Date Night China

Nicole and Andrei are an international couple who went from Tinder, to long-distance, to engagement & marriage, to now living in different countries again waiting to be reunited. 

Andrei (from Russia and currently living in Dalian) and Nicole (from Guangzhou and currently living in Poland) join us to chat about how they met on Tinder in Beijing just 17 days before Nicole was leaving for a job in Ukraine. They share how they stayed in touch and started dating, how they overcome the challenges of being long distance (twice), and how they got married in China.

Jiovani del Toro, AKA Cocosanti, is a drag artist and MC based in Shanghai. You’ll find them hosting many events at Pearl Theater, where they play hostess for a variety of showcases, including Drag Extravaganzas, Cabaret and Burlesque shows, and (their personal fav) Magic Mike.

Jiovani joins us to share about their inspiration for becoming a drag artist, and how the drag scene differs in the U.S. versus China. They also share how being a drag artist and performer has impacted their dating life, and the Queer beauty perspective in drag and in China.

Date Night China Anonymous: Every month we’ll share 4 new story prompts for you to respond to about dating, relationships, and community in China. http://dncsurveys.mikecrm.com/zcuqgMW

Valentine and Haydn are advocates for speaking openly on men’s mental health and community, and host their own personal projects in China to help these initiatives. Masculinity in and of itself is a big topic, but this week they join us to chat about their personal experiences with forming close male friendships, stereotypes and stigmas men face in today's society, mental health and depression, and more.

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Raz Galor, co-founder of the new media company YChina, is a key public figure in China’s media world – but today we get to know more about a lesser seen side of him: his personal and romantic life. Raz and his fiancé Tal Shalev join us to talk about meeting first in China then reconnecting in Israel, their hilarious first impressions of each other, and their shared values in faith and family. 

They also discuss the challenges of dating a public figure, how they like to go offline in their personal time, and Raz teases Tal about taking more photos of food than photos of them together. We also hear the story of their proposal and how it got 4M+ views on social media! YChina (歪果仁研究協會) is a media platform founded in December 2016 with the theme of interviewing foreigners in China on pop culture, trends, and more. Find them on Bilibili, Weibo, Douyin, WeChat, and YouTube.

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Winxi and Diana, two co-founders of the Oh Collective, join us to chat about female pleasure, the intimate wellness industry in China, and how to spice up your sex life - with or without a partner.

They also share about growing up with both Western and Eastern cultures, their own experiences dating in China, and how they combat taboos and stigmas around sex and pleasure for women.

About the Oh Collective: Four friends created the Oh Collective to inspire all women to be confident and happy with their intimate selves by recognizing their physical needs and their own definition of "pleasure."  They believe you don't need to be ashamed or shy to explore your body, and they help provide women with safe and reliable products, a trusted community and content that offers 100% good vibes only!

Paul and Kelaeni, an expat couple in China, have been waiting for 3 years to get married – and were finally able to do so at the British Consulate in Beijing in July 2022! They share more about meeting in a small city in Shandong Province, trying to plan multiple weddings during the pandemic, and what their wedding day at the consulate was like.

And in a fun twist of events, DNC hosts Nathan and Rachel actually attended this wedding as the witnesses and share their experience of the day.

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Martyn, a self-professed f*ckboy when it comes to dating, candidly shares his approach on relationships, how he keeps his friends separate from his dating life, and how he is honest with guys about what he is looking for.

He then dives into his relationship history, sharing the heartbreak that made him become a f*ckboy and the self-reflections he’s had since then. 

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In part 2 of Practicing Polyamory, Kat is back with one of her other partners in China, Dave from the US. Kat and Dave share how they met, how they handle feelings of jealousy, and how to give space for your partner to process their feelings. Dave talks about the first time he met Kat’s nesting partner Hadyn (his metamour), and the boundaries they discussed before the three of them attended their first party together. 

Kat and Dave also stress the importance of complete honesty and communication, and how you need to give each person their own choice and agency to fully make their own decisions. At the end they also share a fun and interesting way they talk through situations.

Listen to Ep. 9 to hear Part 1 with Kat and Haydn, polyamorous individuals and nesting partners in China.

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Samantha, co-host of ‘From Tops To Bottoms’ podcast, joins us this week for a hilarious, open, and honest chat about her Tinder fails and sexual explorations in China. She shares how she left a long-term relationship in the UK and went on her first Tinder date in Beijing (which her co-host Cassie followed her on in disguise), how she went on a date with a guy who turned out to be extremely racist, and other dating experiences she's had.

She also talks about fatphobia in China, how working at a kindergarten has given her thick skin, and the thin line between appreciating a body and fetishizing. The DNC hosts and Samantha also talk about how moving to China gives people freedom to explore their identity outside of their home country, how some truly terrible and traumatic dates are funnier in hindsight than they are in the moment, and why women have a difficult time saying no in uncomfortable situations (but should just say f*ck that!). Also, Nathan starts a drinking game where everyone needs to drink anytime someone says “transient” on the podcast. 

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