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Awesome and thriving relationships aren't just about the romantic squishy parts, there are also parts that are made up of teamwork and collaboration. Being a couple and also a high functioning tiny team of two will require you to hold yourself and sometimes each other to a standard of accountability….. To follow through and do what you said you would do. But that isn't always something that is easy to do, yet without it, you will always struggle to have relationship ease or achieve your goals. Darren Finkelstein is the Accountability Guy - he is an International Accountability Coach, Business Advisor, Mentor, Author/Speaker and Coach. He works with entrepreneurial business owners and their teams to ensure full accountability. Ultimately that means they Get Sh!T Done, and deliver on their promises and commitments so they can smash their goals like pinatas.

We chat

• What is accountability
• The success formula for achieving your goals
• How external help could be the best thing for your relationship.

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them

Better World

Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Connect with Darren Finkelstein

Website - www.tickthoseboxes.com.auFacebook - www.facebook.com/TickThoseBoxes

Having kids can drastically change a marriage. Unfortunately, it isn't always for the better. With the circus of chaos that comes with being new parents, it's easy to become disconnected from your partner. And the change in routine coupled with the weight of the responsibility of raising and nurturing a little human can be beyond daunting for most. Luckily, there are ways to address these issues by ensuring your relationship remains thriving through the muddle. Because the best way for kids to grow and become their authentic selves is through the connection, love, peace, and compassion that they witness between the grown-ups around them — us.

Grateful wife and wonder mama, Aliza Said has a profound understanding of the challenges that plague many couples after having children. As the host of the Mama Marriage Bliss podcast, Aliza knows how much influence parents' actions have over how children are shaped. Her mission is to provide those who are raising the next generation with the right insights and tools to raise them in the most ideal way possible… And one way we can guarantee that is by keeping our relationships flourishing

We chat

• The changes that occur in marriages after having kids
• How having kids can be a refreshing avenue for self-reflection
• Making your relationship a priority, even after having children
• How children adapt the things that are being modelled to them by the grown-ups around them
• How dynamics between parents shape their kids

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals, and put plans in place to actually achieve them

Better World Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Connect with Aliza Said

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mama.marriage.coach/ Website - https://www.alizasaid.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/groups/213411467618207/

Have you ever been called a Dick, Douchebag, Asshole or Pussy? Those names can sting but they each have their own archetype and behaviours that align with those names. As a human it's likely you've displayed some of those types of behaviours in the past. In this episode we dive into "Be Less Dickish" written by David & Corey about how to understand these archetypes and some insight on why and how men (and everyone!) behave like this and how to evolve. David Coates & Corey Kilpack are co-authors of Be Less Dickish: the definitive self-help book about men. David is a psychotherapist who has been practicing for nearly twenty years. Corey is David's former client. Together we created a powerful and original book that stampedes the self-help genre.We chat

• The aggressive asshole
• The submissive pussy
• The imitative douchebag
• The victimized dick
• why and how people behave like this and how to evolve

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them Better World

Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Connect with David Coates & Corey Kilpack

Website - www.belessdickish.com

Jealousy can be annoying to others, but for the person experiencing it, it's an internal world of suffering, created by themselves. In a romantic relationship, jealousy can be all consuming and smothering, leaving very little room for an abundance of joy and fulfilment. Identifying that this pattern of behaviour is driven by the fear of losing someone or getting hurt, can be the first step to freeing yourself from the all-consuming feeling of jealousy. A relationship needs security, trust and love to truly thrive. Shanenn is the host of Top Self podcast and a certified life coach helping those struggling with jealousy in their relationship take the O.N.E step towards a better relationship and improving their mental health.

We chat

• The lessons from an Adult Child of an Alcoholic
• Jealousy, it's devastating impacts and how to overcome it
• Making a life map to create self awareness of toxic behaviours

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them

Better World

Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Connect with Shanenn Bryant

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/yourtopself Website - https://www.yourtopself.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/yourtopself/

"A relationship ends when it runs out of fuel and the willingness to re-fuel is gone." - Sammi Jaeger We know that relationships need fuel to stay thriving, in this episode Founders of Fuel Collective and Hosts of The Date Forever Podcast Sammi & Nathan Jaeger share the story of how this whole business and show came about. Why they care about relationships and how they can empower you to have an even better one. We chat

• What is Fuel Collective?
• Why did Sammi & Nath start the business and show
• What is a Couple and Team and how to join

Resources

Couple & Team - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/courses

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them

Better World

Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

We all grow and develop at different paces and rates, some of us are slow, steady and consistent, others grow in sharp bursts and spikes. And some of us resist growth and change all together. In nature, it's said that if the plant isn't growing, it's dying. But each plant also has their own unique rhythm for growth. We know the same to be true for relationships, they need to continually develop to last forever. But how do we navigate the stages of a relationship when one person is growing and blooming and the other is hibernating for winter?Siobhan & Declan have been together for over a decade, Declan is a happiness researcher, author, keynote speaker and the founder of BU Happiness College. Siobhan (aka Shev) is a dog loving, cake-baking, care-giving lover of life. Having been described as an "Italian nonna" at heart due to her pride in taking care of those around her, Shev's highest priority in life is putting smiles on other people's faces. Together they've created a beautiful, loving and caring relationship that is intentional and designed. They've worked both on themselves and their relationship and in this episode they share their story and some of the lessons learned along the way. We chat

• Loving the development of your partner in a relationship
• Sharing core values at the heart of your relationship
• The role that happiness plays in a relationship
• How individual personal development journeys can strengthen your bond

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them Better World Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Connect with Siobhan & DeclanInstagram - Declan - https://www.instagram.com/declanedwards_bu/

Instagram - Siobhan - https://www.instagram.com/shevedwards/

Instagram - BU Happiness College - https://www.instagram.com/bu_happiness_college/

Website - https://buhappinesscollege.com/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/bu.happiness.college

Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@willowbythesea_

To celebrate the 100th episode of Date Forever, hosts Sammi & Nathan Jaeger have rounded up the biggest 10 lessons shared on the show. Sammi & Nathan Jaeger are Hosts of The Date Forever Podcast and Founders of Fuel Collective. Together they've been dating since 2007 and married since 2012. They sparked an interest in what makes some relationships die while others thrive, when a wave of mates went through break-ups and divorces in their late twenties and early thirties. They realised that relationship lessons are never taught at school and if you aren't interested in recreating the model of what your parents had, where do you go to learn? They've been exploring relationship skills ever since and in today's episode they recap 10 big ones that they've learned while hosting the show.We chat

1. It's important to have shared goals
2. You need 3 Lives - My Life, Their Life, Our Life
3. We need to understand and speak the 5 Love Languages
4. Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship that you have
5. Date Nights and quality time together are oxygen to a relationship
6. Keep your Fuel Tanks topped up
7. Not all relationships are the same
8. Your attitude and mindset matters
9. Get Help from an expert
10. Better Relationships = Better World

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them Better World Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Addictions come in a lot of different shapes and sizes but they all have one thing in common. They block your emotional intimacy with yourself and others. Many of us will either have or encounter a loved one who has a problem or dependency that becomes an addiction. Alcohol, drugs, gambling, food, shopping, exercise…. Navigating and healing an addiction within a relationship is possible but it starts with our relationship with ourselves.

Rob Lohman has been sober since 2001 and helps people suffering from substance abuse to find freedom from addiction and incarceration. Rob uses his story and experience to support others along with professional Interventions, Recovery Coaching & Advocacy. He is a published Author and host of two podcasts, Beyond The Bars Radio Podcast and Addiction, Freedom & Faith.

We chat

• Addictions and when we know its a problem
• How addictions can affect our relationships
• How to bring rock bottom up rather than a person with addiction having to hit rock bottom themselves.

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them Better World Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Connect with Rob LohmanInstagram - ​https://www.instagram.com/roblohmanliftedfromtherut/ Website - https://liftedfromtherut.com/Facebook - http://https//www.facebook.com/RobLohmanLiftedFromTheRut/

Intimacy and delicious sex isn't a given in all romantic relationships but it is something you can create and then keep forever. When two people decide to get deeply intimate together there can be a tonne of individual or shared sexual issues between you things like past trauma, body image issues, physical dysfunctions….. Without healing these, loss of libido can be the outcome. Couples who decide to create and care for their sex life can go on to have delicious sex forever.

Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer ® is an Intimacy, Sex, Libido & Relationship Coach & Educator. She works with mind, body & spirit utilising her skills in NLP, working on the deep subconscious to bring about changes on the conscious level. Pauline works with individuals and couples around intimacy, sex, relationships and everything in between. We chat

• Healing sexual issues
• Doing the things that make you feel sexy
• Is losing your libido just a part of life?

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them Better World

Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet. Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/ Connect with Pauline Ryeland Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/intimacywhisperer/ Website - http://www.paulineryeland.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/intimacywhisperer

In our life and relationships it's inevitable there will be things that we just didn't expect, asteroids. Things that come from nowhere. They might come in the shape of health, wealth, finance, responsibilities or just wild curve-balls, one of those kinds of things that happens to "other people" is likely to happen to you, or someone you love. Improving the muscle of resilience and the ability to overcome unexpected obstacles is a skill you'll need so that you can continue to succeed despite difficulties.In 2007 Jack Annear woke up in a hospital bed hurting from head to toe, only to discover he had lost three of his best mates in a terrible car accident. Throughout this gut wrenching trauma, Jack developed coping mechanisms that are the key traits of resilience. Jack now teaches the skill of resilience to others to help them navigate tough times in their own lives and relationships.We chat

• All about resilience, what is it and how do we improve it
• The importance of focusing on things you can control
• How the art of practicing gratitude can rewire your brain.

Better Relationships

We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them

Better World

Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet.

Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thefuelcollective Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingcouples/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/fuel_collective Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuel Collective - https://www.instagram.com/fuel.collective/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/

Connect with Jack Annear

Website - www.jackannear.com.au Facebook - www.facebook.com/avoiceandannear