Dating in your 40s can feel like a cosmic rollercoaster. One minute you’re certain today’s the day you meet Mr. Right. The next, you’re on the couch, wine in hand, convinced love ghosted you for good. 

In this episode, we’re talking about:

💔 The “I’m so close!” optimism high followed by the crash into hopelessness

🛟 How to emotionally support yourself while dating

🌊 The “cosmic surfboard” strategy for riding the waves

💌 10 ways to stay open to love even when it feels hard

Because when you’re dating after 40, the stakes feel higher, but the love you’re calling in is so worth it. And yes… it is closer than you think.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• You don’t have to “stay positive” You just need to stay authentic

• Your emotions aren’t a problem, repressing them is

• Your journey is preparing you for the love you asked for

• You can have bad days and still be moving closer to love

• Every action counts even couch-days with your cat 🐈‍⬛

🧰 Tools Mentioned

✔ 10 powerful strategies to manage emotional ups + downs

✔ Tapping through fear with the “Then What?” exercise

✔ Heart-connection practices

✔ Emotional support + expansion rituals

✔ The top resource to use when you feel discouraged

🔥 Don’t Miss This Part

The one belief to delete immediately if you want to find real love after 40. “I have to be positive or I’ll never meet someone.”

Authenticity is more magnetic than perfection ever will be.

Ready for love to feel exciting again, not exhausting?

Hit play now to learn how to ride the emotional waves of dating in your 40s (without spiraling every time someone ghosts). 🎧👇

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