Dating Funnies - Actual stories of dating

Wishing you a VERY,VERY Merry Christmas!

Jim has been a long time listener on my Podcast and reached out to me as he wanted to discuss dating in Sweden as well as some of his struggles in finding a partner.

I will share that my instanity is being tested, AGAIN! Yet I still continue to venture out to meet someone. 

Let's all be intentional on what we are striving for in dating and QUIT ghosting people Grow Up!

For anyone over 50 years old, how many summers do you think you really have? Let's stop the bullshit and go and meet people as you might surprise yourself and find someone you enjoy being with. 

Do you like to "dance" outside of the "vanilla" world? If so you should check out FetLife and the app Feeld. 

Great idea on how to track who you met, how the date was, and staying safe and having fun dating. 

You can find the App on your Android and online at: https://www.mylittleblkbook.com/

I am still amazed that a Bumble date told me that I am a "White Privelaged Man", and that seh expects me to pay for ALL of the dates..WOW!

The Bachelor is thinking of starting a series called the Senior Bachelor, and I am being consdiered again.

In Emily's journey she was able to explore her desires and versions of herself she’d previously kept hidden. Her journey of discovery, as she states -  "an undeniable need to let those small, quiet parts of her have a voice. To expose her darkest secrets, no matter how terrifying and, ultimately, to know and love every last part of herself—no matter what it might cost" and in that journey she was able to Love herself, and love who she was, and is today. She became a better partner by agreeing to open her relationship with her primary partner and through  those experiences she was able to learn how to be more open, and less fearful, on what she needs and expects in a relationship.

Been an interesting couple of weeks, seems that the Universe is still playing games with me by sending me the same type of people regardless of the dating site or dating apps that I meet people. How do I "Level Up"? that is the question. Where do we find people that match our energy, our passion, our financial stability, our drive, and our enthusiasm? Where are they? 

How do we show up on dates? In our relationships? Understanding the 5 Love Languages and our Attachment Styles. With a better understanding of who we are, maybe, we become a better date and partner in this mad world called dating.  Time to break old patterns!

So many Flags to consider - Green, Pink, Yellow, and Red! 

A new business opportunity being a FinDomme! 

What are good questions to ask on a 1st date?

This week I discuss my continued frustration with dating and feeling like giving up on dating, especially after my last dating partner lying and cheating and I caught her. I have learned so much, sadly again, about Gaslighting, Breadcrumbing, Devaluation, and more. I am PISSED at myself that I allowed myself to be fooled again.  I am SOooooo Tired, actually PISSED that I keep running into liars and cheaters. Dating is NO fun these days, ready to step away from ALL dating sites and Apps.