Dare to Overshare

You can be the person who handles everything and still feel like you’re barely holding it together. So how do you get out of survival mode—and stop abandoning yourself in the process? Nervous system educator and wellness facilitator Desiree Vazquez joins Jackie for an honest conversation about stress, codependency, boundaries, and learning how to feel your feelings instead of trying to think your way out of them. Desiree shares how codependency showed up as caretaking, what her therapist helped her recognize, and why a walking meditation in Thailand exposed the way she was still talking to herself. We get into: • What nervous system dysregulation felt like for Desiree • How codependency can look like taking care of everyone else • Setting boundaries that help people love you better • Anxiety vs. intuition when you’re deciding whether to leave • How to meditate when your brain won’t stop talking • Exploring movement, mindfulness, and self-compassion • Her experience with yoni steaming—and the unexpectedly vulnerable conversation it opened up & so much more!!!

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Why do smart, self-aware women stay in toxic relationships even when they know they deserve better?

In this episode of Dare to Overshare, bestselling author and relationship coach Sabrina Bendory joins Jackie to break down the psychology behind toxic love, love bombing, narcissism, attachment styles, dating anxiety, self-worth, and why unhealthy relationships can feel so addictive.

Sabrina opens up about losing herself in a relationship, trying harder to be chosen after being treated badly, and what finally helped her break the cycle. We also talk about how to tell the difference between butterflies and anxiety, why a healthy relationship can sometimes feel “boring,” whether “if he wanted to, he would” is actually true, and how dating apps may be changing the way we connect.

We get into:

• Love bombing vs. genuine interest

• Narcissistic traits and early red flags

• Why chaos can feel like chemistry

• Anxious and avoidant attachment

• Why emotionally unavailable people can feel so attractive

• How to know if someone is boring—or if healthy love just feels unfamiliar

• Dating apps, rejection, and the “buffet effect”

• Why boundaries matter in healthy relationships

• Why we keep trying to be chosen

• What healthy love actually feels like

• How to stop losing yourself in relationships

Sabrina is the author of The Feminine Code and Detached and the host of the You Will Be OK podcast.

If you’ve ever stayed too long, ignored a red flag, confused anxiety with chemistry, or wondered why you keep choosing the same type of person, this conversation is for you.

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If you’ve heard of Neville Goddard but have no idea where to start, this episode is for you.I’m breaking down 8 of his most popular manifestation techniques — including Living in the End, SATS, Revision, I Remember When, Mental Diets, the Lullaby Method, and more — and explaining how to actually use them in real life.A lot of these techniques sound similar because they all fall under one main idea: stop experiencing what you want as something you’re still waiting for and start mentally experiencing it as already done.Think of them as different doors into the same room.Manifestation has completely shaped the way I think about belief, possibility and the stories I tell myself, and Neville Goddard’s work has been a huge part of that.In this episode:• Living in the End• SATS — State Akin to Sleep• Revision• I Remember When• Mental Diets• The Lullaby Method / Isn’t It Wonderful?• The Congratulations Technique• The Telephone TechniqueWhether you’re new to manifestation or you’ve been practicing for years, pick one technique that resonates with you, actually try it, and see what happens.Subscribe for more conversations about manifestation, mindset, human connection and becoming the version of yourself you actually want to be.

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You may know Kyland from Big Brother, The Challenge, and The Amazing Race, but in this episode, we get into the person behind the competitor.

Kyland opens up about being diagnosed with autism as an adult, living with ADHD, masking in social situations, and looking back at some of his biggest reality TV moments with a completely different understanding of how his brain works. We also get into communication, accountability, toxic positivity, recovering from a serious injury, and of course… we talk competition.

In this episode: • Being diagnosed with autism as an adult • Autism, ADHD & masking • What reality TV revealed about Kyland • Feeling “different” before having the language for it • Being misunderstood as fake or inauthentic • Neurodivergence in dating & relationships • Communication, conflict & accountability • Why intention doesn’t erase impact • The pressure to stay positive through hard times • His recovery from a serious back injury • What he would tell his younger self • Big Brother, The Challenge & The Amazing Race • Why Kyland believes he can win The Challenge If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, had to consciously think your way through social situations, or wondered what’s really happening behind the person you see on reality TV, this conversation is for you.

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Jackie sits down with David Nussbaum, founder of Proto, to talk about AI holograms, real-life holoportation, entrepreneurship, and what it actually takes to build something before the world understands it.

David created Proto around a wild idea: what if someone could appear right in front of you from anywhere in the world and actually feel like they were there? What started as a futuristic vision has become a real company using hologram technology, AI avatars, and human-like digital presence in airports, doctor’s offices, museums, entertainment, and beyond.

David shares how he came up with the idea for Proto, what it was like getting rejected over and over again, why entrepreneurs have to be a little delusional, and how he knew this was the idea worth betting on. He also opens up about building a company from scratch, pitching a technology people didn’t understand yet, balancing ambition with family, and learning how to turn impossible ideas into something real.

This conversation is for anyone with a big dream, a business idea, a creative vision, or a goal that feels too weird, too early, or too impossible. It’s about trusting your vision before other people understand it, building through rejection, and learning when an idea is actually worth betting your life on.

In this episode:

• What Proto Hologram is and how it works
• The future of AI holograms and AI avatars
• How David Nussbaum founded Proto
• Why presence is the secret sauce behind hologram technology
• Getting rejected while building a startup
• Howie Mandel sliding into David’s DMs
• Proto on Big Brother
• AI avatars in airports like SFO, JFK, LaGuardia, and Boston Logan
• Hologram technology in healthcare and doctor’s offices
• The Ozzy Osbourne AI avatar and digital legacy
• Entrepreneurship, manifestation, persistence, and betting on your vision

Simone Kelly became known through MTV's Are You The One? and The Challenge, but fame came with a price she never expected: losing her sense of identity. In this episode, we talk about what it's really like to be judged by millions, how reality TV can blur the line between who you are and who people think you are, and why walking away from something that made you famous can be one of the hardest decisions you'll ever make. Simone opens up about rebuilding her confidence through music, healing from an emotionally abusive relationship, the surprising lesson she learned about manifesting fame, and why she believes "selling your soul" isn't always what people think it is. If you've ever felt misunderstood, trapped by other people's expectations, or like you had to reinvent yourself to become who you really are, this conversation is for you.

What if achieving everything you've ever wanted still didn't make you happy? After building and selling his company to Sprout Social in a deal worth $140 million, entrepreneur and author Peter Kennedy found himself facing something no one talks about: depression, identity loss, and the unsettling realization that success doesn't always bring fulfillment. In this episode of Dare to Overshare, Peter opens up about the emotional aftermath of success, the pressure to keep chasing bigger goals, and what it really means to reconnect with yourself after spending years pursuing external validation. We talk about the hidden cost of achievement, why so many high performers struggle in silence, and how to tell the difference between ambition that's aligned with your purpose and ambition that's driven by ego. Peter also shares the lessons behind his book, The Remembering, and the questions we should all be asking ourselves when life looks good on paper but doesn't feel good inside. Whether you're building a business, chasing a dream, or simply trying to figure out what truly matters, this conversation is a powerful reminder that success alone won't save you—and that meaning, connection, and self-awareness matter more than we think. In this episode, we discuss: • Selling his company in a $140 million exit • Why success left him feeling depressed • The emotional cost of achievement • Identity and purpose after success • External validation vs. inner fulfillment • The dangers of tying your worth to accomplishments • How to know if your ambition is aligned • What "The Remembering" really means • Practical questions to reconnect with yourself • What he wishes he knew before achieving his dreams Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations on healing, self-worth, relationships, manifestation, and personal growth. Jackie’s socials: https://www.instagram.com/jackiehollywood https://www.instagram.com/daretoovershare https://www.tiktok.com/@itsjackiehollywood https://www.youtube.com/daretoovershare Peter's socials: https://www.instagram.com/therememberingbook You can get his book The Remembering here: https://amzn.to/4eYEIzo

Lyric Perez—Producer, Director, Songwriter, and creative force—built her career without the traditional path. No roadmap, no safety net. But what looks like confidence and independence on the outside can actually come from survival mode.

In this episode, we go deep into healing, manifestation, and the connection between your thoughts, your words, and the reality you create. Because it’s not just mindset, it’s how you speak, what you believe, and the patterns you’re still operating from without realizing it.

From dropping out of high school and getting her GED to building a career in the entertainment industry, Lyric shares what it really takes to evolve.

We talk about how hyper-independence can be rooted in trauma, why receiving support can feel uncomfortable even when you crave it, and how playing small to protect yourself can quietly keep you stuck.

This conversation is about:

— unlearning survival mode

— shifting your mindset and belief systems

— manifestation + how your thoughts create your reality

— why your words carry more power than you think

— healing hyper-independence and learning to receive

— building a career in entertainment without a traditional path

— working behind the scenes and not always getting recognition

— speaking your truth without trying to control outcomes

— letting yourself evolve, even when it’s uncomfortable

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Jackie’s socials:

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Lyric’s socials:

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Everyone thinks she’s the confident girl… but that’s not the full story.

Lexy Panterra built a viral brand off confidence—while quietly dealing with insecurity, pressure, and the reality of being watched by millions.

From LexTwerkOut to music, business, and OnlyFans, she opens up about what people get completely wrong about her—and what it actually takes to keep showing up when you don’t feel as confident as you look.

We get into:

• living with Crohn’s disease (and how it affects her daily life)
• the truth behind her OnlyFans—and why people misunderstand it
• what it’s like being a woman in entertainment dealing with blurred boundaries + unwanted attention
• why she keeps her relationship private in such a public life

This isn’t the polished version you see online.

It’s everything behind it.

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This episode with Entrepreneur and Media Personality Laila Lopez is about growth.We talk about attachment styles and what it really looks like to date someone emotionally unavailable. We unpack the mind-body connection, manifestation, and how unprocessed emotions can live in the body longer than we think.Laila opens up about building her skincare brand, Ebon Essentials, while privately struggling with hormonal acne — and the courage it takes to show up imperfectly. We also get into career pivots, walking away from spaces that no longer feel aligned, and redefining success on your own terms.There’s a wild dating story that will have you shaking your head, but underneath it is a bigger conversation about standards, self-worth, and choosing yourself fully.

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