Let’s be honest.
Most of us think anxiety means something is wrong with us.
But what if that’s not true?
In this episode, I break down what anxiety really is, why your brain goes into fight, flight, or freeze… and the mistake almost everyone makes that keeps the cycle going.
We talk about panic attacks that hit out of nowhere.
Fear of planes.
Fear of the unknown.
Overthinking made-up scenarios.
And the simple shifts that can change everything.
This is not about “just calm down.”
This is about taking your power back.
Anxiety is trying to protect you.
But if you let it run the show, it will shrink your life.
And I refuse to let that happen to you.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why avoiding what scares you actually trains your brain to fear it more
- The hidden loop that keeps anxiety growing in the background
- A powerful way to talk back to your thoughts before they spiral
If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own head…
If you’ve ever avoided something and felt relief for a second—but worse later…
If you’re tired of fear making your decisions…
This episode is for you.
Listen now. And start taking control of what you can control.
Chapters:
00:00 – Why We’re Talking About Anxiety
00:00:43 – What Anxiety Really Looks Like
00:04:05 – What’s Happening in Your Brain
00:05:27 – Fight, Flight, or Freeze Explained
00:06:33 – How Avoidance Reinforces Fear
00:08:15 – The Anxiety Loop
00:10:01 – Irrational Fears and Evidence Checking
00:20:08 – Challenging Your Thoughts
00:24:16 – The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Method
00:28:14 – Box Breathing Explained
00:32:50 – The “Let Them” Mindset
00:36:07 – Crushing Automatic Negative Thoughts