We are doing more than need to as women while dating just to avoid getting hurt... like trying to be more intentional, more discerning, more picky, and the endless list goes on, and it doesn't even work, you can do all this and still get hurt, still get rejected, still feel lonely. so I'm proposing something else in today's episode.

When was the last time you had so much fun you forgot what you were so worried about? This episode is a love letter to all my type A, eldest daughter, hyper independent girly pops about finding love, it was never that serious.

6 years ago I was trying to make sure I was every guy's dream girl, because I believed being the best version of myself would attract better men. So why wasn't it? Why, if I was my best self, was I not meeting my person? Why was I still having men from my past pop up, or men who claimed to be interested but never got to know the real me? In this episode I explain the only "strategic" change I made to my actual dating and love life and how it made meeting my person one of the easiest, most joyful experiences I ever had.

If you’re longing for true love but you’re tired of trying to get it this week’s fresh start episode of the podcast is for you.

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We are playing small with love, and I'm not talking about just settling for the wrong person. I'm talking about it being decided that there are only two ways to date, or believing that the love we want doesn't exist, or not ending things early because it's "harmless" when we know deeply and intuitively that it isn't for us, or making our single lives the prologue to the rest of our lives. Dating, meeting your person, and falling in love gets to be epic if you want it to be. It doesn't have to be this thing that you just get through in order to hopefully find love. Listen to this episode if you are tired of feeling like your time is wasted on dating but you have the desire to have it all, the health, the wealth, the true love and partnership.

Today we are talking about cutting off pieces of yourself in order to be liked, the burden of dating being on women, and why more women need to enter their F*** it era.

How to stop choosing between your peace and finding true love

For the women in the in between space of dating. You've exited your healing era but have zero interest in diving head first back into the dating pool. If you want to meet your person and experience the kind of love you've always dreamed about without losing your health, wealth, or happiness listen to this episode and start feeling like the first choice before you even meet another man. If it's your first time listening send me a DM and say hi to me over on IG @sullywittrock.

You're a catch, act like it

Find out if you're falling into the trap of "doing all the right things" in order to try and meet your person and how it can become a lot easier with one simple question before you even try to put yourself back into the dating pool.