Daraja 12th grader who's breaking the "traditional girl" mold
Daraja 12th grader and Jason Doherty dive into the Kenyan culture and how it directly affects the young girls there. Christine shares her story of how Daraja’s education helped save her from the FGM (female genital mutilation) and young marriage traditions of her tribe. Diving deeper into her experience at Daraja, Christine shares that her love for sports taught her how to step into her power and maximize talents she never knew she had.
3 Key Takeaways:
- The difference between growing up in Kenya as a girl and as a boy.
- The reality of Female Genital Mutilation for 13-year-old Kenyan girls.
- How Christine’s love for sports taught her to step into her power and maximize her talents.
Show Notes
[0:35] Christine Introduces Herself
· She lives 12 hours away from Daraja near Uganda.
[1:42] Chistine shares her personal experience growing up in Kenya
· “Look for that thing you want in life and go get it. Nothing can stop you” – Christine
· Survival in her home village is consists of a basic trade system where you find something to sell to cover the cost of your food for the day.
· “People who don’t see themselves as the victim despite their circumstances amaze me” – Jason
[3:41] Growing up as a woman in Kenya vs. growing up as a man in Kenya.
· At 14 years old a girl will be married off to gain wealth from those coming to marry their girls.
· At age 13 girls are forced to be circumcised in a very brutal painful way.
· The girls are told to respect their elders and accept the circumcision and marriage without question.
· Many of these girls are traded for cattle as a dowery.
[6:33] Jason shares the story of a student at Daraja who the father agreed to trade for one cow and 2 goats to an older man.
· “There are many beautiful traditions that should be kept, but some traditions that should change to make life more equitable” – Jason
· Girl’s education helped Christine to educate her family and village about how they can improve their lives.
[8:00] Christine shares that her calling is in medicine
· “I walked into a hospital and decided I need to be there” – Christine
· Jason shares how much girl’s education has actually helped the community on a much deeper level.
· Changing the traditional mentality that comes with Kenyan culture
[12:02] Jason shares how some girls will go to a hospital see blood and say “whoa that’s not for me”
· Sometimes learning what you don’t want is more important that learning what you do want.
· Christine shares how busy she sees the doctors are, and they need more help.
· “I have the courage now. I know I can help someone.” – Christine
[15:44] Christine shares some fond memories of daraja
· Rugby and Football have become two of her major passions.
· She was encouraged to join one of their local teams
· “I’ve learned that I’m a very strong talented girl, and I can’t sit on my talent, I need to embrace it” – Christine
[20:08] Jason shares his story about relearning how to walk and running for daraja to raise funds for these girls.