 She’s Not My Mom Anymore
37:46 Processing and Dealing with Grief
43:36 Resenting and Forgiving My Father
48:46 The Phone Call with My Dad
55:24 Let’s Understand People’s Stories
57:59 Self Care is a Process
01:02:15 My Father Was Sick
01:05:07 Make Home in Your Childhood Community
01:10:29 The Love to Entertain People
01:18:07 What Would Little T be Proud Of?
01:20:24 Childhood Dreams
01:25:09 TIffany on Final Five
Episode Resources:

Tiffany Haddish | TikTok
Tiffany Haddish | Instagram
Tiffany Haddish | YouTube
Tiffany Haddish | Facebook
The Last Black Unicorn
I Curse You with Joy
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Tiffany Haddish: 4 Ways to Navigate Complicated Family Relationships & How to Have Hard Conversations You are Avoiding

How do you identify when you're restricting your desires in a relationship?
How can couples work together to align their desires and ensure mutual fulfillment?
Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa is a co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and the president of Impact Theory, a digital media company aimed at empowering content. With a strong focus on developing content that speaks to personal growth and empowerment, especially for women, Lisa has been a pivotal figure in shifting paradigms within her industry. Her show, "Women of Impact," addresses issues facing modern women, combining personal anecdotes with actionable advice.
The core theme of this conversation is outlining a roadmap for individuals seeking to overcome insecurities and cultivate a resilient, action-oriented confidence. Jay and Lisa discuss the common misconceptions around confidence, emphasizing that it is not a prerequisite for action but a result of engaging with the world despite fears and doubts.
Lisa shares how her initial need for external validation was a significant barrier to personal growth, sharing transformative moments that reshaped her understanding of confidence and self-worth. She stresses the importance of embracing imperfection and vulnerability as catalysts for genuine self-improvement and empowerment.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to start building confidence
How to validate yourself
How to prioritize personal growth
How to handle fear of judgment
How to transform relationships
Together, let's continue to  question the preconceived notions about success and happiness and to take bold steps towards a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
03:32 How Do You Define Confidence?
06:54 Believe You’re Capable
09:54 Admitting That You’re Unhappy
16:13 The Frame of Reference
19:36 Everything Is A Risk
27:42 Non-Negotiables in Relationships
34:41 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships
41:30 Who Leads, Who Follows
49:26 Conflicting Value System
54:57 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise
59:21 Growth Mindset With Your Partner
Episode Resources:

Lisa Bilyeu | TikTok
Lisa Bilyeu | Instagram
Lisa Bilyeu | YouTube
Lisa Bilyeu | Twitter
Lisa Bilyeu | Facebook
Lisa Bilyeu | LinkedIn
Radical Confidence: 10 No-BS Lessons on Becoming the Hero of Your Own Life
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Why You Are Restricting Your Desires in Your Relationship & How to Stop Blocking Yourself from the Happiness You Deserve with Lisa Bilyeu

Does timing really matter in whether a relationship works?
What are healthy ways to deal with a breakup?
Today, let’s welcome back dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew is also a YouTube personality and writer known for offering advice on dating, love, and relationships to both men and women through his online content, seminars, and his book "Get The Guy." His approach typically combines practical advice, motivational coaching, and a bit of psychology to help individuals understand what they want from a relationship and how to get it.
Matthew shares his insights on the complexities of love, self-discovery, and the importance of honest communication. He emphasizes on the significance of creating a peaceful relationship, distinguishing it from a boring one, and the value of embracing vulnerabilities to foster deeper connections. Matthew's reflections on his own experiences, coupled with his expertise, provide a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building meaningful relationships, and cultivating self-awareness. 
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to cultivate peaceful relationships without boredom
How to deepen connections through vulnerability
How to navigate modern dating with confidence
How to enhance relationships with effective communication
How to enrich love life through self-awareness
Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing your true self.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
04:20 Where Does Your Idea of Love Come From?
10:34 What Differentiates a Peaceful to a Boring Relationship?
19:35 What Are Your Must-Haves in a Relationship?
31:47 Tactics Are Different From Relationship Standards
39:59 Egoic Standards Versus Setting Standards for Happiness
51:20 Practice Having Real and Difficult Conversations
01:04:48 The Importance of Communicating Your Thoughts and Feelings
01:08:25 Is Your Partner the Right One for You?
01:15:05 Dealing with the Different Phases of Heartbreak
01:26:31 What’s Next for Matthew?    
Episode Resources:

Matthew Hussey | Website
Matthew Hussey | TikTok
Matthew Hussey | Instagram
Matthew Hussey | YouTube
Matthew Hussey | Twitter
Matthew Hussey | Facebook
Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
https://matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/ 
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Matthew Hussey: 5 Reasons Why There is No Such Thing As The Right Person At The Wrong Time & How to Stop Missing Your Ex

How do you know when you're overthinking too much?
How can you break the cycle of overthinking?
Today, Jay will talk about the complexity of overthinking and how we can turn it around and look at things differently. Jay presents seven practical strategies to help listeners combat the grip of overthinking. These range from the psychological—to limit how many people's opinions we seek, preventing the confusion and indecision that too many perspectives can cause—to the physical, recommending activities that disengage the analytical brain and encourage mental reset, like exercise or simply moving around.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to use over thinking for problem-solving
How to manage alarmed responses
How to use physical movement for mental clarity
How to focus on positives and small wins
Don't let overthinking hold you back! Start implementing these strategies today and take control of your mental space.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:52 Has Overthinking Slowed You Down?
07:53 The Science Behind Overthinking
10:50 #1: Overthinking as a Problem-Solving Approach
14:24 #2: Don’t Ask Too Many People For Their Opinion
18:19 #3: Avoid Responding While You’re Feeling Alarmed
19:17 #4: Move Your Body When Your Mind Is Stuck
20:32 #5: Focus on the Good Thing and Small Wins
22:05 #6: Spontaneous Drawings Relieve Psychological Stress
24:23 #7: Go Back to Analog See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Daniel Pink ON: How to Master Time Management & Turn Procrastination into Productivity

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