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  • S5E3: Why He Didn't Call You Back w/ Guest, Chris Gillis

    Summary

    Get ready for a rollercoaster of an episode with Andrea and Chris on "Date Smarter Sexier"! They're diving deep into the mysterious world of modern dating. Ever wondered why men vanish without a trace? They're tackling the intriguing reasons behind ghosting and unraveling the complex art of breadcrumbing. 

    Hold on, as they use the fishing analogy to explain why some men keep their options wide open, and dissect the fear of commitment that haunts many. It's a wild ride through the challenges of dating multiple people and the intense pressure to build an empire.

    Brace yourself for an honest conversation about the struggle to express emotions and the tempting escape of ghosting. They're not shying away from the hot topic of entitlement and the pursuit of a higher 'rating' in the dating game.

    The episode reaches a thrilling climax with a bold discussion on the pitfalls of Facebook groups and the fear of being exposed in the digital age.

    But that's not all! Chris and Andrea also delve into the magnetic allure of feminine energy, the delicate timing of sexual activity, and the profound impact of sex on bonding. They're bringing mindfulness into dating, urging us to savor the journey and cherish the age-old art of courting.

    This episode is a treasure trove of insights on love, relationships, and everything in between. Tune in for a mesmerizing exploration of the heart's deepest desires and fears. Don't miss this electrifying episode of "Date Smarter Sexier"!

    Contact:

    Chris Gillis:

    IG and TikTok: @ConsultantChris 

    Website: www.ConsultantChris.com 


    For more information: www.datesmartermatchmaking.com

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction

    01:35 Why Do Men Ghost?

    04:32 The Lure of the Unicorn

    07:48 Fear of Expressing Emotions

    10:26 Taking Ownership of Ghosting

    14:16 The Entitlement Issue

    19:08 The Independent Woman Dilemma

    25:15 The Disappointment of Settling

    30:26 Making Him Feel Appreciated

    37:20 The Fear of Being Exposed

    40:11 The Attraction of Feminine Energy

    41:06 The Timing of Sexual Activity

    45:07 Being Mindful in Dating

    47:28 Appreciating the Courting Process

    47:52 Closing Remarks and Contact Information


    For more information go to: www.datesmartermatchmaking.com

    50 min
  • S5E2: Getting Real About Condom Use With New Partners with Guest Canaan Dewey


    In this insightful and engaging episode of "Date Smarter Sexier," we delve into a topic that's both crucial and often tiptoed around: the use of condoms in the dating world. Joined by the ever-charismatic Canaan, we embark on a frank discussion about the importance of condom usage for safe and responsible dating.

    The episode kicks off with a light-hearted yet informative exploration of the basics of condom use, emphasizing not just the 'how' but the 'why' behind this essential practice. Canaan, with his unique blend of humor and expertise, and your show host, Andrea LaRosa, help demystify misconceptions and apprehensions surrounding condom usage.

    As we dive deeper, the conversation shifts to address some of the challenges and obstacles people often face. We talk about the awkwardness that can arise in conversations about condoms with new partners, the myths versus facts about pleasure and sensitivity, and how to navigate situations where opinions about condom use differ.

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the modern dating scene, offering a perfect mix of lighthearted banter and serious, thoughtful discussion about an issue that impacts everyone in the dating world.



    For more information go to: www.datesmartermatchmaking.com

    28 min
  • S5 Episode 1: New Beginnings!!! Solo Flight into Navigating the World of Mature Dating

    Summary

    Get ready for a brand new season of "Date Smarter Sexier" with your fabulous host, Andrea LaRosa! This season kicks off with a bang as Andrea dives into the exciting and often overlooked world of dating in life's golden years. 🌟

    In this must-listen episode, Andrea shares eye-opening insights from her experience watching "The Golden Bachelor", shedding light on the unique challenges and adventures faced by mature singles in the quest for love. It's a fascinating journey into the heart of the dating scene for older individuals.

    But wait, there's more! Andrea doesn't just explore the hurdles; she celebrates the incredible benefits of dating later in life. Get ready to be inspired by her expert tips for successful and joyous mature dating. She's talking about embracing technology with a zest for life, the art of patience in love, and the absolute necessity of open, honest communication.

    And here's the heartwarming part: Andrea's passionate call to appreciate and support older adults as they navigate their dating journeys. This episode isn't just informative; it's a heartfelt tribute to the timeless nature of love and romance.

    So, grab your headphones and prepare to be enlightened, entertained, and inspired. This episode of "Date Smarter Sexier" is an absolute game-changer for anyone interested in the rich tapestry of mature dating. Tune in now and join Andrea on this remarkable journey! 


    Takeaways

    • Dating in the later stages of life can present unique challenges, such as navigating technology and family dynamics.

    • However, there are also benefits to dating later in life, including a depth of experience and clear priorities.

    • Tips for successful mature dating include embracing technology, staying patient, and maintaining open communication.

    • It is important to appreciate and support older adults in their dating journeys.


    • Chapters

      00:00 Introduction to a New Season

      02:05 Dating in the Later Stages of Life

      06:02 Challenges of Dating When You're Older

      12:17 Benefits of Dating Later in Life

      15:24 Tips for Successful Mature Dating


      For more information go to: www.datesmartermatchmaking.com

      19 min
    • S4 FINALE: "100th EPISODE!!!"

      In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss ways to have better relationships with lovers, platonic and self with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.


      Season 5 Starts 10.20.2023


      Follow:

      Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com

      Canaan www.canaandewey.com

      Send your questions to: [email protected]

      Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow

      Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier

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      *Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

      1 hr 7 min
    • S4 Episode 24: "Breaking Down Stereotypes: The Untold Intersection of Slut Shaming and Jealousy"

      In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss shaming and jealousy within dating and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.

      Follow:

      Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com

      Canaan www.canaandewey.com

      Send your questions to: [email protected]

      Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow

      Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier

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      *Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

      49 min
    • S4 Episode 23: "Effective Strategies for Surviving Life and Peer Pressure When Dating"

      In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss effective ways to survive life and peer pressure when dating or in a relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.

      Follow:

      Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com

      Canaan www.canaandewey.com

      Send your questions to: [email protected]

      Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow

      Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier

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      *Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

      48 min
    • S4 Episode 22: "Love Across the Miles and Side by Side: Exploring the Challenges of Long-Distance Dating and Working from Home"

      In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses opposite spectrums for some modern couples; managing long-distance relationship expectations and how to work from home together and keep the spark alive with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.

      Follow:

      Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com

      Canaan www.canaandewey.com

      Send your questions to: [email protected]

      Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow

      Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier

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      *Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

      53 min
    • S4 Episode 21: SUMMER TRIPS FOR ONE! (Strengthen Your Relationship With Yourself)

      In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses strengthening the relationship we have with outselves with solo trips with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.

      Follow:

      Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com

      Canaan www.canaandewey.com

      Send your questions to: [email protected]

      Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow

      Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier

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      *Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

      46 min
    • S4 Episode 20: "Answering Your Questions About Relationships Part 2"

      In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa is answering your questions about love, dating and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.

      Follow:

      Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com

      Canaan www.canaandewey.com

      Send your questions to: [email protected]

      Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow

      Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier

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      *Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

      52 min
    • S4 Episode 19: "The Impact of Grief on Your Relationship"

      In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss how grief can have a significant impact on relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.

      Follow:

      Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com

      Canaan www.canaandewey.com

      Send your questions to: [email protected]

      Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow

      Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier

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      *Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

      56 min

    About Date Smarter. Sexier.

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    Welcome to Date Smarter Sexier — the podcast that tells modern dating to take a seat and listen up. Host Andrea LaRosa (communication coach, author, and reformed matchmaker) serves up unfiltered…