Why is dating such a big deal in Arab families—and why does it feel so judged?

IToday we get real about dating while Arab American. From navigating reputation and cultural expectations to building trust and making your own choices, they open up about the awkward, the honest, and everything in between.

You’ll hear stories about growing up with strict parents, the “no dating” rule, and how to actually talk to your parents (without starting World War III). They break down the importance of open communication, why reputation matters (but doesn’t define you), and how setting boundaries can actually build trust.

Whether you’re a teen figuring it all out, a parent trying to understand, or just nosy (we see you), this episode is packed with insight, laughter, and love.

You’ll learn:

- Why dating is taboo in many Arab households
- How to approach the topic with your parents (without freaking them out)
- What healthy dating looks like—with real limitations and real conversations
- Why grace, trust, and open hearts matter on both sides

Listen in and remember: it’s not about being perfect—it’s about being honest, respectful, and human.

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Chapters:

00:00 - Welcome to In Session with Nat & Ange

00:45 - Why dating is such a hot topic in Arab communities 

02:00 - American norms vs. Arab expectations 

04:30 - Arranged marriages & why our parents think differently 

07:00 - Is love enough? Dating vs. traditional marriage values 

10:00 - Are we chasing feelings or choosing love? 

13:00 - Honest conversations: parents vs. kids

 16:00 - Reputation: why it matters and how to talk about it 

20:00 - Purity culture and parental fears 

24:00 - Building trust through vulnerability 

28:00 - Letting kids make mistakes—and be safe doing it 

32:00 - The difference between teenage and adult dating 

35:00 - What dating with limitations actually means 

38:00 - What to look for in a dating partner 

41:00 - Don’t look for perfect—look for growth

 44:00 - Dating isn’t wrong—it just needs real conversations 

46:30 - Final thoughts: Normalize dating with respe