Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

We are back for Season 3! On Episode 33 - Duped Part 2, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn share on being duped and catfished by someone else.  It seems harder and harder to meet someone in person nowadays with our increasing reliance on online dating apps and online communication.  We trust that the services and tools that we use are reliable and that we can trust the people we are engaging with.  For the most part, singles online are good people and looking for a connection just like all of us.  However, on the darker side of the spectrum, there are those who Catfish and prey on the vulnerability, hopes, and dreams of those of us looking for love. 

Maxwell gets very close to compromising his values and life for a guy he used to chase after in the past who only has recently noticed him. Shortly after, Max feels seen and heard for the first time after meeting a talented and gorgeous rock climber.  Brooklyn runs into an ex from the past during an event and realizes how much he has come to terms with his past, and how special his current relationship is. Beau gets honest about the end of his last relationship and the changes his life has recently taken.

Dallas celebrity, food blogger, and influencer of @SouthDallasFood, Stephanie Dorn,  is our guest and gives us some ideas for places to go in Dallas now that Spring is here!  We answer a listener's e-mailing whose boyfriend constantly responds with "I don't know. What do you want to do?" and we review the article "Kittenfishing: The common dating trend you're probably (slightly) guilty of.”  from NBCnews.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to Esther Perel host of the podcast Where Should We Begin and author of the New York Times bestsellers, "The State of Affairs:  We Thinking Infidelity."

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Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

On Episode 32 - Desperately seeking cupiD: A Dating and The Big D Valentine,s Special, Max, Beau Brooklyn share about the anxieties and joys of Valentine's Day.  We see it everywhere red, white, and pink in the stores galore with Valentine's Day cards, chocolate, flowers, and suddenly all of the restaurant reservations are filled for one day out of the year set aside for lovers.  The pressure to find a date or a relationship can almost be paralyzing and maddening.  Some are driven to send to themselves the dreaded bouquet of flowers to work or find a date or a relationship with anyone just in time for Valentine's Day.  Others renounce the holiday altogether.  Whatever your choice is, the pressure is felt by many in the hope to be hit by Cupid's own arrow. 

We introduce our new intern and sound guy JB.  Max breaks it off with the guy he went to go visit. Brooklyn announces a new development in his relationship, and Beau takes himself off the market for a special lady.

Celebrated NYC Dating Coach, Connell Barrett is our guest in the studio and discusses "Dating with Authenticity." We answer a listener's e-mail worried she may not find a date for Valentine's Day, and we review the article "Singles On Valentine's Day Feel 'Pressured,' Survey Finds Trending News: Is It A Big Deal If You're Not In A Relationship On Valentine's Day? ” from askmen.com.  We go over our Call to Action, and Episode Quote.

Music featured on this episode:

Bird Brainz- Otis McDonald
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Sergey Wednesday - Beautiful Piano(Romantic Royalty-Free Music
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Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, Conrad Dixon explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, and relationships in the city.

On Episode 14 - Dumped, Max, Beau, and Conrad discuss their experiences with being dumped or having to dump someone. We all have been dumped or have had to dump someone we were dating. It usually doesn’t feel good and sometimes we try to prolong the relationship to avoid this often uncomfortable experience.

Beau Alexander returns as our stand-in cohost and Conrad Dickson joins us as our guest cohost. Beau spills the tea about why he had to block his ex from the last episode. Conrad gets to practice healthy boundaries with an ex and shares how he handles breakups. Max shares the first few dates he's had with two guys now that he's started dating. Clinton Richie from Dallas is this episode's dating guru. We go over our dating quiz, “These 17 Questions Will Tell You If You Should Dump Or Not.” From Buzzfeed and we discuss the article, “How Long You Should Wait To Date Again After A Break Up According to Experts” from thriveglobal.com. We give a shout out to Maxwell's Gay Dodgeball - Dallas team, The Alcoballics as they start their new season in January of 2020. Check out gaydodgeball.com if you are interested in joining the Gay Dodge Ball league in your city.

Music featured on this episode:

Closer Now ( Funk Remix ) by Dysfunction_AL (c) copyright 2012 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/destinazione_altrove/39341

Ft: SnowflakeSpheres (Hip Hop Instrumental) by Robbero (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/Robbero/43483

Drunk TXT ( Remix ) by Dysfunction_AL (c) copyright 2019 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/destinazione_altrove/59759 Ft: Section_808

Maxwell Anders, Charlie Gold, and Sommer Bailey explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, and relationships in the city.

On Episode 1 - Dallas, we love the Big D. Max, Charlie, and Sommer share their experiences with dating in the Big D. How do we feel about the dating scene in Dallas?  Where do we go out to meet other singles in Dallas?  Does Dallas or other cities have their own singles and dating scene style?

Sommer goes on three dates in one week!  Guess which one she likes?  Max joins a gay men's group online as part of his personal development and goes out dancing where he gets hit on several times.  Charlie reaches out to a guy she was hoping to hear back from and they go on a second date.

Ben the Soldier Dallas is our guest dating guru for this episode.  We play this episode's dating quiz "This Dating  Test Will Reveal What People Find Most Attractive About You." from BuzzFeed,  we announce this episode dating challenge and we review the article “Guide to Dating in Dallas without Tinder or Dating Apps” from Thrillist.  We go over our Call to Action, and Episode Quote.

Music featured on this episode:

Happy Hornet by reusenoise (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. dig.ccmixter.org/files/reusenoise/57364

Wayo wayo, Danca Danca... by reiswerk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. dig.ccmixter.org/files/Reiswerk/50067

Shiro (Kirkoid Mix) by Kirkoid (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/Kirkoid/43938 

Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

On Episode 31 - hoe for the holiDays: A Dating and The Big D Holiday Special, Max, Brooklyn. and JB reminisce about being naughty and nice during the holidays!  It’s the most wonderful time of the year!  Love ones unite and we get into the spirit of giving. Many are home for the holidays or they go out of town and there is something about feeling nostalgic or being out of our element that gets us all worked up, Sometimes it’s loneliness and sometimes it’s just being a horny devil.  Either way, we want to connect, feel something, or feel good.  It’s no wonder the holiday season is filled with thoughts of hoe-hoe-hoe, being naughty or nice, and all I want for Christmas is dudes!

JB from Dallas stands-in as co-host while Beau is out for this episode and we change it up a bit and play "Never Have I Ever" after each one of us shares a dating story or update!

Maxwell has decided to delete the dating apps while he gets to know and makes plans on meeting the hottie from OKC.  Will sparks lead to flames? Brooklyn and his boyfriend celebrate Christmas together driving around in bunny suits like Ralphie from "A Christmas Story."  JB and his new boyfriend celebrate Christmas together with their puppy.  Does he give up them cakes once and for all?

JB from Dallas is our guest dating guru.  We answer a listener's e-mail asking about letting her ex-boyfriend know that she's dating his best friend, and we review the article "This Is Whom Single People Are Hooking Up With Over The Holidays” from New York Post.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to four tv shows who have prominently and positively featured LGBTQ2 characters in 2020.

Music featured on this episode:

Christmas Village - Aaron Kenny
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Heavy Petting - Otis McDonald
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RYYZN - Souls [Copyright Free]
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Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

On the Season 2 Finale, Episode 30 - Duped Part 1, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn open up on dating someone they thought they knew who turned out to be someone else.  You know everything about me, and I know everything about you.  We share our lives together and grow together.  We like to think that we know the person we are with, until we don’t.  What does one do when everything we thought we knew may have been a lie?

Dating, sex, and relationships abound with our terrific trio as we wrap up season two!  Brooklyn prepares for a quiet holiday experience with his boyfriend as they adjust for a quieter Christmas together at their new home.  Beau has multiple dating offers, and decides on a lovely woman who supports his healthy and spiritual lifestyle. 

When it rains, it pours! Maxwell finally gets hit on by two rock climbers but does his dream come true?  Max gets stood up twice on the same day by the same guy.  Later he gets to meet up again with the daddy who wants a daddy.  Finally, Max meets a guy who is mutually crazy about him and lives a few hours away.

We introduce our new sound tech Austin Watson from Dallas who is joining the show on the upcoming third season in 2021.  We reflect on season two, what we have learned, and the takeaways.  We set our intentions for season three and the upcoming year.

We answer a listener's heart-felt e-mail asking what to do differently after repeatedly being cheated on, and we review the article "Ask Dr. Conte: My Longterm Relationship Was Based on A Lie – What Do I Do Now?" from drchristrianconte.com.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a personal shout out to those who have impacted our lives, all of our guests, and to all of you, our listeners, who have made season two spectacular.

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Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

On episode 29 - Destiny, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn dive deep into whether destiny plays a part in our love lives.  What are in the cards for me?  Is life a game of chance when meeting someone and finding love? Do we believe that we will only find it when we are not looking for it? Sometimes we are so focused on finding that perfect relationship or mate.  Yet at other times we may believe that we are destined to be alone.  Am I destined to find love?  What does the future hold?

Beau's focus and dedication to working on himself are paying off and others are starting to take note.  Brooklyn's relationship is blossoming and they are experiencing added intimacy emotionally and physically.  Max reminds himself not to chase after men who do not reciprocate attention.  Lastly, Maxwell gets to meet the sexy polyamorous daddy who is looking for a daddy for himself.
 
Luke Kent from Dallas is our guest dating guru for this episode.  We answer a listener's e-mail regarding a possible haunting at a holiday get together from a guy who ghosted her, and we review the article "The Trouble With Destiny: Relationships Take Work" from the Berkeley Science Review.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to all our family and friends during this holiday season!

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Nico Staf - Fast and Run
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Prismo - Stronger [NCS Release]
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Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

On episode 28 - Danger, Max, Brooklyn, and Pam open up about risky dating and relationships.  Trouble Trouble Trouble.  Can't get enough of it and can’t get away from it?  We love exciting and we love the thrill of life.  However, sometimes, too much of a good thing puts us at risk in our dating, love, and sex lives.  Some are attracted to it and can’t seem to be happy any other way.  Is dating on the edge thrilling or just fool hearty and dangerous?

Pam Edwards is our guest co-host filling in for Beau who will be back in the next episode. Max identifies some red flags with a potential suitor and later goes on a picnic date with a sweetheart. Did sparks fly?  Pam updates us on some major growth she is encountering with her partner.  Brooklyn shares how he and his boyfriend eloquently handle conflict resolution. 
 
John Chapman from Dallas is our guest dating guru for this episode.  We answer a listener's question on how long one should wait to hear back from your last date, and we review the article "Warning Signs of Dangerous Relationships-Why We Ignore Them on First, Second and Third Dates" from Psychology Today.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to psychtogo.

Music featured on this episode:

Average by Patrick Patrikios https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTPI2hZYxoHtdGEpdFoaU5A/about
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At The Kitchen Table by Savfk
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Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

On episode 27 - Dexters, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn delve into dating a potential psycho.  Meeting a person with ambition and determination can be exciting and sexy.  We meet that person who seems so great and almost too perfect.  However, something seems just off and we can’t quite put our finger on it.  They seem like everyone else at first.  They are charming and attractive, but they slowly seem to unravel and show their true colors.    What do we when we think we may be dating a psycho?

Brookly and his boyfriend celebrate 2 years together and update us on how the next stage of their relationship is evolving! Beau opens up and shares his experience with being rejected and how he decides to take care of himself.  Max's most recent FWB experience may have played itself out, and he opens up on possibly exploring a fetish.

Casey Durham from Dallas returns to the show but as a guest, this time around, and opens up about a close call with a potential Dexter.  We answer a listener's e-mail regarding if a first date should be with a group of friends.  We review the book "Why You're Not Married Yet - The Straight Talk You Need To Get The Relationship Yo Deserve" by Tracy McMillan.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to the right to vote!

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Supa Bass by Peyruis https://soundcloud.com/peyruis
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Maxwell Anders, Beau Alexander, and Brooklyn Steele explore and share on the ups and downs of dating, sex, relationships, and all things related to the Big D.

On episode 26 - Driven, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn open about dating when someone is ambitious.  Meeting a person with ambition and determination can be exciting and sexy.  They have their eye on the prize and we may be part of that journey.  Can such goal-driven aspirations hinder the romantic experience and get in the way of love and connection?  Are we on the road to success and looking for that next prize to claim as our own?

Brooklyn is back and he shares on the next major step his relationship has taken! Hilarity ensues when Beau walks up to a girl and hands her his number.  Max realizes that he may be looking for signs when there is really no match.  Later he meets a kick-ass dude he is having fun with.

Patrick Maverick from Dallas is our guest dating guru on this episode.  We answer a listener's e-mail regarding pansexual relationships, and we review the article "Should You Date A Less Ambitious Person? A Relationship Expert Weighs In" from Forbes.  We go over our Call to Action, Episode Quote, and we give a shout out to Summit Climbing, Yoga and Fitness.

Music featured on this episode:

Desert Brawl - Vans in Japan

Don't Hate Me - Digital Punks

Street Rhapsody - DJ Freedom