Do you carry baggage in new relationships?  Do you understand how baggage can be detrimental to relationships?  Are you clear on what baggage is and how you can change that?  Is there an opportunity to heal and recover from the baggage.  Do you need to call it something else?  Whatever you need to do just release and heal going forward.

Do you and your partner share the same ideals as it relates to sex vs. intimacy? Have you discussed what is important to you and how to create a closer relationship with your partner?  Sex is important in a relationship, however intimacy is equally important.  We delve into this and the difference between the two.