Let’s be honest.

Most of us think anxiety means something is wrong with us.

But what if that’s not true?

In this episode, I break down what anxiety really is, why your brain goes into fight, flight, or freeze… and the mistake almost everyone makes that keeps the cycle going.

We talk about panic attacks that hit out of nowhere.

Fear of planes.

Fear of the unknown.

Overthinking made-up scenarios.

And the simple shifts that can change everything.

This is not about “just calm down.”

This is about taking your power back.

Anxiety is trying to protect you.

But if you let it run the show, it will shrink your life.

And I refuse to let that happen to you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why avoiding what scares you actually trains your brain to fear it more
• The hidden loop that keeps anxiety growing in the background
• A powerful way to talk back to your thoughts before they spiral

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own head…

If you’ve ever avoided something and felt relief for a second—but worse later…

If you’re tired of fear making your decisions…

This episode is for you.

Listen now. And start taking control of what you can control.

Chapters:

00:00 – Why We’re Talking About Anxiety

00:00:43 – What Anxiety Really Looks Like

00:04:05 – What’s Happening in Your Brain

00:05:27 – Fight, Flight, or Freeze Explained

00:06:33 – How Avoidance Reinforces Fear

00:08:15 – The Anxiety Loop

00:10:01 – Irrational Fears and Evidence Checking

00:20:08 – Challenging Your Thoughts

00:24:16 – The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Method

00:28:14 – Box Breathing Explained

00:32:50 – The “Let Them” Mindset

00:36:07 – Crushing Automatic Negative Thoughts